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Tips to overcome alcohol addiction and depression - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Excellent Posted in: Depression
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Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   how can i help u?
Doctor :   She shall pick up the chat once i close
User :   ok
Doctor :   please stay logged in
Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   how are yopu feeling today?
User :   i fell ill
Doctor :   Why is that?
User :   i was on this morning but they said you was on leaving day or somthing
Doctor :   are you still on vodka?
User :   felt like it since last night
Doctor :   no. i was on leave
Doctor :   tell me
User :   yes not as much though but i have been drinking more beer sorry
Doctor :   Thats ok
Doctor :   beer is better than vodka
User :   its very hard walking into off license and they say your normal
Doctor :   Ok.
Doctor :   So have you thought about what I told you?
User :   yes
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Tell me
User :   i went upstairs thought about it alot while cleaning and then i got distracted
Doctor :   Ok
User :   i was XXXXXXXX take zopiclone 3.75mg sleeping tabs but i didnt your always in my head!
User :   saying NO
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Good
User :   not good
Doctor :   Why?
User :   because i wanted to
User :   it would make life so much easier
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Who ever said life is easy?
User :   every time i step out the door people are laughing and joking there life must be easy and straight forward
Doctor :   No
Doctor :   why do you think so?
Doctor :   just because people are laughing
Doctor :   it doesnt mean they have no problems
User :   yeah they have problems but much easier like money they just have to get a job i have money but no life
Doctor :   whoever said getting money is easy?
Doctor :   and there are many more problems than money
User :   i woke up with a banging headache today and felt dizzy and now i just okish
User :   i've seen people kill there selfs over debt its that easy
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   eat something
Doctor :   it would help with the headache
User :   when you wanst on earlier i could have cried i felt so low
User :   i cant eat
User :   my stomache must of shrunk i use to eat loads now i eat a pallet of cherry tomatos aday
Doctor :   no
Doctor :   it is because of the hangover
Doctor :   but once you start eating you will feel better
User :   i havent had a hand over since i was 16
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   so tell me
Doctor :   what else are you thinking today?
Doctor :   are you there?
User :   yes
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   tell me
User :   i dont think alot you see
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Atleast whatever I told you
Doctor :   about purpose,
User :   i told you that as soon as you said it i dont have a purpose of life
Doctor :   Ok
User :   1 sec got to go loo
Doctor :   tell me about your uncle
Doctor :   ok
User :   im back
User :   are you there?
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   tell me about your uncle today
Doctor :   what was he like?
User :   belongs you gave me a chance to drink a can of beer.
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   try to kick the vodka
Doctor :   beer is ok
Doctor :   not completely but better
Doctor :   so tell me
Doctor :   about your uncle
User :   kick the vodka are you joking? that hurts
Doctor :   oK
Doctor :   May be not kick
Doctor :   restrict
Doctor :   you still havent started telling me about your uncle.
User :   i live on my own in a lonely house if i see it i drink it i havent got anyone to say dont do that
Doctor :   ok
User :   im trying to dodge the question!
Doctor :   so who lived with your uncle?
Doctor :   was he married?
User :   i lived with my uncle and he was married but devorced
Doctor :   when did you start living with your uncle?
User :   when i was 15
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Why did you start living with him?
User :   family issues my mum wasnt really the mum i wanted her to be
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   How was he like?
User :   he was the total opposit to my mum
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   In what way?
User :   my mum didnt care what i did she encouraged me to smoke and drink and my uncle was always there
Doctor :   Ok
User :   and now there both gone
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Now dont you think you are following your mum rather than your uncle?
Doctor :   think about it.
User :   i hate myself for it
Doctor :   you love your uncle very much
Doctor :   then you should also love what he stood for.
Doctor :   isnt that true?
User :   he was always there for when i needed him but he didnt know what i was really like at that age
Doctor :   dont you still value what he used to say to you?
Doctor :   dont you think you would be insulting his memory by being lost?
User :   no because didnt i tell you he liked his drink too, he didnt let me no that though he always hide the empty bottles and i never confronted him about it
User :   that broke my heart
Doctor :   may be you should be back to the same way you were as when he was alive.
Doctor :   then why did he hide the bottles? the point was that he didnt want you to be a drunk
Doctor :   dont you think so?
Doctor :   it is not about him, it is about you
User :   its a bit late
Doctor :   it is never too late
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   enough about this
Doctor :   did you think about cooking again?
User :   well that conversation helped me drink my beer
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   what about cooking?
User :   i liked cooking 2 years ago i cant ven cook for one the closest i get to food is dog food
Doctor :   Ok
User :   i liked it while it lasted i wouldnt ver go back
Doctor :   why dont you try making something simple for yourself today?
User :   i cant face food
Doctor :   dont face it
Doctor :   just make it thats all
Doctor :   Do you like music?
User :   yes thats my subject i love
User :   my uncle
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   What kind of music do you like?
User :   pop and r n b
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Do you enjoy it now?
User :   mainly because that is what i use to sing and all i could ever sing!
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Do you sing now?
User :   the only song i listen to is leona XXXXXXXX better in time
Doctor :   Ok
User :   no i dont sing
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   you should listen to more music then.
User :   when ever i listen to a song i always have to put myself in there shoes because i know how hard it is thats why i dont i cant be bothered
Doctor :   Ok
User :   they always write about there life as they should, i did
User :   if i wrote one now it would be a desater
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Why do you think so?
Doctor :   there are so many like you
User :   what singers?
Doctor :   No
Doctor :   people with your problems
User :   i no that but they dont end up like this
User :   singing use to be my world always wanting to make it big, i have just given it up
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   May be you can try going back
User :   like i said if i go back now it would be a desaster
Doctor :   so what?
Doctor :   it would be still worth starting
User :   look at britany spears
Doctor :   what about her?
User :   she's made a right plonker about herself i know she is getting through it her new album is cool
Doctor :   you dont have to be her
Doctor :   You are yourself
Doctor :   the important thing is to start
User :   what a new life that is going to be hard
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   because it will be worth it
User :   will it it will be the same
Doctor :   how do you know?
User :   i know
Doctor :   you cant be sure
Doctor :   how can you predict?
User :   what difference can it make?
Doctor :   you would know once you got there
User :   how would i ever get there though?
Doctor :   you would
Doctor :   look at you
Doctor :   the last time you came you were looking for pills
Doctor :   now you are considering starting anew
User :   i still am
Doctor :   isnt that improvement?
User :   im still looking for pills
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   atleast you are talking now
User :   i was talking before wasnt i?
User :   i was going to take sleeping pills last night, but i thought of you, i wanted to talk to you
Doctor :   My timings are up
Doctor :   see you tomorrow
Doctor :   will be waiting as usual
Doctor :   think about what I said about your uncle today
User :   oh no i really cant leave
Doctor :   bye
User :   not like this
Doctor :   i have to go.
Doctor :   I will be waiting tomorrow
Doctor :   think about this
User :   tomorrow is to long
Doctor :   no it isnt
Doctor :   i will be here at 9 am IST
User :   it is for me
Doctor :   BYE FOR NOW
Doctor :   i really have to go
Doctor :   will be waiting tomorrow
Doctor :   please fill this
User :   cant you see what a state im in
Doctor :   bye for now,
Doctor :   will see you tomorrow
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