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Question: I am 59 and am suffering from (PME) Pre mature ejaculation. Also, some times I do not get a strong erection. My blood sugar is under control and blood pressure is normal. I did try taking Viagra 50 mg tablets. Then I did get a strong erection, but had PME. I walk for a minimum 60 min. in the morning daily covering a distance of minimum of 7 Kms. I do not drink or smoke. I quit them about 5 years back.
Brief Answer:
have you tried start stop method?
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for posting in HCM.
Premature ejaculation is a commonly seen problem which can be controlled.
There is a method called as start stop method.
Whenever you feel that you are the height of your climax and are going to ejaculate you need to take pause just before the urge goes out of control.
Once you stop the climax period goes away and you can restart.
If you have taken viagra during this period, the erection won't go away so nothing to be worried about that part.
Repeat this method till the time you want. Pausing for only 8 10 secs also makes the urge goes away so that much period is enough.
Also if there is lot of gap between sexual activities or frequency is less then also it can cause premature ejaculation as exitment is high and there is sperm load which comes out very fast.
I hope i have answered your query well.
If you have any more query kindly write back to me will be happy to answer them. Thank you
have you tried start stop method?
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for posting in HCM.
Premature ejaculation is a commonly seen problem which can be controlled.
There is a method called as start stop method.
Whenever you feel that you are the height of your climax and are going to ejaculate you need to take pause just before the urge goes out of control.
Once you stop the climax period goes away and you can restart.
If you have taken viagra during this period, the erection won't go away so nothing to be worried about that part.
Repeat this method till the time you want. Pausing for only 8 10 secs also makes the urge goes away so that much period is enough.
Also if there is lot of gap between sexual activities or frequency is less then also it can cause premature ejaculation as exitment is high and there is sperm load which comes out very fast.
I hope i have answered your query well.
If you have any more query kindly write back to me will be happy to answer them. Thank you
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Prasad
Yes. Doc. I agree fully with your answer. Now, I have to give you some more info.
I'm well versed with the stop start method, which I do most of the times.
It helps me to a small extent. I further observed myself that I get excited beyond control, when my penis feels the warmth inside the vagina, and I presume that that is the time my wife gets excited and her vagina gets lubricated. The moment my penis feels the warmth and lubrication, I lose control. Even if I stop still immediately on getting that sensation, I cannot control my penis from ejaculating.
Yes. I also agree that the gap in frequency of sex is very long. Some times 2 to 3 months.
Under the above circumstances, how do I go about having sex?
I'm well versed with the stop start method, which I do most of the times.
It helps me to a small extent. I further observed myself that I get excited beyond control, when my penis feels the warmth inside the vagina, and I presume that that is the time my wife gets excited and her vagina gets lubricated. The moment my penis feels the warmth and lubrication, I lose control. Even if I stop still immediately on getting that sensation, I cannot control my penis from ejaculating.
Yes. I also agree that the gap in frequency of sex is very long. Some times 2 to 3 months.
Under the above circumstances, how do I go about having sex?
Brief Answer:
use condom. or masturbate some time prior to sex
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for following up with me.
So you already know the start stop method.
Other advice would be you can use condom. Condom prevents the contact between the vaginal wall and penis thus reducing the sudden urge to ejaculate and thus it will prevent your early ejaculation problem. But it works only if both of you are comfortable using it. Some couple complain that it reduces the pleasure but with practice that will be taken care of.
Other option would be that as frequency is low, you can masturbate few hours prior to your actual sex act. By this the ejaculation period will be delayed as sperm load is less thus delaying ejaculation.
Third advice will be to do some research on Internet about positions which prevents early ejaculation. I am sorry i cant be helpful in this matter as to which position will provide longer ejaculation period as i do not know myself. But you can get the info on net.
Inspite of all this i feel with the above 2 given advicesyour problem will be solved and you wouldn't need the third one.
Hope it answers your query.
Any more queries are welcome.
Thank you
use condom. or masturbate some time prior to sex
Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for following up with me.
So you already know the start stop method.
Other advice would be you can use condom. Condom prevents the contact between the vaginal wall and penis thus reducing the sudden urge to ejaculate and thus it will prevent your early ejaculation problem. But it works only if both of you are comfortable using it. Some couple complain that it reduces the pleasure but with practice that will be taken care of.
Other option would be that as frequency is low, you can masturbate few hours prior to your actual sex act. By this the ejaculation period will be delayed as sperm load is less thus delaying ejaculation.
Third advice will be to do some research on Internet about positions which prevents early ejaculation. I am sorry i cant be helpful in this matter as to which position will provide longer ejaculation period as i do not know myself. But you can get the info on net.
Inspite of all this i feel with the above 2 given advicesyour problem will be solved and you wouldn't need the third one.
Hope it answers your query.
Any more queries are welcome.
Thank you
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Sonia Raina
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