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Tips to quit alcohol addiction, depression - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   Sorry about that
User :   i thought i lost ya!
User :   i nearly went for the vodka
Doctor :   You need to log in a different browser if that happens any time.
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   I am glad
Doctor :   you logged in again.
Doctor :   Tell me when did that happen?
User :   last month
Doctor :   Ok
User :   which conversation are we one im confused
Doctor :   The guy who was three years older to you.
User :   oh ok yeah last mnth
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Guys at 23 are still kids.
Doctor :   Most of them.
Doctor :   But have you thought of a casual date rather than a relationship?
User :   he wasnt he was good looking looked out for me and cared which most blokes dont and then he went and had an affair
Doctor :   Ok
User :   i went on dates with him it still didnt work
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   How long did it last?
User :   nearly a year
Doctor :   Ok.
Doctor :   That was bad, but still that shows he is irresponsible.
Doctor :   Dont you think so?
User :   i was stupid to think he was the one
Doctor :   Ok
User :   we sat down each night and planed our life
User :   one sec got to go loo
Doctor :   That happens to everyone all the time.
User :   im back
User :   he ment the world to me, we talked marriage we talked children
User :   and then he wrecks it by having an affair with a girl of 17
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   That was bad.
Doctor :   That was very bad.
Doctor :   I can understand how you feel.
User :   he was the only person i trusted for long time and th thing which hurt most was she was 17 she dont no what life is yet
Doctor :   Yes
User :   perhapes he didnt like blondes
Doctor :   That is true.
Doctor :   Then he doesnt deserve you
User :   it was more to it though i miscaried his baby maybe i drove him to it
Doctor :   Ok.
Doctor :   How could you help that? Did you get it done on purpose?
User :   he was as hurt as me
Doctor :   Ok
User :   no i didnt we talked about it and decided to keep it
Doctor :   ok
User :   i have never talked about this before
User :   its really hard to talk about
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   I understand.
Doctor :   But it still wasnt your fault
User :   i was the one pregnant i lost the baby
Doctor :   But still that couldnt be helped
User :   i just cant understand why i wasnt lucky enough to have a child of my own, maybe that might of helped the relationship
User :   im a godmother and that will probly be it
Doctor :   No, Abortions occur spontaneously in many normal woman.
User :   i never aborted it i would never do that
User :   i wanted to be a mum so bad
User :   i just wanted to better than my mum i wanted to be there for it
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   I understand
User :   when i read possitive on that pregnacy test i was thrilled
Doctor :   Ok.
User :   to this day i wont understand what happend to my life, what did happen? it was me, probly all of it, he was always proud to be with me he used to say i best looking in the pub maybe he has one to many bers
Doctor :   Ok.
User :   but what i do no is that i will never forgive myself for it
Doctor :   May be he was not mature enough to handle the situation.
User :   it was me he couldnt handle
User :   i was on benders till god no what time
Doctor :   Benders?
User :   getting drunk
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   What is past cannot be helped.
User :   i just cant forget, i wanted to be a mum so much
Doctor :   Yes.
User :   with all my problems i hoped i could forget it after
Doctor :   But there is a good chance you can be one again.
User :   i dont see how i could be, then i was a good looking girl
Doctor :   Why do you think you would be any different now?
User :   i look in the mirror and i cant face what i look like
User :   im a mess
Doctor :   Why do you think only good looking girls get guys?
Doctor :   Do you think that it is only looks that matter?
User :   no not at all
Doctor :   Ok
User :   guys good looks help though, i dont just go for that though and i havent looked at a guy like that for along time
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   So do many guys.
Doctor :   Not everyone goes for good looks.
Doctor :   If it was looks alone, then life would have been much simpler.
User :   i liked bad boys like the one were are taling about, he wasnt good looking but he made me feel protected because everyone knew him
Doctor :   Ok
User :   to be honest he did deal a bit of drugs
Doctor :   Ok
User :   and i never did it before you ask
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   I can understand how you are feeling
Doctor :   But you must understand that the miscarriage was not your fault.
User :   if i saw him in a street today e probly ignore me and still blame me unless he's drunk or drugged up
Doctor :   Ok.
Doctor :   If a guy is into drugs then it shows that
Doctor :   he is not very responsible
User :   i didnt under stand him when he said it was my fault then i click
Doctor :   leaving you would have happened at some stage or the other
Doctor :   better now than later may be if you had kids
Doctor :   that would have been bad on your kids
User :   we had a kid but i lost it
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   imagine if you did have a kid and then he left you
Doctor :   it would have been unfair on the kid
User :   just like me then
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   you wouldnt want that to happen to your kid
User :   no but maybe it would be diffrent
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   but we can never know
Doctor :   what is done is done.
User :   my words your speaking if i take an over dose what done is done
Doctor :   Do you sketch or paint?
User :   no
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   But you are not done yet
Doctor :   are you?
Doctor :   You are just 20, you are too young to be done yet
User :   well they arnt that fare away
Doctor :   There is so much life out there
User :   as you no i've been through my fare share
Doctor :   This was unfair share more like
Doctor :   The fairera spect is yet to come
User :   there isnt a fairera share of my life
User :   yes im 20 but that doesnt stop me when im 21 it aint going to make any diffrence
User :   why do you want to know if i sketch or paint?
User :   there isnt anything for me as you now
Doctor :   Just casually.
User :   there aint anything here for me as you know
Doctor :   Ok
User :   no family no friends no piont all i got is a house a dog cats and me
User :   oh and vodka and beer
Doctor :   Ok
User :   can you say more than ok?
Doctor :   I am chatting with some patients
Doctor :   so thats why the oks
User :   ok sorry
Doctor :   Thats ok
Doctor :   So tell me,
Doctor :   you decided not to have a family and friends
Doctor :   right?
User :   sorry you caught me at the wrong i hade zpiclone and voka in my hand
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Why again?
Doctor :   I thought we were going to talk again?
User :   we were
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   So
Doctor :   What happened now?
Doctor :   tell me
User :   it seems the best way
Doctor :   Who says so?
Doctor :   why do you think so?
User :   i just do
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Tell me something else
User :   i've carried the zopiclone alday with me
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Why?
User :   i just have
Doctor :   Tell me
User :   your trying to stop me again
Doctor :   I am jsut asking you to talk to me
Doctor :   thats all
User :   i just want this life to be a dream
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   What are you drinking now?
User :   guess
Doctor :   Tell me
User :   1litre bottle of vodka and beer
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   It is the vodka talking then
Doctor :   Tell me what else do you want to talk about?
User :   no its not the vodka
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   just tell me, what do you want to talk about?
Doctor :   I have to close this chat window as you have moved out of the chat. Please log in again if you need further medical advice.
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