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Sexual aberration; Incestrous relationship - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Practicing since : 2004
Answered : 36 Questions
User :   hi
Doctor :   hi
User :   just now i was chatting with a doctor is the same one
Doctor :   yes
User :   ok
User :   my problem is..always iam looking into my sis and moms boobs and ass
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   these are
User :   iam feeling vey guilty
Doctor :   just thoughts passing through your minds causing you to
Doctor :   see and feel guilty
Doctor :   next time this happens
User :   mm
User :   but it is some what serious
Doctor :   just let it see and be calm
Doctor :   think about some thing else
Doctor :   immediateky
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   this is not a serious physical problem
User :   thats what i told mind is full of sex
Doctor :   yes
User :   always thinking to have sex
Doctor :   i understood
User :   and always dreaming like fucking them
Doctor :   this problem has been seen
Doctor :   the problem
Doctor :   ill tell you now
Doctor :   listen carefully
User :   tell me
Doctor :   first of all you r age is such that your hormones will be ready for reproduction
Doctor :   and you think of sex
User :   mmm
Doctor :   the mind in turn turns you on on watching
Doctor :   any opposite sex
Doctor :   that may be photos , videos and even live persons whom you are close with
User :   thats this normal
Doctor :   then wen you have sexual feelings towards them ... you get this guilty feeling
Doctor :   this guilty feeling sets inside your subconscious mind and it keeps recycling there and you get this
Doctor :   dreams which in turn makes you more guilty
User :   mm..thats it ok if i have sex within my family members?
Doctor :   do you think i told you about the problem is right
User :   yes
Doctor :   SO
Doctor :   what we need to do is find away to come out of this
Doctor :   it
Doctor :   this disease is ]
Doctor :   wt u rr having is of the mind and not your body
Doctor :   so ]
User :   i hope once i get maaried.i will be not behaving like this
Doctor :   i will need your support in the treament
Doctor :   YES you are right
User :   but for next 2 yrs there is no chance of marriage for me
Doctor :   ok
User :   untill my elder sis gets married
User :   she is 35yrs old
Doctor :   not a problem there are other ways like i will tell now which
Doctor :   wil nee your suppport in treatment
User :   i want her badly
Doctor :   are you ready to come out of this situation
Doctor :   as you think off now
Doctor :   you want her , and if you don take my advice ... and if you have sex with her .... after that you will again have a guilty feeling which
Doctor :   will be there for a very long time
Doctor :   donmt y ou think you wiwlll be guilty after that?
Doctor :   and after you have sex it will not solve your problem,,,, then anothr feeling will arise
User :   yes tell me
Doctor :   a problem is not a solution for anothere problem... am i right?
User :   i think i wont feel guilty after having her
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   its your mind that is telling you this right noe
Doctor :   after you get married with your wife and children
User :   mm
Doctor :   don you think
Doctor :   you will regret then
User :   will there any problem in having sex with elder people
Doctor :   you are having a mental abrasion as of now
Doctor :   so you need treatment
User :   what type of treatment
Doctor :   you need
Doctor :   to listen to my suggestions
Doctor :   and follow it properly
Doctor :   that is the treatment for this
User :   ok
Doctor :   and so i can only give advice on this and you should follow .... its easy ... within no time you will gert away from the problem
User :   how long will it take
Doctor :   i will give you advice to follow for a week
User :   ok
Doctor :   at the end you tell me the result corrctky
Doctor :   and then we will go step by step
User :   now also my sis is sitting in hall..she is not wearing bra...this is making me very hot
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   for starting
Doctor :   the treatment
User :   tell me
Doctor :   i need to know
Doctor :   your daily routine
User :   wake up at 7.30..get ready...have bath...during bath..i use to masturbate 1 time
User :   then go to office...
User :   come back home at 8-9, have food..if i have time chat with family or i will be in net
User :   then sleep
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   what time is your office]
User :   9.30 am
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   you should wake up half an hour early as you get up noe
User :   ok
Doctor :   then you have to wash you r face and go for a walk ,, a jog will be better
Doctor :   for 20 - 30 min
User :   ok
Doctor :   do you have a park or a serene place where you stay near by
User :   yes
Doctor :   then after the jog you have to sit down somewhere and do these breathing eexercise ... think about some thing interesting other than sex
Doctor :   and do deep breathing exercise
Doctor :   and you return and take bath and have your breakfast
User :   mmm
Doctor :   after the breakfast take a multivitaamin
Doctor :   multivitamin capsule everyday - 1
Doctor :   and you get ready and go to the office
User :   can u tell me the name of the capsule
Doctor :   during trhe course o fthe day i fyou get any sexual feelings
Doctor :   you can tell as i told (multi vitamin capsule) to the
Doctor :   medical shop
Doctor :   sand i was tellingg....
Doctor :   if you get any feelings just
Doctor :   dont tryu to supress or dont try to continue because it is nice
Doctor :   just think abot something else
User :   ok
Doctor :   which is not related to sex
User :   do u mean to say that..i should not stare at my sis and moms ass and boobs
Doctor :   yes you shud not
Doctor :   but if by chance you are just seeing it without knowing
Doctor :   then dont get worried or
Doctor :   get guilty about it
User :   ok
Doctor :   you should understand that you are not actually what you are thinking but its the disease which makes you think like that
User :   ok
Doctor :   so you should know that inside that there is as grown up and responsible man whom you should bring out]
User :   i have that verymuch..but iam very much attracted to my sis
User :   since she is also unmarried
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   yes its the mind not you that wants to have sex ..... seee now thats the point you should understand
User :   she is 35
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   you told me about that
User :   she is virgin also
User :   she will be also inneed of sex right?
Doctor :   but she will not be thinking this way
User :   mm..but if she says ok..can i proceed
Doctor :   no, you should not exploiut you r sisters helplessnesss
Doctor :   you should try to get her a good handsome gentle man
Doctor :   man to get her married to
User :   helplessness? what do u mean by tht?
Doctor :   wen you ask her about this .... she will become very sad
User :   iam not going to ask her directly
Doctor :   becuse being her younge rbrother she would have thopught of you as her son
Doctor :   wen u wr small she would have taken care of you
User :   mmm
User :   now i need to take care of her right
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   so try to solve your problem first
Doctor :   i suggest youmeeet a psychiatrist as soon as possible and tell him your problems and get counselled by him
Doctor :   are you there?
Doctor :   I have to close this window since there is no response from your side, please get back to us if you need further medical advice.
User :   hi
Doctor :   hi
User :   hi
Doctor :   well
User :   hi thr
Doctor :   what exactly u want?
Doctor :   r u there??
Doctor :   can u see my texts?
User :   yaa
User :   tell me
Doctor :   what exactly u want?
Doctor :   i have read ur case
Doctor :   & we as a medical team has discussed
User :   is the same one whoom i was chating
Doctor :   no
Doctor :   r u there??
User :   yes
Doctor :   that u might be suffering from
Doctor :   Sexual aberation
User :   simple..i have sex thoughts on my ur colleague was advising me
User :   and he was giving some treatment
Doctor :   which is a psychiatric disorders
User :   can u connect to him
Doctor :   sure
Doctor :   i am back
Doctor :   ur suffering from mental illness
Doctor :   called as Incestrous realtionship
User :   yes
Doctor :   we advice u to see the pyschaitrist soon
Doctor :   if u continue thinking this
Doctor :   & do it any thing wrong
Doctor :   u cud be booked for the same
Doctor :   r u there?
Doctor :   u can get cured only by the counselling
User :   yes
Doctor :   there r no medicines
User :   tell me
User :   u were giving some consultations right
Doctor :   i gave
User :   ok
User :   so do u mean to say that i should consult a psychatrist
Doctor :   one can also stop masturbating with some will power.
Doctor :   yeah sure
Doctor :   sooner the better
Doctor :   develop healthy habits
User : masturbating wont create problem right
Doctor :   good will power
Doctor :   thats all
Doctor :   no
Doctor :   Masturbation is a way of releasing pent up sexual energy.
User :   ok.can u tell me whats the average size of penis
Doctor :   no size
Doctor :   no standard size
Doctor :   y do u want to measure it
User :   average size
User :   of indians
Doctor :   size doent matter
Doctor :   just divert ur attention to good things
Doctor :   'healthy things
Doctor :   Is there anything else I can help you with?
User :   ok ok..i feel that my penis size is only i asked u
Doctor :   well
Doctor :   just forget all these things
Doctor :   eat well
Doctor :   sleep well
User :   ok
Doctor :   think well
Doctor :   should be the motto
User :   ok ok
Doctor :   Is there anything else I can help you with?
Doctor :   u will cured by ur will power
Doctor :   r u there?
User :   ok
User :   what abt dental problems
User :   can u give me advice on that
Doctor :   yeah
Doctor :   r u there?
User :   yes
Doctor :   pl proceed wd dental
User :   can u tell me is there any fixed clip whic can wear inside the teeth
User :   backside of teeth
Doctor :   yeah
Doctor :   for what ?
User :   teeth protruding
Doctor :   k
Doctor :   for that u have to consult dentist in person
User :   ok
Doctor :   he can advice
User :   how much does it cost
Doctor :   the type
Doctor :   the shape of the clips
Doctor :   depends
User :   average
Doctor :   1000-10,000+
User :   ok..what abt cosmetic surgery
User :   how much does it averagely costs
Doctor :   10,000-1 lacs+
Doctor :   Is there anything else I can help you with?
User :   ok
User :   thanks
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User :   k
Doctor :   Have you filled the feedback form
User :   s
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