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Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   Hi
User :   Hi
Doctor :  
How can I help you?
User :   I am getting married next month......I have few sex related queries
Doctor :   Ok

Doctor :  
Proceed with your queries
User :   While I masturate, I do not pull my foreskin down and rub my foreskin to derive sensation and ejaculate
Doctor :   Ok

User :   is it a normal way?
Doctor :  
Masturbation in plain is stimulating the organ for sexual satisfaction
Doctor :  
So there is no wrong way for that
User :   ok..
Doctor :  
foreskin is very much sensitive
Doctor :  
that is a fact
User :   yes..
User :   now, while i will be having intercourse, assuming I am not wearing a condom, can i penetrate without pulling down my foreskin
Doctor :   For deeper penetration, you should pull your foreskin

User :   till the end of the glans, right?
Doctor :   Right

User :   ok...i have tried masturbating by pulling my foreskin, but i was not able to get any sensation...
Doctor :   Yes, that is there

Doctor :  
but it is different in sex
Doctor :  
there you will find sensation
Doctor :  
some do not pull their foreskin
Doctor :  
and are happy with it
User :   ok..
User :   should i try masturbating few days by pulling my foreskin?
Doctor :   Not necessary

Doctor :  
as I said mast is different
User :   ok..
User :   while having intercourse wearing a condom, should i pull my foreskin?
User :   or it is the same?
Doctor :   With a condom

Doctor :  
there is no difference
Doctor :  
you can do it either way
Doctor :   You need not pull it back as such
User :   ok..
User :   is it necessary to put condoms while having sex assuming I have sexual relations with only one partner
Doctor :   If you do not want pregnancy then using condom is an option

User :   which are the safe days of having sex without condom and avoiding pregnancy
Doctor :   First 10 and the last 10 days of the womens' cycle

Doctor :  
that is rough
Doctor :  
first 7 and last 7 is more safe
User :   from the end or beginning?
Doctor :  
day 1 is when bleeding starts
Doctor :  
so leaving those 3-4 days
User :   so only 3-4 days before and after the cycle
Doctor :  
till day 10 you can do
User :   ok..
Doctor :  
and again from day 20 till the next cycle
User :   ok..
User :   during women's cycle is it safe to have sex?
Doctor :   No problems as such, but will be straining for the women

User :   ok..
User :   one should wear condom during this period or its ok without it also?
Doctor :   without it is ok

User :   ok
Doctor :  
during the remaining period you can use condom
Doctor :  
if during periods, you want to have, i would suggest a condom
User :   ok..
User :   for the first night, if her hymen breaks and she bleeds, should we continue having sex
Doctor :   Yes, you can

Doctor :  
But if it is making her uncomfortable, dont rush
User :   ok..
User :   if it bleeds/pains, is any medicine/cream advisable?
Doctor :   It is normal

Doctor :  
Nothing is required
User :   no cream/painkiller ?
Doctor :  
Not needed
User :   ok..
User :   is any specific condom advisable or one can buy any?
Doctor :   you can buy any one available commercially

Doctor :  
some of the leading brands you might be aware of
Doctor :  
like durex, moods
User :   what is the diff between dotted/flavoured and other condoms?
User :   yeah
Doctor :   Those are just like different cosmetics

Doctor :  
do not have medical significance
User :   do they increase pleasure in any way?
Doctor :  
No, it is not seen
User :   ok..
User :   Do men get hurt while having sex esp first time?
Doctor :   Anything new, there can be start up problems

Doctor :  
so slight pain is possible
Doctor :  
but not a major reported problem
User :   ok..
User :   i have few queries related to body hair
Doctor :   Ok

User :   how do i get rid off my pubic hair?
Doctor :   I have not heard of men doing that

Doctor :  
you can trim it
Doctor :  
instead
User :   ok..
Doctor :  
using electrical shavers or scissors
Doctor :  
should be careful
User :   ok
User :   what about chest hair?
Doctor :   The same

User :   and i have too much hair on legs also
Doctor :  
should not be shaved
User :   trimming?
Doctor :  
Yes
User :   should women do bikini wax?
Doctor :  
Wait for a minute
User :   i mean how healthy it is and any side effects?
User :   ok
Doctor :  
I am on an emergency call
Doctor :  
Fine
Doctor :  
the call got disrupted
User :   ok
Doctor :  
These things are not medical, but just salon
Doctor :  
One universal precaution is that
Doctor :  
should not use irritant solutions in private parts
Doctor :  
thats it
User :   ok..
User :   but wont a girl find uneasy if the guy's body has hair on it...
User :   as men we want a clean women's body
Doctor :   It is individualistic

Doctor :  
women do like hair, just the opposite
Doctor :  
but again purely subjective
User :   ok..
User :   in case my girl likes to have a clean body, then what do i do for chest/leg/pubic hair?
Doctor :  
hair is not preferred in women
Doctor :  
As I said trimming is the option
User :   i have few queries on oral sex
Doctor :   Ok
User :   while taking a blow job, should a guy pull down his foreskin?
Doctor :   Need not

User :   is pulling down more enjoyable?
Doctor :   No, just stick your likes

Doctor :  
and there is no hard and fast rule to do in a particular manner
User :   ok..
User :   what should be a good position for the first few times?
Doctor :   Sorry kindly limit to medical relevant questions

Doctor :  
position should be seen that it does not cause pain
Doctor :  
and should ensure easy penetration
User :   ok..
User :   should one try anal sex, if yes what are the precautions?
Doctor :   Should not try

Doctor :  
As a medico, I dont advise it
User :   any particular reason?
Doctor :  
anal prolapse, infection
Doctor :  
and that is not meant for this purpose
User :   ok..
User :   is there any book/reading you would advise me?
User :   for a healthy and happy sex life
Doctor :   You can consult a sexologist

Doctor :  
We shall help you in fixing an appointment with the same
User :   If you do not mind, can I know your name?
Doctor :   Dr.Bharath here

User :   Thanks Dr. Bharath for answering my queries....
User :   I have one more query
Doctor :   It is my duty

Doctor :  
Sure proceed
User :   if we have sex without condom and i ejaculate inside, even in first 10 and last 10 days, does the girl need to take a i-pill?
Doctor :   No

Doctor :  
Not needed
User :   ok..
User :   and on all occassions for the remaining period
User :   one every time?
Doctor :  
Yes
Doctor :  
if you do not want pregnancy then you should
User :   right
User :   when does a girl wear condom?
Doctor :   When you dont wear

User :   :)
Doctor :  
It is not a familiar practice yet
User :   ok..
Doctor :   Is there any thing else I can help you with?

User :   yes..
Doctor :   Ok
User :   if it bleeds the first time and we stop, should we still try the next day even if its hurting?
Doctor :   It is obvious

Doctor :  
if it is hurting too much, you should not proceed
User :   right
Doctor :  
little bit is fine and common
User :   ok..
Doctor :  
Give time to her and for yourself to adjust
Doctor :  
Should not be in a hurry
User :   when should one put lubricating fluid?
Doctor :  
When the female is not producing enough secretions
User :   and should one start penetrating immediately after putting the lubricating fluid?
Doctor :   Yes, you can

Doctor :  
need not be immediate
Doctor :  
can take your time
User :   does fingering help in breaking the hymen?
Doctor :   Usually not that deep

User :   ok..
User :   I guess this is all I had to ask....
Doctor :   Fine

User :   Thanks a lot..
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting HealthcareMagic. Bye for now. Please refer your friends to our service.

User :   surely
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