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Getting Hard Erection But Not Successful To Penetrate Vagina. Suggest Effective Medicine

Posted on Tue, 26 Feb 2013

Question: sir
i am not able to insert inside as it is very hard to break the hymen. At the start penis is hard but at time of pushing it get soft during pushing wife experience lot of pain in hymen.i also tried after taking caverta 50 pill but no gain.i once tried with girlfriend and it was ok she was not virgin.
can u suggest the reasons and medicine etc (lubrication)

Answered by Dr. Dr. P. T. Patil (18 minutes later)

Hello
Thanks for your query. Based on the facts that you have posted, it appears that you are getting hard erection but not successful to penetrate vagina. Your wife has Dyspareunia pain while having intercourse because of imperforate hymen
There is no medicine to perforate the Hymen. If the hymen is thick it needs a consult a qualified Gynaecologist for clinical examination. If required who may perforate her hymen surgically under anaesthesia. This will solve your problem permanently.
At the same time you may need a counselling session with the Gynecologist as there may be psychological component behind not able to penetrate. The fact that you were able to have sexual intercourse earlier with a girl friend confirms no anatomical reason behind this problem. So psychological issues if any needs to be addressed.

Hope I have answered your query.Please feel free to ask if you have any more questions I shall be happy to help you.
Thanks with Regards.
Dr.Patil..

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Dr. P. T. Patil (2 hours later)

sir
can it be possible that i have 90% erection which is able to get inside loose vagina but not able to penetrate virgin.if yes is there any medicine that can help in this case or should i apply any lub which u suggest.

Answered by Dr. Dr. P. T. Patil (8 hours later)

Hello
Thanks for follow up.
Since you had erection hard enough to perform the sex with your girlfriend you do not have any issue about erection. Any attempt to attempt to penetrate forcibly or by applying lubricant to your penis will be futile exercise as her vagina is not open to full extent due to imperforated Hymen.

The first and foremost action you have to take is to consult a gynecologist for clinical examination and necessary treatment of your wife.
Thanks with Regards.
Dr.Patil

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Shanthi.E

Follow up: Dr. Dr. P. T. Patil (2 days later)

sir
how it can be confirmed medically that i have ed problem .what are the diagnostic tests apart from blood sample test for testosterone.i do have total testosterone level at lower limit ie 200 limit is from 250 to 800.

Answered by Dr. Dr. P. T. Patil (1 hour later)

Hello,

Thanks for follow up.

As you have already mentioned that you dot not have any problem in performing sex with your girlfriend, it indicated that you do not have problem of Erectile Dysfunction.

As erection is a complex process involving Neurological, Arterial and Venous systems, it is difficult to mention any specific test to confirm E.D. There are multiple tests carried out depending upon history, and clinical findings of the probable reason for E.D.

Visit a qualified Urologist for clinical examination and evaluation. He will guide you for any particular test to be carried out.

Thanks with Regards.
Dr.Patil

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Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Mohammed Kappan