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Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   how can i help u
User :   hi
User :   may i know whom im talking to
Doctor :   Drxxxxxxxx
User :   sorry to ask is this genuine?
Doctor :   yep
Doctor :   please go ahead with ur medical query
User :   ur specilality plz?
Doctor :   general practisioner
Doctor :   It seems that you have moved out of the chat window, Please get back if you need any medical advice.
Doctor :   are you back
User :   i was married at a young age
User :   having no idea about married life
Doctor :   k
User :   it seems difficult to move on with my husband
User :   i dont find him romantic
Doctor :   ok
User :   its just one and a half year for our marriage
Doctor :   K
User :   what might be the reason?
Doctor :   To get a better picture I need this information--Age: Gender: Occupation: Location: Marital Status:
User :   recently i came to knew about the term Gays
User :   i succept him among one
User :   how to know whether he is the same
Doctor :   It would be hurting to say that you have to speak to him
Doctor :   The most important barrier in Family life is Communication
Doctor :   and neglecting to know the preferences of the partner
User :   he is capable to give a new life
Doctor :   Gay has nothing to do with potency and becoming a father
User :   is it possible/
Doctor :   He can very well be potent
Doctor :   and make coitus
User :   i saying so as im pregnant
Doctor :   You couple need some sort of counselling if you can initiate a discussion
Doctor :   I dint understand
Doctor :   your problem
User :   and i dint have any point left to say that he is Gay
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   i understand
Doctor :   Are you there?
User :   is there any medical help for such persons
User :   as this is something related to choice
User :   and a person cannot cange it as he entertain it
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   Please repeat the question once again in more understandable way
Doctor :   Do you mean to say that you wanted to change the sexual identity of him and makes you more attractive towards him
User :   i suspect that my husband is Gay,but as im pregnant no one in accept the same.i want to know is there any way we can lead a successful married life.i lov him .but its difficult as he dont even carecess me
Doctor :   Gay thing is nothing to do with potency, he can perform as other person and he can be viable as other men
Doctor :   he can procreate without any trouble
Doctor :   It is the Sexual Identity disorder
Doctor :   not Impotency
User :   then how is he capable to liv with me
User :   any person will ask ,if hes gay then how come he made love with you?
User :   he must be attracted to men
Doctor :   See XXXXXXXX you need a counsellor to help you in these question who can explain you in person what is the difference between the gay and potency and the
Doctor :   If he made love to you he must not be a gay
Doctor :   then
Doctor :   So leave the suspicious part and try to see the brighter side of things
Doctor :   Dont bother about the society
Doctor :   It is yoiu and him to live happily ever after
Doctor :   and it is yoiu to decide to stay and love him
User :   but how can i?
Doctor :   Ok
User :   we make love once in a week
Doctor :   I can understand your problem. However, since I am a general practitioner I may not be able to help you much with this. You will have to speak to a qualified specialist who will be able to help you out with this problem.
User :   some times once in 10 days
Doctor :   You can see a psychologist who can help you in Couple and Marriage therpay
Doctor :   and help you understand each other problem
Doctor :   If yoiu are in Bangalore You can use the search a doctor/hospital feature on our homepage to find a doctor in your area. If you wish, we can fix up your appointment with a doctor in your area.
User :   i cant meet any one personlly
User :   u raised my doubt
User :   its only 2 days back i saw a film based on gays in XXXXXXXX getting married
User :   in that film one of them made love to a women a day before there marriage
User :   i mean to say gays marriage
Doctor :   You are making this chat more personal
Doctor :   and not health realted
Doctor :   We have a long queue of patients waiting to get medical advise. Please restrict your conversation to Medical queries only.
User :   then how can you say that if my husband is capable to make lov he may not be gay
Doctor :   Get the semen analysis doen
Doctor :   done
Doctor :   at a laboratory
Doctor :   and see the counts
Doctor :   Thats is the next thing
Doctor :   you can do to suppress your doubts
User :   you only told that a person who is gay has nothing to do with potency
Doctor :   Yes Gay has nothing to do with potency
Doctor :   He can very much copulate and procreate
Doctor :   They are two different entities
User :   then how come there will be any change in semen count
Doctor :   There wont be any change
Doctor :   you seem to have a doubt that yoiur husband cant produce children
User :   so u mean to say one can judge a person gay through his semen count test
Doctor :   No
User :   i dont hav doubt
User :   iam pregnant
Doctor :   To judge a person to be a gay
User :   im running my 6month
Doctor :   is to get a clinical evaluation by a psychologist
Doctor :   His sexual patterns, history and physical examination , his though process etc should be known
Doctor :   The treatment for the Gay thing is again by counselling by a psychologist
Doctor :   regarding the couple therapy
Doctor :   and marrigae therpay
Doctor :   Ok
User :   thnx
Doctor :   I think these answers would have solved your queries
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