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Do Excessive Masturbation And Smoking Affect Sex Life?
Question: Hello Doctor,
My age is 30.. My partner age is 26. Got married before 12 days.. When I do sex with my partner, she is getting only 50% of satisfaction.. Also when I do for 15 minutes my penis becomes small.. She is also afraid of that.. Now she is having periods.. I have the habbitat of masturbating.. I do smoke once daily.. By smoking and masturbating is there any problem???
I am in trouble doctor.. Both of them are in afraid..
My age is 30.. My partner age is 26. Got married before 12 days.. When I do sex with my partner, she is getting only 50% of satisfaction.. Also when I do for 15 minutes my penis becomes small.. She is also afraid of that.. Now she is having periods.. I have the habbitat of masturbating.. I do smoke once daily.. By smoking and masturbating is there any problem???
I am in trouble doctor.. Both of them are in afraid..
Brief Answer:
Relax before having sex
Detailed Answer:
Hello
Thanks for the query
It seems you both are very tense while having sex. so you are unable to penetrate fully ,hence partial satisfaction. You are facing erection problem and your wife can't let loose her vagina. Masturbation will never affect sex life negatively so get rid of this thought. You can be intimate with her without pressure to penetrate and enjoy the foreplay. This will ease the burden . You can also use some water based jelly like KY Jelly to facilitate entry. There is nothing to be afraid of, it is natural. There may be some discomfort for her initially . Your penis becomes small due to anxiety.
DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA
Relax before having sex
Detailed Answer:
Hello
Thanks for the query
It seems you both are very tense while having sex. so you are unable to penetrate fully ,hence partial satisfaction. You are facing erection problem and your wife can't let loose her vagina. Masturbation will never affect sex life negatively so get rid of this thought. You can be intimate with her without pressure to penetrate and enjoy the foreplay. This will ease the burden . You can also use some water based jelly like KY Jelly to facilitate entry. There is nothing to be afraid of, it is natural. There may be some discomfort for her initially . Your penis becomes small due to anxiety.
DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA
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