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Sever pain during intercourse - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :  
How can i help you
User :   hi
User :   ru a gynecologist??
Doctor :  
Please proceed with your query
Doctor :  
I am Dr AAAAAAA
Doctor :  
family medicine - Speciality
Doctor :  
i will help you in your query
User :   Oh..i am a newly wedded person and i need to talk to a gyny due to some personal reasons
Doctor :  
if needed, will transfer the chat to gynecologist
User :   ok..
User :   well doctor to be v.frank..i am unable to have sex with my husband
User :   it has been 6 months of our marriage
Doctor :   please proceed

Doctor :  
ok
User :   some hw i cannot procedd whle having sex...it pains a lot n i push my husband back
User :   i am v.shy and unable to visit a doctor
Doctor :  
ok
User :   so just wanted to chat n tell my situation
User :   what should i do
Doctor :  
are yu using any jelly at the time of sex
User :   it is creating a gap with my husband
User :   no..sometimes we use condomns..but as it is unsuccessful we stoped using it
Doctor :  
is your partner able to pentrate the vagina

Doctor :  
do yu have any bleeding at the time or sex ?
User :   no not yet...actually insertion has not come till that point that it will bleed
Doctor :   are yu back ?
User :   yes
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :  
shall we proceed
User :   yes plz
User :   no not yet...actually insertion has not come till that point that it will bleed
Doctor :   ok

Doctor :  
are yu stressed or tensed at the time of sex
User :   not stressed but the only tension i have it tht it will pain
User :   i try my best but still unsuccessful
Doctor :  
do yu have any fear at time of sex
User :   no...ours is a love marriage
User :   and i am v.comfortable with my husband
Doctor :   at the time of sex will you make the thigh muscles and vaginal opening tight
User :   i try to make it but automatically my legs stop spreading..little pain and i stop spreading them
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :  
evey time you have sex do yu experinece this
User :   yes
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :  
when did yu get married
User :   6 months back
User :   at this point i have stopped feeling..the only thing in mind is i need to have sex..
Doctor :  
did have sex before marriage
User :   is there any medicine which creates feeling??
User :   no
Doctor :   are on any medications
User :   no medications
Doctor :  
are yu having any medical problems
User :   no problems doc
User :   i am fit
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :  
are your menstual cycles regular
User :   yes they are
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :   pain ful intercourse is called dyspareunia
User :   maybe my vagina doesnt open wide.. i feel little pain n i get tensed
User :   ok
User :   how do i overcome??
Doctor :  
i will advice you few medical tips to overcome it
User :   sure
Doctor :  
do you have good sexual educations
User :   yes..but i dont knw if something i have missed whch is impostant
Doctor :  
Painful spasms of the vagina that prevent intercourse in your course
User :   no i dont knw abt that
Doctor :   do yu have back ache at the time of menses
Doctor :  
do yu have white discharge during your cylces
User :   yes i do
User :   infact a lot
User :   1st day i have bad stomach ache
Doctor :   ok

User :   n white discharge is quite regular
Doctor :  
is it foulsmelling
Doctor :  
is it curdy white
User :   yes..it is
Doctor :  
profuse
Doctor :  
ok
User :   profuse??
Doctor :   more quantity
User :   yes..
Doctor :  
ok
User :   not v.much but yes i do
Doctor :  
did yu get a examination by lady doc
User :   on daily basis
User :   no
Doctor :  
did yu do any investigations
User :   did not visit a doc for this
User :   no
Doctor :  
like blood test, urine test, and PAP smear
User :   no nothing
Doctor :  
ok
User :   this can be a reason tht i am unable to have sex??
Doctor :  
yes as per histroy
User :   ok..so what do u recommend??
Doctor :   the condition is more towards vulvo- vaginitis
Doctor :  
this is due to fungal infection
Doctor :  
caused by Candida
User :   Oh..
Doctor :  
so i will advice to you go and get a gynecological examination done with a lady doc
User :   ok
Doctor :  
1. so she can assess the extent of infection
User :   ok
Doctor :   2. can assess the vaginal opening/ spasms
Doctor :  
3. go for the following tests
Doctor :   urine test
User :   ok
Doctor :  
and PAP smear testing
Doctor :  
if needed ultrasound abdomen pelvis
User :   ok
Doctor :   the doc will give a kit, which contains tablets
User :   ok
Doctor :   and full course tablets is must
User :   ok
User :   how long will it take to get fine??
Doctor :   I will advise few more tips for you

User :   sure
Doctor :   see its just a matter of 1-2 weeks

Doctor :  
once the infection is cleared
Doctor :  
this problem can be solved
User :   ok
User :   oh thts realy great
Doctor :  
consume Plenty of curd
User :   ok
Doctor :   it will help u more
Doctor :   as it affects the growth of fungus
User :   ok
Doctor :   drink plenty of water atleast 8- 10 glasses per day
User :   ok
Doctor :  
keeps the private parts hygeinic
Doctor :  
especially during menses, frequently chang the vaginal pads, for white dishcharge
User :   ok
Doctor :  
use comforatable panties, made of cotton, so there is good air circulation
User :   i have the white discharge even without menses
User :   ok
Doctor :  
can use pads even at that time
User :   oh...ok
Doctor :   once the infection part is taken care then the pain during sex will reduce
Doctor :  
Candid B cream will help yu
Doctor :  
Use 4-5 times a day, local application in the vaginal region using a cotton
User :   ok
Doctor :   next is regarding sexual education

User :   yes
Doctor :  
1. be relaxed, not to get tensed at the time of sex
User :   ok
Doctor :  
2. as and when you begin the sex, not to go for penetrative sex directlly
User :   ok
Doctor :  
3. Lot of foreplay will help yu
User :   ok
Doctor :   this will release the tension

User :   ok
Doctor :  
as at the time or orgasm, certains hormonal release will help yu to relax the vagina
Doctor :  
fore play includes stimulation of breast
Doctor :  
and nipples
Doctor :  
and the stomach region
User :   ok
Doctor :  
are yu intreseted in oral sex
User :   no..i dont like that
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :  
not an issue
Doctor :  
can go only for body play
User :   ok
Doctor :   after 20- min of fore paly can go for penetrative sex
User :   ok
Doctor :  
while having sex, you husband should use condoms
Doctor :  
this is because even he may be infected
User :   oh..ok
Doctor :   once you infection is confirmed
Doctor :   even he needs a treatment
Doctor :  
just for 3-4 days
User :   ok
Doctor :   once both of you are treated you can have sex with out condoms
User :   ok
Doctor :  
use water based KY jelly on the condoms and have sex
User :   ok
Doctor :  
use the KY jelly to the vaginal region 10 min before insertion of penis
User :   ok
Doctor :  
apply Ky jelly on the penis also this will help you to reduce the pain
Doctor :  
so be relaxed now
User :   ok
Doctor :   not to worry
Doctor :  
because the cause is found
User :   Thanks doc..i really didnt knw anythng abt all this
Doctor :  
now you just need few tests and treatment
Doctor :   ok
User :   yeah..i will go for the check-up today or tomorrow
Doctor :  
is there any thing else i can help you with
User :   No..this was only the major problem
Doctor :  
please fill the feed back form and comment box
User :   yeah i filled it
User :   Thanks a ton
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :  
take care bye for now
Doctor :  
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User :   will get back to you incase of some issues
User :   sure
Doctor :   please
User :   bbye..Thanks
Doctor :   we will be there all the time for your help
Doctor :  
Bye
User :   Bye
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