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Want guidnance for sexual intercourse. - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 11-Jun-2013
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Very Good Posted in: Men Sexual Problems
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User:hi
Doctor:HI
Doctor:Good Evening
User:very Good evening
Doctor:I am Dr. XXXXXXX here.
User:thank u :)
User:i am a newly married man
Doctor:How can I help you?
Doctor:Ok
User:and have some queries
Doctor:Please proceed with the queries.
User:i have tried intercourse with my wife of late and i am unable to enter my penis inisde the female genital part. rather i feel i hit a XXXXXXX wall
Doctor:Ok.
User:i am able to insert 1-2 fingers inside the vagina..
User:thuh
Doctor:Let me guide you regarding this.
User:yup
User:all ears
Doctor:Before trying to have an intercourse, make sure that you had an extended period of foreplay.
User:okay...
Doctor:That will give an adequate lubrication within the walls of vagina.
User:okay
User:ll keep dat in mind...
User:althuh i did what u have mentioned...
Doctor:Since these are the initial days of intercourse, you need to be a bit patient on entering completely.
User:my issue is, i am unable to find the "hole" as they say
User:yes ur correct
Doctor:Oh. Ok.
Doctor:So, then, where do you insert the fingers?
User:its easily approachable thru the fingers
User:however, when i try to insert the penis, my penis always..goes upwards and hots her upper vagina
User:*hits
Doctor:Ok. I understand your issue.
User:hmm
User::(
Doctor:Do not worry. It is just that you need time to adapt to a new environment.
User:okay
Doctor:You can guide your penis slowly with your hands while trying to insert.
User:hmm.. vll try once agin.. m a lil scared
Doctor:If you start trying hard, it might cause pain for your wife.
User:yeah i understand
Doctor:So be careful.
User:yup sure
Doctor:First have enough foreplay.
Doctor:Then use your hand to guide yourself.
Doctor:You can even ask your wife to guide it properly.
User:so one small query.. is the place to be inserted, below the vaginalplace.. at the bottom one can say
User:and is it me or is it general..ppl do face these kinda off issues?
User:m a lil... scared of a failure..thys tyme
Doctor:Some people do face this problem.
User:thank u... doc.. lemme put ur words in practice..
Doctor:In general, there are two openings in front and one opening in back for women.
User:yeah
Doctor:Out of the two openings in front, one is urethra, through which urine comes out.
Doctor:Other is the vaginal opening.
User:okay
Doctor:The sexual intercourse will be done through the vaginal opening.
Doctor:Your partner will be the best person to guide you towards the opening.
User:hmm
User:sounds fair
Doctor:Have you followed my suggestions?
User:yeah pretty much
User:thank u
Doctor:Hope I had been able to guide you to your satisfaction.
User:yeah.. doc
User::)
Doctor:Is there anything that I can help you with?
Doctor:Let me know if you have any health related queries.
Doctor:Thanks for consulting me.
Doctor:Bye for now.
Doctor:Have a nice evening!!
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