Hi,

Thanks for the query.

Herpes virus is very common infection and in many present in the "latent form" (i.e not active or not harmful). The virus become active under stress, excessive physical exhaustion, immuno-comoromised state etc.. And it is during this time one becomes symptomatic

During symptomatic period, one should not delay the treatment. It is also beneficial to abstain from sexual intercourse, or use condom. Taking these measures helps in preventing active infection to the partner. Even if your partner develops infection, there are effective treatments available for pregnant lady, children. Hence I do not see any for getting married

Still, if you think that it might create some issues in future, it may be a good idea that both of you XXXXXXX a dermatologist and can discuss the issues. This will help in decreasing her and your worry

Hope this is clear to you. I am available for further discussion.

Regards

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1. Herpes is more of a clinical diagnosis. HSV IgM and IgG test are supportive evidence of herpes. Since the antibody tests are negative, you can visit your doctor if you develop the red spots and itching again. The second opinion after looking at the rashes should clear your doubts about your infection status.

2. As the tests are negative, practically very very unlikely that you will transmit the infection to wife when you do not have active infection. May be a possibility that it may not be herpes, too

Let me know if you have any other enquiries.

Wish you a happy marriage

Regards

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