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Weak erection, early ejaculation due to excessive masturbation - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   hi DOctor,
I am 24 years old. I have habit of masturbation for the last 5 to 6 years. Now i am suffering a lot. My erection not lasting for even 10 seconds. Semen gets out very quickly. and my penis size also got very smaller. my parents have planned marriage for me in next year.Can i get my manliness back. Can i satisfy my wife? please suggest.
NOw i realized all my mistakes.
Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   I am Dr. XXX
User :   hello sir
User :   did you read my problem
Doctor :   Yes
User :   R u a sexologist?
Doctor :   I am a General Physician
User :   can you help me?
Doctor :   Yes
Doctor :   Look you have not done any mistake
Doctor :   Masturbation is completely normal
User :   But this needs to be answered my a sexlogoist right
Doctor :   Masturbation has no relationship with a manliness or size of the penis
Doctor :   I can help you.
User :   this is a universal comment sir "Masturbation is completely normal "
User :   but consequences are severe
User :   i am feeling ver much
Doctor :   If any Doctor in this world says, masturbation is abnormal or it hurts a man sexual life, he is absolutely wrong
Doctor :   and I can challenge him
Doctor :   If you are not convinced by these words, you can write to a Sexologist here,
User :   ok.. But then why am i facing these problems... I can understand you. But too much of this habit isn't hram?
Doctor :   on the specialist panel
Doctor :   Not at all
Doctor :   There is nothing like too much
Doctor :   You started it and you can control it by yourself
Doctor :   if you feel offended
User :   my erection is not normal.
User :   how can i be happy in my sexual life with my partner?
User :   how can i satisfy her
Doctor :   I still feel this is normal as everyone has to have this feeling some point of time before marriage
Doctor :   If you doubt your ability, you can get tested
Doctor :   Hormonal test, Semen analysis and Physical examination
User :   ok sir, clearly i can see the time of erection and time taken for the fluid coming out has decreased, as i continue this habit
User :   r u saying this also a normal one?
Doctor :   This is called premature ejaculation
User :   means?
Doctor :   This gets as you start feeling odd about masturbation, nearing the marriage, anxious about performance
User :   but nowdays when i see porn movies my semen starts to leak.
User :   is this also normal. I m worried
Doctor :   Yes
Doctor :   I am sure you will more knowledgeable when you get married and test your ability with your wife
Doctor :   that this is trash of worry you had
User :   ok sir. WHat can i do to make my erection long lasting. I have quoted that it doesnt even lasts for 10 secs....
User :   with this type of erection how can a man have sex
User :   and satisfy
Doctor :   When one masturbates there is no foreplay
Doctor :   When he physically meets a partner there is lot of foreplay before the entry
Doctor :   As long the foreplay the longer lasts
Doctor :   Though the sperm may ooze out during the foreplay
Doctor :   HE still has the stimulation to have sexual intercourse
Doctor :   and attain the orgasm
Doctor :   So the longer the foreplay the latter is the orgasm and the ejaculation
User :   you re right sir. my organ got shrinked very much and it heads down. i could see the difference in the last 3 years
User :   this is absolutely due to that bad habit
Doctor :   Ok, if so there is nothing you can do to enlarge it
Doctor :   Penile enlargement is not possible
Doctor :   There can be many claims by some exercise and herbs
Doctor :   That is a pure waste of money as they are not scientifically proved
User :   so my continuous masturbation habit brought this effect?
Doctor :   I did not mean that
Doctor :   You felt that
Doctor :   Masturbation cannot cause shrinkage
User :   please guide me sir..
User :   how can stop this habit
User :   any ways to control it?
Doctor :   The most proved way is motivation and determination to stop
Doctor :   1) Avoid the situations that cause you to masturbate
Doctor :   2) Do not watch porn movies at night
Doctor :   3) If you watch in a computer, put the computer in the drawing room where every one is there so that you do not have a chance to watch them
Doctor :   4) Sleep on the bed with some one else so that you do not have chance to masturbat
User :   thank you..is it possible for me to get my erection back
Doctor :   yes
User :   how can i
Doctor :   Right now you have a physiological anxiety
Doctor :   that is not causing the erection properly
Doctor :   As days go you get back
User :   in short i m suffering from erectile dysfunction
Doctor :   No
Doctor :   You are not
Doctor :   Erectile dysfunction cannot happen for young people
User :   what does that eaxctly mean sir?
User :   is hairloss related to masturbation due to loss of energy?
User :   Sir,are you there
Doctor :   There is no study
Doctor :   of masturbation related to hair loss
Doctor :   Your problem is temporary
Doctor :   and you will soon find solution as you get on well with your activities
User :   you are giving me confidence. thanks a lot.
Doctor :   You can easily get rid of it
Doctor :   First let out your myths about masturbtion
User :   BUt whenever i see my organ i m getting disappointed as it is shrinked and look like a piece of rubber
Doctor :   If you still have that
Doctor :   Try quit masturbation
Doctor :   Never touch your private parts except during toilet
Doctor :   Wear a tight dress so that it is difficult for you to open it to touch the private parts
Doctor :   Follow only one thing and acheive that first
Doctor :   QUIT MASTURBATION , that is your goal for next one week
Doctor :   If you acheive it you feel much confident
Doctor :   Come back to me after a week
Doctor :   I hope this is helpfufl
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting me
Doctor :   Bye for now
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