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Remedy for stress causing erectile dysfunction and early ejaculation - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   Its all about sex. i am married and not enjoying sex. not able to reach organsm.
Ms. XXXXXXXX is consulted to me at last time.
Very much tensed . please help.                         
Doctor :   Hi
User :   hello doctor
Doctor :   I am Dr.XXX
User :   i am XXX
User :   hello sir
Doctor :   When was the marriage?
User :   i am married and 28 years old
User :   4 months back
User :   i am not able to enjoy my sex and very tense
User :   pls help
User :   it seems i am not able to reach the organsm
Doctor :   Ok
User :   r u there doctor ?
Doctor :   I am reading your previous chat
User :   thanks
Doctor :   XXX I have read your previous chat with Dr. XXXXXXXX which was 4 months back and just 3 weeks after your marriage
Doctor :   Do you have erections now?
User :   erection is siemen flow?
Doctor :   Hardening of your penis
User :   yes..but for very less time
Doctor :   What do you feel when you have an erection?
Doctor :   Do you feel frightened that it may go off at any time?
Doctor :   Do you feel low that you cannot perform that time with full vigor?
User :   when i do sex with my wife it penis gets hard for two min's and within two min's my semens come out..
User :   and my penis get loose
User :   and after that i loose the feeling of sex
User :   pls help
User :   yes..i feel frightened
Doctor :   Why did you not try the second time?\
User :   i tried with mental as XXX said..but nothing happened
User :   i tried so many times doctor
Doctor :   Ok XXX I understand that your problem is purely a psychological reason
User :   no doctor...
Doctor :   You are frightened , tensed and stressed about not able to perform
User :   i tried with my mental strength
User :   to enjoy the sex..
User :   but failed to do so
Doctor :   If you have an erection even for one second
Doctor :   you may not have an organic problem at this age
Doctor :   Moreover it is not worrisome
User :   but i used to have masturbate before my marriage..and i enjoyed sex a lot
Doctor :   Ok those are not the benchmarks
Doctor :   now
User :   i suspect erectile dysfuction as well..
Doctor :   If you have suspicions you cannot do it properly
User :   please help doctor and make me happy
User :   i am not well for last four months just after marriage
User :   with sex
Doctor :   This is prime time for you to get physically examined properly
Doctor :   by a Sexologist
Doctor :   I think this is important for both you couple to take a personal face to face counselling with a Sexologist.
User :   cann't you help doctor..pls suggest.
Doctor :   I shall help you find one in your locality
Doctor :   You need a physical examination as you have a suspicion of your potency, you say you have erection problem
User :   yes doctor
Doctor :   Please do not skip this, as you have already tried to console with your mental strength
Doctor :   If there is a real problem it can be solved easily
User :   yes
Doctor :   if diagnosed early
Doctor :   Hence get your self examined
Doctor :   and at the same time you know the way of dealing your actual problem
Doctor :   during real time
Doctor :   that is during sex
Doctor :   If you wait long, you will lose the bit of confidence
User :   so what will be my next step ?
Doctor :   Which city are you?
User :   XXX
User :   XXX
Doctor :   I will tell you a better doctor
User :   thx
Doctor :   XXX
User :   any mobile no. to take appointment
User :   thx
User :   what exactly i have to tell him
Doctor :   Complete your total medical history
Doctor :   along with your sexual interactions
User :   is there any test i have to give ?
Doctor :   and what is happening to you since the marriage
User :   how much money i have to spend for that
Doctor :   Let him examine you physically
Doctor :   mostly you may not need any tests
User :   Thx doctor
User :   how much time will it take doctor ?
Doctor :   Which one?
User :   days to be normal ?
Doctor :   It is only a thorough counselling and you have to be more strong and positive
Doctor :   towards your health
User :   is there any serious thing ?
Doctor :   That is the pill or medicine I think
User :   i am very much strong and positive but still failed to maintain
Doctor :   Masturbation is very much normal and it shall not cause any problems post marriage
Doctor :   the mind set is so that you have done some evil thing so you are not able to get proper erection
User :   so with the help of pillls there is any chance to get okay
Doctor :   Yes
User :   one more thing doctor
User :   i my wife is a thyroid patient
User :   and doctor suggest not to conceive her
User :   till the thyroid gets normal
Doctor :   That is correct
User :   can i use sex with the help of condoms
Doctor :   Yes you both can have proper sex
Doctor :   even now
User :   is there any side effects ?
Doctor :   No side effects
Doctor :   You can have a contraceptive use
User :   can u suggest me some medicine doctor
User :   as i am running with no time
User :   i will try and then go and meet with doctor as u suggested
Doctor :   XXX this is no a good way of suggesting pills without examination
User :   going XXX in this week
Doctor :   We have to know the problem
User :   my wife is not with me now and she willl be back in one months
User :   so want to be okay before she comes
User :   pls doctor
Doctor :   Oh that case you meet him as soon
User :   i will meet him doctor
User :   cann't u suggest few medice ?
Doctor :   I am sure you guyz will do well
User :   i thought of taking viagra from it advicible ?
User :   what will happen ...if i do the same ?
Doctor :   There are certain side effects
User :   just to know i asked this question doctor
Doctor :   like headache, nausea
Doctor :   stomach upste
Doctor :   You can try that, but it is not going to be a complete solution
User :   can this medicine treat me as well
User :   can i enjoy my sex atleast two or three times ?
Doctor :   Yes
User :   with the help of viagra
Doctor :   Yes
Doctor :   but do you want to know the cause of your problem?
User :   yes doctor
Doctor :   It is always better to get examined than
User :   my wife gets period in 36 days ?
User :   is there any problem ?
User :   thanks for ur advice doctor till this time
Doctor :   You said thyroid problem right?
User :   yes
Doctor :   It can cause such menstrual issues
Doctor :   but with right medicines and correct follow up
Doctor :   she will get her periods back
User :   she is taking medicine for last six months..but not getting the normal level of thyroid
Doctor :   Get the medicine reviewed then
User :   very much worried doctor
User :   with all the stuff around
Doctor :   She needs a better dose I guess
User :   she is taking thyronorm 50mg
User :   daily
Doctor :   When was the last consult?
User :   two weeks back
Doctor :   Any revision of the medicine?
Doctor :   What is the TSH now?
User :   doctor told us to stop the medicine for three weeks
User :   we stopped ...then tsh levels high from 0.03 to 14
User :   now doctor is telling to continue the same medicine?
User :   we are doing the same
Doctor :   Ok, that is not a proper advice given by the Doctor
Doctor :   to stop the medicine
Doctor :   Instead he should have slowly stopped them
Doctor :   over a period of 6 months to 1 yr
Doctor :   Ok, now you guyz do a follow up after a 2 month time
Doctor :   by taking the same dose
User :   ohhh
User :   what to do now ?
User :   yes..
Doctor :   Actually she was responding well as the TSH was normal 0.03
Doctor :   Nothing just continue the same thyroixine
User :   that means thyronorm ?
Doctor :   yes
User :   how much time will it take to normal ?
Doctor :   It gets normal within a weeks time
User :   by taking thyronorm 50 mg
Doctor :   but you have to continue the same
User :   yes
Doctor :   for long tiem
User :   so within a week it will be normal
Doctor :   yeah
User :   that's a good news infact
User :   but i am not sure doctor as she comes from 0.001 to 0.1 in three months
Doctor :   Once a thyroid problem it goes for long tiem
User :   helllo doctor
Doctor :   so she be on the prescribed dosse
Doctor :   and get tested once every two months
User :   yes
User :   yes
Doctor :   If the tSH is normal for two repeated reading she has to be on the same maintainence dose
Doctor :   During pregnancy her dose is to be revised
Doctor :   as her metabolism changes
Doctor :   then
User :   thanks for all your help doctor
User :   thx for ur suggestion and help
User :   it was superb
Doctor :   Thanks
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting me. Bye for now
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