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Suggest Medication For Sleeplessness

Posted on Tue, 16 Feb 2016

Question: Dr Seikhoo Bishnoi please. I am feeling so sad again about XXXXXXX As the days pass the injunction will soon pass away too. I wrote up things I want to tell him like how I miss him and will always love him. In one year he will be closing his store and I will be unable to even have a chance to see him again. I cant live with that not ever being able to see him or contact him. Tonight I just wanted to take all my pills again and go to sleep forever. I will be driving again soon but my heart is with XXXXXXX I want XXXXXXX and to be in Israel. If those things don't happen I would rather be dead. I gave up school because I am not interested in it anymore. Not interested in much of anything. XXXXXXX still comes over but I miss XXXXXXX still and don't go to Pat's anymore either.

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (5 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Try to avoid thinking about him

Detailed Answer:
Hello again,

Please don't anticipate the things. Try not to analyse these things again and again. The injunction is ending and then you can send him a mail. Don't think of mailing him again and again. You were functioning normally since last few days and now try to maintain these normal situations. Please don't think much about him, this will affect the health only.

Thanks.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (9 hours later)

I finally took a lot of gabapentin and two zanax and fell asleep. XXXXXXX wants me to run her store...i am really not feeling up to it but want to get on the massage bed...I want XXXXXXX back or at least to have him talk to me on email or in person..its only going to get worse if he doesn't respond correctly. i love XXXXXXX but don't want to be here if XXXXXXX is gone from my life bottom line...i am going to get tylenol for pain soon and will probably use the whole bottle...it is sdcary that I am thinking like this but I have made up my mind...he will probably block me and call the police. but I have to send more than one and it has to be alarming or annoying to a reasonable person...I am only going to send him one email unless he writes me back...I took money out of my account that I really can't afford to sign up again for Hcm...I wanted your help...thanks.

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (8 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Please don't think of taking overdose of medicines

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

Please try to accept that XXXXXXX is ill and not improving and even if he responds to XXXXXXX even then this is not of much use. He lacks insight. He is totally out of touch with reality.

Try to start work with XXXXXXX because this will at least distract your mind and will keep negative things away. Taking overdose of medicines will not serve any purpose because this will make your health worse only.

Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (15 minutes later)

Why would a response from XXXXXXX not be of much use? He can't go into remission/
I went to Pat's place but really hate how I feel when I am not drugging myself. I would rather be spaced out but don't have enough drugs to do that unless I take a lot of tylenol. Today XXXXXXX the nasty woman who helped XXXXXXX talked to me like I was her good friend. I emailed her and told her in an email to stay away and stop trying to be nice to me it made me want to vomit. I told her XXXXXXX was crazy not me that he had told me he was in love with me on numerous occasions that she and he had lied in court....I dont care if she tries to have me put in jail because I am not supposed to talk to her about him...I dont give a shit anymore....if I can't have XXXXXXX I don't want to live....not even for XXXXXXX ...I am sad and lonely and XXXXXXX is the only man I have ever loved or ever will love..my life is over..

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (11 minutes later)

Brief Answer:
Please try to remain relaxed

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

This is because he is suffering from schizophrenia and has no good support. His behaviour is unpredictable and he might even harm you. He might harm himself also. So even if he replies even then you have to remain cautious with him.

Please try to remain relaxed.

Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (10 hours later)

Okay. I will. I doubt he will ever reply anyway so it really doesn't matter. XXXXXXX said he might go to see him once the injunction is done.

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (14 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Wait for injunction to end

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

Yes I know he might harm himself but as he was having fear that he might kill someone so in such case there is some risk that he might harm others also.

Try to stay strong because the bad phase has passed. Once the injunction ends XXXXXXX can see him and only then we can come to know about his present state of mind.

Thanks

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (1 hour later)

I am so afraid that XXXXXXX won't be able to see him because i am afraid that XXXXXXX and I won't bve able to live with each other. i have not heard about the other place to live nor have I heard anything about the money from the tickets...often the money is not returned..i am afraid of always having to live in this lonely place and XXXXXXX not being able to live with me. there aren't many places around here to live that are low income..I cannot sleep because of all the worry. I don't know what to do about my living situation...i have the car yes but no better living situation...no XXXXXXX and no XXXXXXX ..I am not sure how to sleep without taking the zanax...there is nothing that helps me to sleep..

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (4 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Wait and hope that money comes back.

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

Please don't feel so negative about yourself. Things will definitely improve with time. Regarding the ticket money, yes most of companies deny refund but in some cases money comes back. Try to find a place where you and XXXXXXX can live because this will make things easier.

Thanks.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (6 hours later)

I am trying to find a place to live with XXXXXXX without much success..i have exhausted all the places that I can think of right now...the clinic is trying to help me but I cannot get the one place that looked good on the phone....I am also worried about the old car that it won't work and i can't afford to put much into fixing it up...it is hard...I so wish i had made it to israel...I want that money back if for no other reason that I can fix the old car.. XXXXXXX is taking a back seat to these problems...i am being hounded for money from everyplace taxes, car place to live all these things and now have to spend all day at Pat's business...it is too much to handle without money...

Answered by Dr. Seikhoo Bishnoi (7 hours later)

Brief Answer:
Take care of your health

Detailed Answer:
Hello again

Yes keep trying to get the money back and find a place to stay with XXXXXXX Just remember one thing that your first priority should be taking care of yourself and other things are secondary. Just remember this thing and don't loose hope.

Thanks

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar