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Unable to sustain erection - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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User :   hello
Doctor :   How can I help you?
User :   is this a free service or do I have to pay for it ?
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User :   i have a concern
User :   d
Doctor :   Yes
User :   do u also address sexual issues ?
Doctor :   yes
User :   ok
User :   i am married for the last 10 months now
Doctor :   k
User :   initially we decided not to go with a baby for 1 year
User :   now my wife wants a baby
Doctor :   k
Doctor :   k
Doctor :   To get a better picture I need this information--
Age: ; Occupation: ; Location: ; Marital Status:
User :   I am 32 yrs old and working as Marketing Manager for a Media Company
User :   Bangalore
User :   for the last 1 month, I am unable to sustain my erection
Doctor :   Ok, so what is the problem you are facing now?
User :   otherwise I am okay and get erection early mornings
Doctor :   Ok,so what advise do you need now?
User :   would like to know is there a way to sustain erection so that I can have a baby ?
Doctor :   Did you face the same problem in the past?
Doctor :Do you smoke/drink alcohol/Any other habits? If yes how much/how often?
User :   no
Doctor :   Have you had any similar problems in the past? Do you have any other health problems? Diabetes/ high blood pressure/ Asthma/allergies etc?
User :   I was okay a month ago
User :   none of the health issues
User :   i do smoke about 4-5 a day
User :   alcohol maybe once a month
Doctor :   Do you mean you cant get an erection or you ejaculate soon?
User :   typically I get erection at toher times...but when I romance with my wife, I get a mental block and ultimately do not get an erection
Doctor :   Are you under stress or depression lately?
User :   yes
User :   very much for the last 3 months
Doctor :   Are you prepared to be a father now?
User :   i tend to worry a lot and have a lot of financial issues
User :   yes I am
Doctor :   Is the relationship with your wife good ?
User :   in wat sense ??
Doctor :   Emotional, mentally
Doctor :   Are you both compatible?
User :   we had a love marriage
Doctor :   But how is the situation now?
User :   we were in relationship for 5 years before getting married
User :   we still love each other very much
Doctor :   Have you lost interest in her physically?
User :   a little bit
Doctor :   Do you know why?
User :   no
Doctor :   Are you sure?
User :   yes
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Let me tell you that there are various causes for not getting an erection
User :   otherwise I am very romantic with her
User :   i do a lot of foreplay and kiss her a lot
Doctor :   It could be due to certain medical conditions
User :   ok
Doctor :   Or it could be due to psychological reasons
Doctor :   But from the history you have given me the reason has to be stress and depression
User :   ok
User :   as I told u earlier, I get erection at odd times but hwne we romance, I am unable to get it
Doctor :   For this I would advise you to meet a psychiatrist who will be able to counsel you and guide you on the same
User :   ok
User :   or do u suggest that I should meet a sexologist ?
Doctor :   You could also do that, but your problem seems to be more psychological than organic
User :   is there any doctors that u suggest ?
Doctor :   You can look up our website for doctors in your area
User :   does smoking pose a problem to sex ???
Doctor :   Yes it is a major cause
User :   all right
User :   thanks a lot doctor
User :   will consult one of the specialists
Doctor :   Bye for now
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