Question: On 24 XXXXXXX 2013 I had first time sex with CSW. i was in full of alcohol. I have used two condoms. My erection was not proper. just i touched her vagina i felt it lubricated. I did vaginal course for 1 or 2 minutes. After that she has separated me and she removed my condom. I don't know my ejaculation was there or not. I dont know condom was broken or not. But i think it was not broken. Then I wear my cloth and left her room. After that, i think i did masturbation. I cant recall properly. Then i washed my penis and hand with water. I am damn worried that may i infected from HIV. I am getting married within 10 days. I made biggest mistake of my life. four days later i met that girl and i asked her about her status. she told me that she is free from HIV. I dont have trust more on her. After all she is CSW. How many percent of chance that i suffering from HIV under above circumstances. How many percent of chance for breaking condom. How many percent of estimated risk of infection. I am getting married within 10 days. I dont want to spoil the life of my partner. what decision may taken. sometimes i feel that i will not be suffered from HIV. I am in confusion. Yesterday i met doctor and he recommended PCR DNA HIV test. I had given blood for it and waiting in result. May PCR test produce reliable result on 8-9 day of exposure. I am under frustration and hypertension. I have lot of fear, anxiety and stress. I am in confusion. Plz kindly understand my critical situation and give me appropriate solution. Live or death that is question. Time is critical factor in my situation.

Thank you Dr XXXXXXX for your prompt reply. I appreciate your answer. But have some queries ahead. The condom was given by CSW. She wore one condom and i wore another. Is there any chance of breaking it. May two condom break simultaneously. It was not hard and fast intercourse. I think i did it was smoothly. Before starting actual act, my hand was touched to her genitalia and it felt oily. She said dont touch her part. just do my job. There was no kissing no oral. Suppose, we consider condom was broken and my ejaculation was there (actually it was not happen but i consider worst thing due to my drunk) How many percent of risk of getting infected. I read literature and found that 0.38 percent of estimated risk is associated with unprotected sex (female to male). I think my intercourse was protected certainly. is there any chance. Further i want to do second PCR 14-15 days after exposure before marriage. May this test produce 100 percent valid result. We both are depends on your answer especially the life of one girl. I made biggest mistake of my life. Due to my mistake i dont want to destroy her life. You have vast experience so expecting concrete and accurate answer. It may be positive or negative. One again thanks. Looking forwards for your prompt response.

Thank you doctor. Atleast i get 10 percent relief. But waited for PCR result. If i found negative forever then i wil visit your clinic for owe of your indebtedness. If i negative then mine second life wil begin. May god bless me.

Madam

I got my dnapcr test today. It was negative as told by my doctor. The printed copy will be available on Monday. Pls tell me whether this is reliable or will change after 3 week. Should I go for other pcr test before marriage. Actually I m so tensed I can't believe any thing. I m getting married on 14th of this month. So guide me. How many percent I should relax.

Hello Madam

Today I received my test in print. Result give is not detected. What does it mean Doctor said everything is ok. Thank you very much. U don't know what ur advice meant to me. I am really ashamed of my act. It could have costed my life as well as my partners life. Because of you I will marry freely. Thank you for ur advice. Thank you very much.