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Suicidal tendency due to failed relationships - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Depression
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Practicing since : 2005
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User :   Hi, may I answer y
Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   Please proceed with your query.
User :   i m feeling upset n depressed.......i feel like commiting suicide......i am feeling completely lost
Doctor :   May i know your age?
User :   i dont have any1 2share my problems wit.....i m feeling hopeless...i m 29
Doctor :   Since when are you having this problem?
User :   i had a failed relnship....dat guy is married now....happily married.....i got into n another reln with a guy who was already commited to some1 he is also geting married
User :   i m jus feeling so helpless
User :   he takes me 4granted.....he came in my life wen i broke up wit the 1st guy.....i feel like being used
User :   i keep crying without any reason....get angry easily......i dont enjoy in anything i used to enjoy b4
Doctor :   when was your last break-up?
Doctor :   i can understand what you are going through
Doctor :   I will try to help you with best of my ability
User :   it was abt 2years back....but still me n the 1st guy were in touch.....then wen he decided to get married i broke off all contacts with him as advised by my 2nd guy who was a frnd then
Doctor :   first of all, understand that every person is unique even you. God created you to be unique and blessed you with strength to love again even though you were hurt the first time
Doctor :   were you aware of the present guy's committed relationship when he came into your life?
Doctor :   or did he hid it from you?
User :   but i m not able to accpt things
User :   no i was aware.....n thats making me feel worse
Doctor :   yes it is hard to accept the facts and realities of life when you are hurt, but since you were aware of the fact that he was committed to someone else, it is better that you try and accept the fact
User :   i knew he was commited.....still because i was so low i made a mistake of accepting his proposal
Doctor :   so you mean to say it was he who proposed you?
User :   yaa i know but i really feel that he has used me mentally physically n financially
User :   yes he did
Doctor :   in that case it was wrong on his part that being committed he proposed to you giving you options to have false hopes.
User :   now when i want to end things he is emotionally blackmailing me
Doctor :   now we can only hope to fill up the wound, that you have had , we cannot undo what has been done. do you agree with me?
User :   no he never hid things......i knew everything......i was stupid.......i feeling so dirty abt my own self
Doctor :   is he going to get married to whom he was committed?
User :   i dont know
Doctor :   how is he trying to blackmail you emotionally?
User :   i have no one i can share this friends dont like him....they always advised me against my frndship with this guy but i still went ahead
Doctor :   since you say that he used you mentally physically n financially, you should be more careful now not to let him take advantage of you or your emotions and hurt you again.
Doctor :   what is it that you want to do now? be true to yourself and answer this. I will try to help you based your answer and truthfulness.
User :   i love him a lot n even though we fight every min i still cant be without him
Doctor :   your time is about to get over, you may want to recharge if you want to continue this discussion with me
User :   sometimes i feel he does love me but then many times i jus a doormat
Doctor :   as the chat window will close once your time gets over
User :   i m recharging
Doctor :   are you there?
Doctor :   ok i will wait for you to come back
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