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Treatment for premature ejaculation. - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Excellent Posted in: Premature Ejaculation
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Doctor :   hi
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how can i help you?
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please proceed with your health query
User :   Sir I am 29 yr old and not married
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ok
User :   sir before proceeding may i please confirm that I am chatting with SEX query doctor
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I am a General Practitioner, I believe I can help you within my expertise and If required I shall recommend a specialist.
Doctor :   you can proceed with your discussion
User :   ok sir thanks
User :   Sir i Have a sex problem that is my session ends very soon during sex
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ok
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can you describe your problem in detail.
User :   while having sex i ejaculate very soon
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ok
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i will need to ask you a few more questions to be able to understand your problem better
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can i proceed?
User :   sure sir
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is there any problem in achieving an erection?
User :   no nothing problem
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ok
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is there any problem in maintaining an erection?
User :   no sir
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let me tell you one thing at this pint, the problem in sex or intercourse can happen in diffrenet phases
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like 1) Excitement or Arousal phase which consist of problem with achieving erection
Doctor :   2) Plateau phase ( peaks of arousal) or the maintaining erection
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3) Orgasm phase or the achieving of climax
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4) Resolution phase, that is after ejaculation
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so now tell me which phase you are facing problem?
User :   but i dont habe any problem with erection or in maintaining it but the only thing is hardly 2 mins or 3 mins I can with stand and i will reach climax
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ok
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in early sexual almost 85% of men face this problem
User :   hope its orgasm phase or the achieving of climax
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a usual or a normal healthy sexual intercourse duration can vary from 2-3 minutes to 10-15 minutes
User :   but I have sex twice in a week
Doctor :   it depends on teh mental status and teh ability to withold ejaculation
Doctor :   if there is no problem in achieving erection or maintaining it, then it is the lack of control over ejaculation
User :   yes sir.do we have any treatment for this
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there is a technique to follow, which helps in overcoming this
Doctor :   i will explain
User :   ok
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it is called the "start and stop" technique
Doctor :   in this you need to withold the ejaculation when you feel you are almost reaching it
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go back to more of foreplay and less of penetrative sex at that time
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also, you can indulge in foreplay more before getting into penetrative sex, and then when at height of reaching orgasm, you can again go back to foreplay.
Doctor :   have you followed what i have said?
User :   yes sir
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Is there any thing else I can help you with?
User :   sir let me be bit more frank with you
Doctor :   sure, please go ahead
User :   The girl with whom i have sex is married and she also insisted me to consult a sex doctor regarding this problem.
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first of all indulging in extramarital sex for her is not good, also she will not be satisfied since she is already into full fledged sex
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your problem is not uncommon
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practice the above said technique and see
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what diffrence you se ein two weeks time
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if you are still facing the same porblem
User :   but her husband got expired 3yrs back AND WE ARE INTO SEX SINCE 1YR
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then you can visit this folowing link
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to consult sexologist.
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ok
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so she is having intercourse only with you now since 1 year?
User :   yes sir
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WWW.WWWW.WW Doctor :  
this is the link
Doctor :   how long she was into her married life before her husband died?
User :   1 1/2 yr
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ok
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in that case again i will give you the same opinion that she is more practiced into having sexual realtionship
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also since you are not married to her
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you also wil be having few inhibitions behind your mind which will also play a role in your early ejaculation problem
User :   yeah she discussed me reagrding her husband sex
Doctor :   so what is suggested here is to practice the "start and stop" technique and see if you get benefitted with that
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if not then you wil need counselling fro a sexologist
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as you need to be relaxed when having intercourse
User :   sir i tried that one but not satisfied
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and since she is mentioned her previous sexual life you will be pre-occupied with the though of performing better
Doctor :   so first thing needed is to hav e relaxed mind
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and then try the technique
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the technique sounds simple to follow but it is a real task
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and it should be followed correctly to get maximum benefits
User :   ok sir shall iask you some doubts
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sure you can. please go ahead with asking your doubts
User :   sir there are many medicines available in market like tablets and sprays to withstand ejaculation. Do this have side effects?
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yes they have side effects
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and they should be tried only after a proper consultation and advise
User :   sir can u explain still more briefly abt side effects
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based on what you really require
Doctor :   the side efects can range from the prolonged painful erection even after climax, to heart and kidney damaging effects
Doctor :   most often the reason is psychological
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which can be easily overcome with counselling
User :   ok sir if we use for once then also do we have side effects?
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we cannot say, it can happen that you may get side effects
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as each person chemical composition is diffrent
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so the reaction is varied
User :   ok sir so i need to consult sexalogist to get remedy for this?
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in your case i suggest physical examination and counselling by a sexologist if the technique even after following it correctly does not help you
Doctor :   you can go thru the link i hav eprovided for th esexologist
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or go thru this another link and choose whom you want to consult
User :   yes sir
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WWW.WWWW.WW Doctor :  
you can scroll thru the page and find out whom you need to consult
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a sexologist is better option
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if not then a urologist
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we also provide appointment fixing
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if you want to meet a sexologist in your area of location, you can provide your location details and the nearest city
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and we can help you to locate a sexologist in your area
User :   ok sir will try the links orivided by you after having a chat with sexalogist i will come to a decisison
Doctor :   whom you can personally meet
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sure you can
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Is there any thing else I can help you with?
User :   no thank u ver much sir ur gud name pls
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