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Question: hello dr, this is zayr, i will explain you detail and please give me a solution to come out from this mental torture,
seven months ago i had a protected sex with csw that is the first time i am having sex with an prostitute, even though i am married, while having sex with her i sucked her nipple just for a second i dont know wether anything comes out from her breast or not but i drink it accidentally, till that i never think about hiv and other std. after the trip i came to home and started to have sex with my wife without any fear. seven weeks later i started to get some mouth ulcers, and it cleared after using B COMPLEX tablets for two days,while i was searching on net some site says that mouth ulcer is symptom of hiv, then my count starts and i started to think about hiv. i was been very panic that me and my wife have caught hiv. and i stopped to have sex with my wife, and always thinking about the past. later i went to an hiv specialist and said about the incident he said if you have protected sex no need to fear there will be no possiblity of hiv will go in your body. then i took test it came as negative. for three months and six months.i have took more than twenty tests it all came negative. i am always thinking the past and my mind is not accepting that i am hiv negative. getting tiered whenever i think about that, i went to dr again and he prescribed me restyl 0.5mg for 1 month, and nurokind LC for ten days. to come out from this. and he assures that you are hiv free please forget this and live happy with your wife.
after using restyl i am free now and using of nurokind LC my body pain gone away. still i need to continue restyl for twenty days. please give me a solution to completlely come out from this because if anything happens in my body i start to read symptoms of hiv in net.
awaiting for your best reply
seven months ago i had a protected sex with csw that is the first time i am having sex with an prostitute, even though i am married, while having sex with her i sucked her nipple just for a second i dont know wether anything comes out from her breast or not but i drink it accidentally, till that i never think about hiv and other std. after the trip i came to home and started to have sex with my wife without any fear. seven weeks later i started to get some mouth ulcers, and it cleared after using B COMPLEX tablets for two days,while i was searching on net some site says that mouth ulcer is symptom of hiv, then my count starts and i started to think about hiv. i was been very panic that me and my wife have caught hiv. and i stopped to have sex with my wife, and always thinking about the past. later i went to an hiv specialist and said about the incident he said if you have protected sex no need to fear there will be no possiblity of hiv will go in your body. then i took test it came as negative. for three months and six months.i have took more than twenty tests it all came negative. i am always thinking the past and my mind is not accepting that i am hiv negative. getting tiered whenever i think about that, i went to dr again and he prescribed me restyl 0.5mg for 1 month, and nurokind LC for ten days. to come out from this. and he assures that you are hiv free please forget this and live happy with your wife.
after using restyl i am free now and using of nurokind LC my body pain gone away. still i need to continue restyl for twenty days. please give me a solution to completlely come out from this because if anything happens in my body i start to read symptoms of hiv in net.
awaiting for your best reply
Brief Answer:
You need to do self talk.
Detailed Answer:
HI Zayr.
Greetings from Dr.Divakara.P
Thanks for posting your query.
First of all know that you are fine . Both physically ( free of HIV ) and mentally . This kind of fear or anxiety after having sex with CSW is very common and I have dealt with many people like this . So what I need you to know is that this fear is also a normal response.
Since you have been tested multiple times and over different time period and it has shown negative . So it is quite obvious that you are HIV negative . ( Even you know that ) Now the issue is how to get over the fear?
The process starts with believing that you are fine. It requires repeated self talking , self reinforcement even now and then . The best way is to look into the mirror when you are alone and keep saying to yourself that " I am totally fine , physically and psychological " . You can do the same while going to sleep , keep saying this in your mind and your subconscious will accept it .
Also start having sex with your wife . This will boost your confidence and give an indication that you have started to believe in yourself.
Also stop surfing the net every now and then . Any problems physical or psychological consult your doctor or me here .
Hope this information was useful to you.
Any clarifications feel free to ask.
Regards.
You need to do self talk.
Detailed Answer:
HI Zayr.
Greetings from Dr.Divakara.P
Thanks for posting your query.
First of all know that you are fine . Both physically ( free of HIV ) and mentally . This kind of fear or anxiety after having sex with CSW is very common and I have dealt with many people like this . So what I need you to know is that this fear is also a normal response.
Since you have been tested multiple times and over different time period and it has shown negative . So it is quite obvious that you are HIV negative . ( Even you know that ) Now the issue is how to get over the fear?
The process starts with believing that you are fine. It requires repeated self talking , self reinforcement even now and then . The best way is to look into the mirror when you are alone and keep saying to yourself that " I am totally fine , physically and psychological " . You can do the same while going to sleep , keep saying this in your mind and your subconscious will accept it .
Also start having sex with your wife . This will boost your confidence and give an indication that you have started to believe in yourself.
Also stop surfing the net every now and then . Any problems physical or psychological consult your doctor or me here .
Hope this information was useful to you.
Any clarifications feel free to ask.
Regards.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
sure dr i agree with you, if any problem comes in my health i am syncing with that to hiv, thats make me insane, i know that i am fine, my mind is accepting that but repeating me in every day work, i cant concentrate in my work, and missing my day to day activities. i will go for play badminton which i forgot to play now after this. to be sure i am 95percent clean from this. but remainig 5 percent is not moving out. i am thinking that any antibiotics, or paracetamol is delaying my window period, which i have crossed it. please guide me to come out from this, after your answer i will make a self confidence to come out from this..
FYI i strated to have sex with my wife and planning for parenthood.
thank you
FYI i strated to have sex with my wife and planning for parenthood.
thank you
Brief Answer:
NO antibiotic can false HIV results.
Detailed Answer:
HI
See there is nothing that can give or make your hiv results false ( no antibiotic or medicine or any thing ) > You are negative for HIV .
Instead of repeating in your mind that you may be sick keep repeating that you are totally health and free of HIV . Keep repeating it in your mind as many times a s possible and especially when you go to bed .
Yes playing games or indulging in any activities that occupies your mind is good . Kindly go ahead .
As said before keep telling your mind that you are fine.
Regards.
NO antibiotic can false HIV results.
Detailed Answer:
HI
See there is nothing that can give or make your hiv results false ( no antibiotic or medicine or any thing ) > You are negative for HIV .
Instead of repeating in your mind that you may be sick keep repeating that you are totally health and free of HIV . Keep repeating it in your mind as many times a s possible and especially when you go to bed .
Yes playing games or indulging in any activities that occupies your mind is good . Kindly go ahead .
As said before keep telling your mind that you are fine.
Regards.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
thank you i will come back to my life normal asap. if i am not i will happy to see you at XXXXXXX
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