Question: Hello !
My question is OBGYN related and concerns my 6 month relationship with a 63 year old woman who is in very good health. We started to get physical about 4 months ago and earlier this year we have attempted to engage in intercourse. It appears that her vagina is simply too small for me to enter her. As far as I know, I am rather 'normal' sized and not overly large.
Her situation: widowed 6+ years ago and I am the first male whom she has become intimate with since her husband's passing. She is a mother of 2 - 30 something children as well as an 18 year+ breast cancer survivor. In addition, her long time OBGYN relocated to another state 2 months ago and she doesn't feel that 'comfort level' yet with her new OBGYN.
I am 62 yrs old & in relatively good health but I've had some ED issues which I've discussed both with my urologist and personal physician.
Essentially, is there any option available [short of surgery] that could somehow expand her vagina ? We have discussed this issue several times and are becoming slowly but increasingly frustrated that we are unable to have intercourse. I've maintained that I am completely satisfied with our physicality to date and do not in any way foresee this to be in any way, shape or form a major issue to cause any harm to our relationship.
Thanks for any suggestion[s] you could provide.
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Thank you Dr. Tayal !
I certainly appreciate your response. It appears that we are on the right track then for which I am quite relieved.
I Thank you for providing your URL as well.
Sincerely,
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