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To prolong sexual intercourse, size of the penis,tightness of the foreskin and pain - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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Answered : 40 Questions
Doctor :   Hi
User :   Hello
Doctor :   Good afternoon.
User :   May i know whomi am taliking
Doctor :   How can I help you?
User :   Hey Dr. how you doing today/
Doctor :   I am fine.
Doctor :   Thank you.
User :   I need some advise but i am feeling little awkward to asked
Doctor :   I shall help you as best as I can.
User :   thanks
Doctor :   Please proceed with your query.
User :   need to know i do i stay longer in bed at night
Doctor :   You mean the measure to prolong sexual intercourse?
User :   yes
Doctor :   May I know your age and gender?
User :   i mean we used to finish wihin 10-15 mins
User :   37 , male
Doctor :   Are you facing any problem during sexual intercourse currently?
User :   no
Doctor :   Do you have any medical illness such as diabetes, heart disease?
Doctor :   Do you smoke or consume alcohol?
User :   no
Doctor :   Are you there?
User :   very rarely drink
User :   no smoking
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Let me explain to you.
Doctor :   Almost all men looses erection after ejaculation.
Doctor :   It implies sexual activity to mot men, last only till the time of ejaculation.
Doctor :   Average man reaches climax in 2-3 minutes following penetration.
Doctor :   Hence if you are lasting for 10-15 minutes, you are above average men.
Doctor :   So you need not worry.
Doctor :   Nevertheless
User :   even i feel my peni size is small also my sceen is not completly coming down
Doctor :   I shall suggest you few measures to increase the time of sexual intercourse.
User :   ok
Doctor :   Before I do that, you also need to understand, only the first 2 inches of female genital tract is sensitive.
Doctor :   This means any penis size above 2 inches is sufficient to satisfy a women.
Doctor :   Doctors consider a penis size (erect state) of less than 2 inches to be insufficient for sexual intercourse.
Doctor :   Almost all men except for one who suffer from developmental and endocrine problems may have less than this size.
User :   mine is 4'' after errect state
Doctor :   So do not worry about your size. A size of 4 inches during erect state is more than enough to satisfy your partner.
Doctor :   But do learn the art of sex making.
User :   ho to do that?
Doctor :   you should be able to have normal sexual intercourse.
Doctor :   Let me suggest that. This will also be the answer to your first query.
Doctor :   Sexual intercourse is divided into 3/4 stages.
Doctor :   1. Fore play
Doctor :   2. Penetration
Doctor :   3. Climax
Doctor :   4. Post play.
Doctor :   As I mentioned in the beginning penetration to climax may take only 2-3 minutes normally, if you last above than this, you are doing good extremely.
Doctor :   So the measures that I suggest include
User :   we both are little heavy in body so sometimr felt that size does matter
Doctor :   No, size doesn't matter in this regards.
Doctor :   The measures which I am talking about include
User :   hmm
Doctor :   1. Increase the time of fore play - this is the part that includes touching, kissing and other methods of arousal.
User :   Ok
Doctor :   it also include stimulation of the private organs without penetration.
Doctor :   You can involve in foreplay as much as possible.
Doctor :   It is known that women can reach climax during foreplay itself, if performed well.
User :   ohh
Doctor :   So spend lot of time on foreplay.
Doctor :   This will enhance the pleasures of sexual intercourse in both partners.
User :   ok
Doctor :   2. During penetration stage - you may practice few techniques which are named as Masters and Johnson's exercises.
User :   what is that/
Doctor :   This is a method to increase the 2-3 minutes time that I told initially to a longer interval.
Doctor :   During penetration, when you feel that you are about to ejaculate, you need to stop.
Doctor :   Pause for a minute.
Doctor :   You may withdraw from your partner and if needed squeeze the base of the penis.
Doctor :   This will stop the ejaculation.
Doctor :   And erection is not lost.
Doctor :   You can restart the process again.
User :   ohh, i thought with this errection also may lost
Doctor :   You will lose erection, if you ejaculate.
Doctor :   With few practices you will know how to control this.
User :   base to squeese or top of the penis?
Doctor :   Base of the penis.
User :   ok
User :   next
Doctor :   Alternatively try to have sexual intercourse after ejaculation too.
Doctor :   Normally man can regain erection after some time following ejaculation.
Doctor :   This time most often is a few minutes.
Doctor :   The second one after ejaculation will generally be longer than the first.
Doctor :   You can try any of these techniques to increase the time of penetration stage.
Doctor :   3. Climax stage cannot be controlled or increased.
Doctor :   Keep yourself well hydrated and properly nourished.
Doctor :   This helps in better quality and quantity of sperms.
User :   how to Keep well hydrated and properly nourished
Doctor :   4. Post play - Most men feel sexual intercourse ends after climax. But it isn't.
Doctor :   You could repeat the actions of foreplay here.
User :   k
Doctor :   Though it you may be not be able to have the same pleasures of sexual intercourse, your partner will have them.
Doctor :   As women can have achieve multiple climax in a single sexual intercourse, your partner will be very well satisfied when there is multiple climaxes.
User :   k
Doctor :   Lastly before I conclude, it is important that you are emotionally attached with your partner. Good sexual desire by both partners is essential for better quality sexual life.
Doctor :   Keep your self healthy.
User :   agreed
Doctor :   Physical exercises and diet modifications to reduce weight; good sleep; yoga; relaxation techniques and so on are few tips that can play a major role
Doctor :   in good sexual life.
Doctor :   So practice them as well.
User :   yup
Doctor :   You should be able to have better sexual functions with these techniques.
Doctor :   Do not worry about size any more.
Doctor :   Hopefully it is clear to you.
User :   yes
Doctor :   Do you have any other query?
User :   but about the sceen which is not completly properly down after errection
User :   can i hv something loosen up
Doctor :   I am sorry, I am not able to understand what you meant by sceen not completely down?
Doctor :   Do you mean the foreskin is not completely going back to normal after erection?
Doctor :   *after withdrawl of the foreskin?
User :   i don't know the exact words for medical terms but once my penis errect the penis screen is intact it comes o
User :   it keep the same as it is in normal state also and after errect also
User :   i may not able to discribe u properly
Doctor :   Do you mean that you are not able to retract the skin completely during erection?
User :   yes
Doctor :   Ok
User :   even in penatration my forescreen is cover my penis , till u pull down manually
Doctor :   This can happen if the foreskin is little tightly attached to the glans.
User :   yes
Doctor :   If you are not having pain during sexual intercourse, then there is no need to worry.
User :   some time its pain
User :   in more exitment
Doctor :   If you are facing discomfort, I suggest you to use lubricants.
Doctor :   Products useful for lubrication are saliva, vaseline, KY jelly and other brands.
Doctor :   Lack of hydration can also contribute to reduced lubrication.
Doctor :   So have a good glass of water before sexual intercourse.
User :   k
Doctor :   You can use these lubrications during penetration. They will help in smooth retraction and reduce the pain also.
Doctor :   If these measures are not helping, then you will need surgical procedure.
User :   foreskin is little tightly attached to the glans is normal right?
Doctor :   All men are born with foreskin attached to the glans.
User :   so option available than surgery?
Doctor :   They slowly loosen up during puberty and some break free during sexual intercourse too.
User :   but i am 37 now
Doctor :   If they are very tight and producing pain, then the treatment measures are either surgery - circumcision or use of lubrication.
User :   ok
User :   lastly for my information, i heard abt vigara
User :   will it really work? and how? is it safe?
Doctor :   I would suggest you to use good lubrication either by saliva or other products such as vaseline and KY jelly. If symptoms persist then circumcision.
Doctor :   Viagra comes with side effects.
Doctor :   It's used in people having erectile dysfunctions.
User :   ohh
Doctor :   Since you are able to have erections, I would not suggest you to exposure yourself to side effects unnecessarily.
Doctor :   Do you follow?
User :   yes
User :   very well
Doctor :   Do you have any other query?
User :   Tahnks for all your suggetions and advise
User :   thanks
Doctor :   Pleasure is mine.
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting me.
Doctor :   Bye for now.
User :   nice to talk to u, Dr.
User :   bye and hv a nice rest of the day ahead
Doctor :   Have a good day!!
User :   by
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