Brief Answer:
Trying different position is recommended

Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXX,
Thanks for using Healthcaremagic.

I read your query and understand your concerns.

From the available description it appears that masturbation over many years resulted in change of pressure sensation which is naturally different from vaginal pressure. It is not surprising to know that you enjoy masturbation more than the sexual intercourse as there is loss of control during intercourse.


Considering the above problem I feel using different positions during sex must be helpful for you. It is recommended to use different sexual positions and evaluate each one over the other ones. Whatever is found more enjoying need to be practiced/used more. In my opinion with possible disparity between genital organs of you and your wife women on top and using back entry positions will be more useful than the traditional missionary position.

Regarding the low stamina I think inability to enjoy the sexual intercourse even during first few months of marriage can be considered as a possible cause. No one gets married to lower their sexual life and most of us feel enthusiastic about there possible pleasure of sex. When same does not happen in real married life feeling low is natural and it is possible that with correction of above problem there will be natural enhancement in your sexual life.

I hope this answers you.
If you have any further query, I would be glad to help you.
If not, you may close the discussion and if possible you may rate the answer for my future patients.
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Thanks and regards

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Brief Answer:
Girl on top or doggy style

Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for following me.

No sex position is ideal for two different couples and every couple have different needs and comfort zones.

Having said this it will be ideal if you can use different sex positions to find out the best for you. It will be good if you can go through Kaam XXXXXXX an ancient XXXXXXX book.

Considering the disparity of sex organs between you and your wife I feel girl on top will be a better choice. The next I feel entering from behind will give you a better control.

I hope this helps you further.
Thanks and regards.

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Brief Answer:
Follow up

Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXX,
Thanks for reverting back to me.

1. Sildenafil have no role in ejaculation and useful only for erection issues.

2. Enough foreplay is the right answer. Before initiating intercourse spend atleast 20-30 minutes for foreplay.

3. Yes. There is role of antioxidants and omega fatty acids. Incorporating green and leafy vegetables, fruits and sea foods in your diet can help you.

4. I am not sure whether this will help you. However the possible answer is yes.

I hope this answers you.
Thanks again.

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Brief Answer:
May be from both

Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXX,
Thanks for follow up.

The masturbation is completely harmless process on most occasions unless there is excessive pressure application or use of rough surface. In case there was use of excessive pressure or use of rough surface some damage could have been contributed by masturbation itself.

However tobacco and alcohol are well established cause for damage to nerve ending and likely to be potential culprit for the problem.

I mean to say that both could contribute toward the problem but there is possibility of more substantial damage due to alcohol and tobacco.

Since this is the last follow up you are allowed for the current question I request you to open a new thread if there are more questions.

While posting another query please use my url which is as follows. This will ensure direct delivery of your question to me and continuity of care.

http://doctor.healthcaremagic.com/doctors/dr-ashok-kumar/67386

Thanks and regards.

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