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Trying to conceive. What days should we have intercourse for getting pregnant? - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 03-Jun-2013
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Doctor:Please proceed with your query
User:My query is related to pregnancy
User:I am trying to coneive from August. 1st month I failed
Doctor:Please proceed
User:So this month I took ovulation test from 11th day of my period and I got positive result on 15th day.
User:But again on 16th day I got -ve result and again on 17th day I got +result
User:why? and what does it mean?
User:Me and my husband kept relation on 14th 15th and 16th day. Now we both are confuse what to do? Shall we keep relation today also today is 18th day.
Doctor:You have ovulated already
User:Ok. hope so
Doctor:You can have sexual intercourse today too
Doctor:There is no harm in it
User:but if we regualr keep relation it wont effect the sperm build right
Doctor:And probably for next 2 days as well
Doctor:nothing like that
User:My husband says if he keep relation daily he dont feel much seimen
Doctor:Nothing like that
User:Ok so daily sex make no harm right
Doctor:after the 20th day, you may or may not have sexual intercourse as your wish
Doctor:Yes, that is right
User:Ok. And my period last month was 33 days, sometime it is 28 sometime 29. so is this make any difference while trying to conceive
User:Actually last month also we tried hard almost everyday during 10-20th of my cycle
Doctor:Please continue the same way in this month also
Doctor:Have intercourse daily until 20th day
Doctor:You will surely conceive
User:5 yrs back I was diagonised PCO had medicine for 6months after that no issues
User:On July I have gone through all medical test and my LS FSH ratio was 1:1.17
User:is this fine? I have gone through ultrasound also
Doctor:Yes, the reports seem to be fine
Doctor:You should be able to conceive soon.
User:Thanks doctor.
Doctor:Believe that good will happen
Doctor:Do you have more queries?
User:no .. appreciate your help
Doctor:Thanks for consulting me
Doctor:All the best
Doctor:Bye for now
User:one more question
User:my husband's motility was the issue though
Doctor:is it normal now?
User:no we have not checked ..
User:we were having balanced diet though
Doctor:Please repeat the semen analysis again now
User:is there any recommendation to improve the motility?
Doctor:Let him take walnuts daily
Doctor:it helps in improving the quality of sperms
User:ok .. any particular position to improve the chances?
User:also can you please let me know if saliva is not good for sperms ?
Doctor:The deposition of the semen must be much higher, you can use a pillow under your lower back for better penetration
User:we generally try oral before sex
Doctor:Nothing like that
Doctor:Saliva does not have any effect on the sperms
User:ok .. nothing more .. thank you so much ..
Doctor:Thank you too
Doctor:Take care
User:one more question .. extensive travel during furtille period will impact ?
Doctor:Not at all
User:fatty food?
User:any more recommedations for husband?
Doctor:He needs to eat healthy
Doctor:Milk is also good for spermatogenesis
Doctor:He can drink a glass of milk too daily
User:ok .. this time.. final .. thank you ..
User:leaving now ..
Doctor:Both of you need to exercise routinely as well
Doctor:You can always come back if you have queries
Doctor:Take care
User:i am 29 and he is 30
User:if nothing works out .. how shall we proceed
Doctor:The age is apt
Doctor:First you need to try
Doctor:Most couples have the problem with sex itself
User:ok .. thanks .. bye
Doctor:Due to lack of knowledge in it
User:oh ok ..
User:thats boost my confidence
Doctor:If you do it the right way and on the fertile days, you will definitely conceive very soon.
User:thank you.
Doctor:Please make sure that you have intercourse atleast 4 times in a week for 6 months continuously
Doctor:You will conceive
Doctor:Are you there?
Doctor:Are you getting me?
User:yes ..
User:was thinking if I have nay more question
Doctor:At least make sure you have intercourse from the 10th to the 20th day of your cycle
Doctor:I will wait
Doctor:Please take your time
User:so sweet of you
Doctor:Don't hesitate
User:anyway .. i have no more questions .. but if you have any recommendations for me/husband plesae share .. we are almost desparate now :)
Doctor:How long are you married for now?
User:2 yrs
Doctor:Are both of you mentally prepared to have a baby now?
Doctor:Is there any particular problem in having frequent intercourse?
User:not atall .. but sometimes deep penetration hurts .. in particular doggy style
Doctor:How often do you have intercourse?
Doctor:Is the act complete?
Doctor:Have you been pregnant before?
User:3-4 times .. no this is first time ..
Doctor:Have you had intercourse regularly all this 2 years?
User:yes .. with averaage of 3-4 times a week
User:we both are happy enough with sex life .. no issues with it
Doctor:Is your PCOD treated?
Doctor:That is good to hear
Doctor:May I know your weight?
User:yes. 5 yrs back i missed one period and got PCO, and Dr. gave me some birth dontrol pills I guess, I took that medicine
User:and nothing happened after tha .. but last moth my period was delayed by 15 days
User:weight - 52
User:hight - 5'4
Doctor:Your weight seems to be fine
Doctor:Are you in consultation with a specialist for this?
User:no as of now .. but we are thinking
Doctor:Please get an tranvaginal ultrasound scan done
Doctor:and both of you need certain work up to be done
User:ok .. what ?
Doctor:It is better to consult a specialist now as it has been two years
Doctor:Follicular study for you
Doctor:Your husband's semen analysis
User:but for last two yrs .. no were not trying ..
User:last month was the first month we had releation without contraceptive
Doctor:You can wait for sometime
User:yes ...
Doctor:you will conceive easily
Doctor:I do not see a problem
User:thank you
User:is there any way i can contact you directly in case i have any question?
User:i have never chat this friendly with anybody before
Doctor:Please type my name in the beginning of your chat
Doctor:you can ask for 'Dr. Shanthi"
Doctor:I can take the chat
Doctor:Thank you
Doctor:It's my pleasure too chatting with you
User:thank you some much
User:pleasure is all mine
User:you have nice rest of the day
User:bye ..
Doctor:you too
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