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Posted on Wed, 10 Dec 2014
Question: sir i m a married man i passed 6 months afterarrige but i n my wife had not yet intercorse so pllz help i cant do it due to before mastarbution so pllz help me out thanks
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Answered by Dr. Rakesh Sharma (1 hour later)
Brief Answer:
Need more information

Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Welcome to HCM.
I am Dr Rakesh Sharma answering your query.
I can understand your concern.
Masturbation is usually not the cause of inability to indulge in sex.
I need little more information about your private and personal life to give a more useful answer,
1.If this marriage has consent of both of you?
2.Are you staying with only your wife, or there are more family members in your house?
3.How is your marriage going other than sex life?
4.Do both of you feel like having sex or not?
5.Do you get erection or not?
6.Do you involve in fore play or not?
7.How does your wife react to your response of not having sex?
8.Do you have had sex before marriage,ever, if yes, how did that go?
If you want to add any thing which you feel may be important about your relationship, please do not hesitate.
Please write me back, so that I can give you some useful answer.
Waiting for your reply,
Best wishes.


Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Rakesh Sharma (2 hours later)
yes
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Answered by Dr. Rakesh Sharma (9 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
details required.

Detailed Answer:
Hello again,
Please give your details as per my question for a useful reply.
good luck.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Rakesh Sharma (17 minutes later)
yes we are happy in our married life we stay in a join family while having sex i dont get proper erection because of which intercourse is not possible and i get nervous and my wife because our love co operates me but we both are very excited to have sex so plllz help us out and i have not sex before in my life thanks pllz hlep out
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Answered by Dr. Rakesh Sharma (2 hours later)
Brief Answer:
RELAX and calm down.

Detailed Answer:
Hello again,
Thanks for prompt reply.
Every thing seems good in your case.
As your wife is cooperative, you should improve fast.
Take it easy.Every body masturbates, but that can not be reason for not getting erection with wife.
Start with fore play, do not directly go for intercourse.
Take a few days off , and go out on vacation , relax, with just only two of you.
Do not think if you will succeed or not , the more you think, more difficult it will be.
If all trials fail you must see a doctor.
Hope I have answered your query, if any thing else,you are welcome or you can close the question by rating the answer.
Good wishes.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Suggest Treatment For Erectile Dysfunction

Brief Answer: Need more information Detailed Answer: Hello, Welcome to HCM. I am Dr Rakesh Sharma answering your query. I can understand your concern. Masturbation is usually not the cause of inability to indulge in sex. I need little more information about your private and personal life to give a more useful answer, 1.If this marriage has consent of both of you? 2.Are you staying with only your wife, or there are more family members in your house? 3.How is your marriage going other than sex life? 4.Do both of you feel like having sex or not? 5.Do you get erection or not? 6.Do you involve in fore play or not? 7.How does your wife react to your response of not having sex? 8.Do you have had sex before marriage,ever, if yes, how did that go? If you want to add any thing which you feel may be important about your relationship, please do not hesitate. Please write me back, so that I can give you some useful answer. Waiting for your reply, Best wishes.