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Question: Hello Doctor,
I'm 26 years old female and my hubby is 30 years old. I'm trying to conceive for the past 6 months. The problem is he can't able to ejaculate inside me. So we are trying a method of inserting his penis inside my vagina at the climax of his masturbation. Not sure the way we are following is right or wrong. Kindly suggest us, what we need to do in this case. Please tell us the better process , considering our situation to conceive naturally.
Thank you.
I'm 26 years old female and my hubby is 30 years old. I'm trying to conceive for the past 6 months. The problem is he can't able to ejaculate inside me. So we are trying a method of inserting his penis inside my vagina at the climax of his masturbation. Not sure the way we are following is right or wrong. Kindly suggest us, what we need to do in this case. Please tell us the better process , considering our situation to conceive naturally.
Thank you.
Brief Answer:
Why are you not trying with successful intercourse?
Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXXXXX
Thanks for writing to us. I can understand your concern.
To become pregnant female should remain in supine (lying down/sleeping) position for at least an hour (preferably whole night) after successful intercourse so sperms can reach deep in to cervix or uterus. After successful ejaculation in vagina she should raise her legs with help of support or just bent her legs in the way that her knees touch to her breasts. This position for half an hour will help sperms to reach deep in to cervix and increases chances of pregnancy. Please note that egg is present in uterus only for 2-3 days after ovulation one time per menstrual cycle.
In your case problem is he enters the penis at climax of masturbation. I need more information.
- What are the dates of your last three periods?
- Why does he use masturbation? Why does not he enter the penis when it becomes erect?
I will be happy to help further after your response.
Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.
Why are you not trying with successful intercourse?
Detailed Answer:
Hello XXXXXXX
Thanks for writing to us. I can understand your concern.
To become pregnant female should remain in supine (lying down/sleeping) position for at least an hour (preferably whole night) after successful intercourse so sperms can reach deep in to cervix or uterus. After successful ejaculation in vagina she should raise her legs with help of support or just bent her legs in the way that her knees touch to her breasts. This position for half an hour will help sperms to reach deep in to cervix and increases chances of pregnancy. Please note that egg is present in uterus only for 2-3 days after ovulation one time per menstrual cycle.
In your case problem is he enters the penis at climax of masturbation. I need more information.
- What are the dates of your last three periods?
- Why does he use masturbation? Why does not he enter the penis when it becomes erect?
I will be happy to help further after your response.
Regards,
Dr.Chintan Solanki.
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Dr. Sonia Raina
Hello Doctor,
Thank you so much for your reply.
Please find below my last 3 periods date.
May 16 2016
April 21 2016
March 29 2016
We can not able to have a normal sexual intercourse, we are not sure why it is not happening. So we started to follow this method (after so much of depressed days and nights) for the past 6 months.
Its been 3 years since we married. We can easily count the number of times we had a normal one. We are really worried. In the other words we both are not interested in that but need a baby. Hope you understand our concern and situation.
Thank you so much for your reply.
Please find below my last 3 periods date.
May 16 2016
April 21 2016
March 29 2016
We can not able to have a normal sexual intercourse, we are not sure why it is not happening. So we started to follow this method (after so much of depressed days and nights) for the past 6 months.
Its been 3 years since we married. We can easily count the number of times we had a normal one. We are really worried. In the other words we both are not interested in that but need a baby. Hope you understand our concern and situation.
Brief Answer:
wait for your next period
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for information.
Your main problem is not able to do intercourse in proper manner. I have already mentioned details about position. Now I want to explain the fertile period of menstrual cycle.
Pregnancy occurs when sperm meets ovum in uterus. Ovulation from ovary occurs roughly around 14th day of menstrual cycle (when menses begins count it 1st day)in 28 days cycle. Pregnancy can occur in +/- 2 days of ovulation.
Your last menstruation began on 16th May and your period length is 24-26 days. So your next menses is near now. Your approximate day of ovulation is 12th day of menses means you should have successful intercourse on 10th,11th,12th and 13th day of menses. He should not masturbate on 7th,8th and 9th day or you should not do sex in these days to make semen dense with sperms. Just count the dates when your next menses comes.
Now actual problem is inability to do normal intercourse.As such if he can masturbate means he can do the sex. The way you are trying may lead to pregnancy but it is difficult as semen may not go deep in to cervix. He must enter inside vagina deep when penis becomes erect, then he should make strokes and ejaculate inside. After ejaculation he should keep his limp penis inside for 5 minutes without any movement. Then he should gradually withdraw and you should keep yourself in bed as I mentioned in previous answer.
Let me know what actual problem you people face when you try for sex.
wait for your next period
Detailed Answer:
Hi,
Thanks for information.
Your main problem is not able to do intercourse in proper manner. I have already mentioned details about position. Now I want to explain the fertile period of menstrual cycle.
Pregnancy occurs when sperm meets ovum in uterus. Ovulation from ovary occurs roughly around 14th day of menstrual cycle (when menses begins count it 1st day)in 28 days cycle. Pregnancy can occur in +/- 2 days of ovulation.
Your last menstruation began on 16th May and your period length is 24-26 days. So your next menses is near now. Your approximate day of ovulation is 12th day of menses means you should have successful intercourse on 10th,11th,12th and 13th day of menses. He should not masturbate on 7th,8th and 9th day or you should not do sex in these days to make semen dense with sperms. Just count the dates when your next menses comes.
Now actual problem is inability to do normal intercourse.As such if he can masturbate means he can do the sex. The way you are trying may lead to pregnancy but it is difficult as semen may not go deep in to cervix. He must enter inside vagina deep when penis becomes erect, then he should make strokes and ejaculate inside. After ejaculation he should keep his limp penis inside for 5 minutes without any movement. Then he should gradually withdraw and you should keep yourself in bed as I mentioned in previous answer.
Let me know what actual problem you people face when you try for sex.
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