Question: I need to figure out if my new girlfriend has a mental illness. We have been dating for two months. At first everything was fine. I stayed at here house over 12 days at Christmas. The first 6 days were great, the last 6 she seemed distant (didnt want to be touched, or close to me) just kind of offish. Called her when I got back home (120 miles away), said she felt so uncomfortable with me in her house...that I put her on edge. She said it's not going to work...we broke up. A few days later she said she missed me, and we would have to start over at square 1. We started over, she said she needed her space...so I slept on the couch when I was there. Everything was fine for a couple weeks, I told her that I loved her and she responded in same. We had all sorts of texts and phone calls with I love you etc....last weekend she told me I was the best boyfriend in the world and she couldn't find a better guy to be with, less than 20 hours later she kicked me out of her house because she said I made her "skin crawl". This happens constantly. We have broken up 2 times in the last month. She tells me she needs her space, and that her house is her santuary...yet complains when I am not there. She says long distance relationships work better for her because she needs her space. She is affectionate and wants me, then two hours later I am the worst guy in the world. She wants personal space, then she doesnt...wants to be touched than doesn't. I annoy here for no apparent fault of my own...then she's just angry. She swings from highs to lows on a daily...sometimes hourly basis. She's in love with me...looking at houses, seeing me as a stepdad to her kids, loving, affectionate, saying I am the one she wants to marry. Then the lows...I agitate her, I need to get engaged in her life, I am a horrible person, I make her uncomfortable in her house and on and on. I can do no right in her mind sometimes, while other times I am the best boyfriend ever. I am confused.