Suffer from premature ejaculation and difficulty in erection. Any help? - Online Doctor Chats
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I am having problem of premature ejaculation
May i know your age ? Marital status ?
also my erections dont last for long
Are u able to have strong erections, during early morning ?
i mean, when not having sex ?
yes sometimes when I wake up
how long have u had this issue ? how long have u been married ?
around 3 months
how long have u had this issue , has it been since marriage ? or just started ?
YOU NEED NOT worry then
since you are able to have strong erections during morning, it is certain that your issue is due to psychological issues , and performance anxiety
first and foremost, you need to wait , to have sex, only when you are fully ready
and take time, and relax , before penetration
if you feel that you are having weaker erections, you can be treated with medications, that help you have strong erections
I am doing that but by the time I wear the condom after foreplay I loose erection
also I ejeaculte very soon after penetration
that , is certain , indicates, that it is due to performance anxiety
are there medications that can help me have strong erections and last long
First, instead of using condoms, you can adopt oral contraceptives for your wife, which are very effective in contraception, than condoms
so, for a few times, you can get over your performance anxiety
its just a few proper and enjoyable sessions, that you will gain confidence, which is probably lacking
she is not too comfortable with oreal contraceptives due to the side effects
has she used them before ?
then she is definitely misinformed
millions of women , use them, all over the world and they are safe, unless she had medical conditions, which do not allow them
ok so you suggest her taking oral contraceptives instead of me taking any medications
it is common, that men, who are newly sexually active have psychological issues, due to which, they think, they will not be able to perform during sex,
and this anxiety, causes them to feel inadequate
First and foremost, I would advise a counselling session, by a gynaecologist (couple counselling) who can advise you advantages of oral contraceptives and also can prescribe you medications, that will help u have strong erections
using them for a few sessions, will help u gain confidence
You are welcome
I have another problem
of urination at night
how many times do u wake up ?
after I sleep I wake up after 5 hours to visit the loo
and that disturbs my sleep
do u urinate before going to the bed ?
Also I avoid consuming liquids
First stop drinking any fluids, 2 hrs before going to the bed
i have tried that
do u have issues like thirst, excess urination during the day ?
dryness of throat, etc ?
well I have plenty of water during the day
but not of frequent urination
I do go around 5- 7 times
no dryness of throat
To rule out other issues , I would suggest you undergo a Urinalysis, and Fasting blood sugar, and post prandial blood sugar tests
I have done a few of these test last year
but everything was clear
did u have the symptoms at the time of testing ?
why were the tests done ?
for htis same problem
this becomes more during winter
and did u undergo any treatment for this ?
no the doctor said nothing was wrong
so it is more common during, winter..
If i dont sweat enough
And also if I have tea or someaerated drinks
In that case, all you need to do is reduce the amomunt of fluid intake
most likely you are drinking , more water
and even due to fruits like melon orange
yes, caffiene , does cause increased urination
so u need to stop taking such fluids and fruits
but sometimes I cant avoid
is there no medication to sure this
since there is no medical problem in your case, there is no need to treat it
dietary and lifestyle changes are only more than enough in this case
You are very welcome
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