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Posted on Mon, 29 Sep 2014
Question: Hi Sir/Mam. I am 24 yr old from XXXXXXX and i am in love with my girlfriend age 23 since 3 yrs and we are also determined to marry each other. Recently her parents came to know of it and they called me up to refrain from the relationship. i talked with them about my love for her. I even brought my parents to talk to them. But her parents are determined to end this relationship just because i am from a lower caste making their prestige at stake. i dont have a job since i am still studying and so cannot marry her at this time. I tried to convince them asking them to give me a year to finish my studies and get a job after finishing studies but they are not willing to accept. Now they have restricted her from talking or meeting me by any means by dictating her what to do and not to. They forcing her to marry someone else according to their wish. We are both unwilling to live without each other and we are finding it hard to go on with this situation. I feel a lot depressed these days unwilling to do anything....even feels like ending up this life... what do i do? HELP
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Answered by Dr. Raju A.T (5 hours later)
Brief Answer:
You are not depressed

Detailed Answer:
Hi,

Thanks for writing to us.

I believe you are not depressed but you are helpless without options or ideas to solve your problem.

This failure intensified if you sit idle and try to work on this issue.

I suggest you to warrant all your friends and plan together on how to tackle the problem. This for sure will help you to arrive at a diplomatic solution.

There is a wayout from every problem, only that you do not know how. Do take help of your friends to do the same.

Wish you good luck.

Regards,
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Suggest Treatment For Depression

Brief Answer: You are not depressed Detailed Answer: Hi, Thanks for writing to us. I believe you are not depressed but you are helpless without options or ideas to solve your problem. This failure intensified if you sit idle and try to work on this issue. I suggest you to warrant all your friends and plan together on how to tackle the problem. This for sure will help you to arrive at a diplomatic solution. There is a wayout from every problem, only that you do not know how. Do take help of your friends to do the same. Wish you good luck. Regards,