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Trying to conceive. When to have sex to get pregnant? - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 09-Nov-2013
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User:working in pondicherry
User:I am married last january
User:are u there?
Doctor:I am
Doctor:I am hearing you
User:We didnt try for child since september month
Doctor:proceed XXXXXXX
User:But we tried for child last month and made intercourse at 10th to 20th day of mensus cycle
User:but my wife is conceived this month also.
Doctor:did you wife conceive this month?
User:sorry sorry.. not conceived
User:typo error
User:any sex position need to follow to make pregnant? need some tips here
Doctor:did you have intercourse on the days when your wife was fertile?
Doctor:please let me know your wife's age and your age
User:last mensus date is 26th september
User:and today she got periods again
User:my wife age is 19 completed
User:i completed 27
Doctor:does she have regular periods?
User:ya no issue in periods
User:periods cycling is correct
User:28 or 30 days
Doctor:then nothing to worry
Doctor:You should have intercourse on days 14 days prior the next periods
Doctor:if her period was on 26 th spetember
User:i cant understand madam
Doctor:you should have had intercourse around 12th of september to conceive
User:12th october?
Doctor:I mean to say
Doctor:you should have intercourse 14 days before your wife's next periods
User:this month period is on today
Doctor:those days there will be egg to fertilize
Doctor:today is 24 october
Doctor:her next period is mostly on 24 november
User:so 10th november is the correct date?
Doctor:You got it right now
Doctor:have intercourse daily from 8 to 12 november
Doctor:then chances of pregnancy are high for more than 90%
User:yes ok understood. because some time she got periods after 28 days
Doctor:even then if she is getting periods once in a month, that is fine
User:any sex position need to follow?
Doctor:straight position with a pillow under your wife's pillow would be ideal
Doctor:under your wife's hips
User:Straight position meant what?
Doctor:you on top of your wife
Doctor:just use a pillow underneath her hips for better penetration
Doctor:all right?
User:can i land the body to her body?
Doctor:I did not understand that
Doctor:Can you please explain?
User:while doing intercourse, can i land my body to her body?
Doctor:of course
User:need to use pillow under her hips right?
User:hips or below hips?
Doctor:under her hips
Doctor:are you there?
Doctor:do you have more queries?
User:how the pillow under her hips make penetration more?
Doctor:it makes more place within the vagina
Doctor:to accommodate the penis
Doctor:Also, penile penetration would be comfortable and less painful to your wife
User:while doing intercourse, penis movement is not straight
Doctor:that is fine as long as you have ejaculation inside your wife
User:it is slightly moved from straight position
Doctor:is the ejaculation normal inside your wife?
User:i didnt understand
Doctor:are you able to ejaculate inside your wife's vagina while having sexual intercourse?
User:yes i able to ejaculate liquid during intercourse
Doctor:inside your wife vagina?
User:but sometimes after long time sex too, i cant ejaculate any liquid. yesterday happened like only
User:vagina means what? i ejaculate liquid inside my wife organ
Doctor:your wife organ itself is called vagina
Doctor:where your penis penetrates
User:why even after long time sex, i cant ejaculate liquid sometimes? any problem with me?
User:yes i ejaculate into vagina many times
Doctor:that is because of erectile dyfunction
Doctor:probably losing interest after some time
User:it means?
User:is it any disease? any prob with me? i am non-drinker and non-smoker. i got fear sometimes.
Doctor:it is not a disease
Doctor:it is pyshchological
Doctor:Sometimes you lose interest while having sex
Doctor:it is not a disease
Doctor:that is why you cant ejaculate
Doctor:do not worry
User:how to solve this? sometimes my penis is not tempering. due to this reason, we didnt make intercourse sometimes
User:pls help me to solve this two issues. 1. penis is not tempering. 2. cant ejaculate sometimes
User:are u there?
Doctor:it is due to decreased blood supply to the penis.
User:oh.. what to do for this madam?
Doctor:Before going for sex go for foreplay
Doctor:Erectile dysfunction is more of a Psychological problem than a physical one and should not be at your age
User:ya we did foreplay everytime
Doctor:it can also happen due to loss of interest in sex;over excitement;mental or physical stress;depression
Doctor:please check if you have any of these
User:ya some times depression
Doctor:then you need to come out of these mental stress first
Doctor:this will help in better performance at sex
User:hmm.. what is the remedy for penis not tempering?
Doctor:are you there?
User:you told blood flow is less
User:hmm.. what is the remedy for penis not tempering?
User:you told blood flow is less
Doctor:the cause is psychological
Doctor:You may not get full erection because of fears if any
Doctor:this is the cause of low blood supple
Doctor:hence the low penile erection
User:how can i avoid this?
Doctor:by keeping your mind free of any stress
Doctor:Be happy while you have sex
Doctor:Do not have any worry or fear while having sex
Doctor:talk to your wife openly
Doctor:when both your wife and you are comfortable, you can have a satisfying sex
User:so it is not related to any physical body right? it is due to mental stress
Doctor:it is not related to physical body ailments
User:i got feared madam yesterday
User:Are u in pondicherry? if yes, we will come for consulting
Doctor:please take away the fear
Doctor:I am sorry
Doctor:I am in Bangalore
User:ya ok ok
User:Thank you so much madam for your advice and tips
Doctor:you are welcome
Doctor:it is my pleasure
Doctor:Hope you have found answers to your questions
User:if i want to catch you again for any advice, how can i contact you?
User:yes i got answers madam
Doctor:You can request for my name in the beginning of chatting
Doctor:ask for Dr. Shanthi
Doctor:all right?
User:but there is no option to request name in website
Doctor:I mean to say
Doctor:when you begin the chat, say 'I want to chat with Dr. Shanthi'
Doctor:I should be able to take your chat
Doctor:is it clear now?
User:yes ok madam.. thanks a lot.. I will update either happy news or sad news :)
Doctor:dont worry
Doctor:it should be happy news
Doctor:I will wait for it
User:Thank you madam...
Doctor:shall we end the chat now?
User:ya ok
Doctor:great day ahead
Doctor:take care
User:take care.. bye :)
Doctor:bye for now
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