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Reduce the increased sex drive - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Excellent Posted in: Sexual Problems
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Practicing since : 2004
Answered : 37 Questions

User :   hi dr
Doctor :   hi
User :   sir i have one sex problem can i tell
Doctor :   how can i help you?
Doctor :   yes please
Doctor :   I will help you out
Doctor :   You can confide in me
User :   i cant XXXXXXXX to stop shagging i cant control it how to stop
Doctor :   ok
User :   i will always thinking about sex how to stop
Doctor :   I will help you to get rid of it
User :   tell sir
Doctor :   I need to ask you a few questions as of now
User :   ya
Doctor :   at the end of my assessment
Doctor :   I will guide you as to how to
Doctor :   quit
User :   oh k
User :   tell me sir
Doctor :   what do you do?
Doctor :   are you there XXXXX?

Doctor :   hi
User :   hi
Doctor :   are you done with the payment ?
User :   ya
Doctor :   good
Doctor :   tell me XXXXX
User :   i told the problem na how is tht
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   what do you do?
User :   i have travels office
Doctor :   I mean do you work?
Doctor :   OK
User :   i have own office
Doctor :   what are your work timings?
User :   10 to 10
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   do you always think about sex?
Doctor :   even during work time?
User :   one one time
User :   but lot in night
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   do you stay alone?
User :   no with family
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   how old are you?
User :   22
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   see I will tell you what is normal first
User :   k
Doctor :   then you can tell how much deviated you are from that
User :   k
Doctor :   when a guy sees a girl there is a sense of excitemnt
Doctor :   in the body
User :   k
Doctor :   which causes the release of sex hormones in the body
Doctor :   which causes arousal
User :   how to stop shagging when i come to mood at tht time
Doctor :   but a fully covered female will not elicit this response
Doctor :   hear me out fully
Doctor :   i will let you ask your doubts
Doctor :   ok?
Doctor :   do you masturbate every day?
User :   ya
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   what have you studied?
User :   sslc
User :   10th
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   are there females in your workplace?
User :   no
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   do you fall asleep as soon as you lie on the bed?
User :   no
User :   it takes 15 to 20 min
User :   when i see tv i will come to mood sir
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   it is natural foir everyone to come to mood
Doctor :   you are normal
Doctor :   there is no need to panic
Doctor :   you just need to break the habit of maturbation
User :   k is there any option to stop shagging ?
User :   i am very weeek
Doctor :   yes there is
Doctor :   will power
Doctor :   and diversion of your mind
User :   but i cant able to
Doctor :   from sex
Doctor :   I will help[ you do that
User :   if i do daily what problem wil come ?
Doctor :   if you follow my advice sincerely
User :   k
Doctor :   will you follow?
User :   ya sure
Doctor :   there is no harm in doing it daily
Doctor :   but it should noit become a habit
Doctor :   when it becomes a habit
Doctor :   you cannot sleep without masturbating
Doctor :   do you exercise?
User :   oh ya same problem body will become weak ?
User :   i am so thin
Doctor :   body will not become weak
User :   only 48 kg
Doctor :   its a false belief that you will become weak
Doctor :   the actual cause is something else
Doctor :   which needs to be found out
User :   k
Doctor :   there are certain steps I will tell you about now
Doctor :   Step 1: You need to exercise
User :   tell me what should i do i want to stop and become bit fat 10 kg more
Doctor :   exercise will help you in the following ways
Doctor :   it will decrease your weakness
Doctor :   it will help you gain weight
Doctor :   it will help you leave masturbation
Doctor :   when you exercise
Doctor :   you will sleep within 5 minutes of lying on bed
User :   k
Doctor :   so that there is less chances for you to masturbate
Doctor :   understood?
User :   s sir
Doctor :   very good
User :   how much time i want to sxercise
User :   a day
Doctor :   so will you find time for your own good?
Doctor :   You need to start slowly
Doctor :   start6 with ten minutes of exercise
Doctor :   per day
User :   i want to get up at 6 am ?
Doctor :   start with a brisk walk in the morning
Doctor :   yes
User :   k
Doctor :   getting up in the morninig has been to be very good
User :   if i go to gem is it k
Doctor :   it will give you more time throughout the day
User :   gim
Doctor :   see gym is a place where you can go if you have no problem
Doctor :   but you need a propere trainer
Doctor :   if there is no trainer
Doctor :   there is more chances of you getting injured by doing somehting wrong
Doctor :   ok
User :   k
Doctor :   I suggest that you start with a half an hour walk evry day from tomorrow
User :   sir how to gain wight bit early bcoz i am going to marry with in 6 months
Doctor :   will you do that?
User :   ya sir sure i will do
Doctor :   exercise is the best way to gain weight
Doctor :   it will improve your appetite
Doctor :   and will make you eat more
User :   what type of exercise
Doctor :   gradually you will gain weight
Doctor :   brisk walking should be the first step
User :   k
Doctor :   I will guide you as we go alon g the process
Doctor :   I have to assess the progress and then guide you how to increase the exercise
Doctor :   step 2:
Doctor :   you need to divert your mind
Doctor :   from sex
User :   k
Doctor :   that can be done by doing something which you like the most
Doctor :   what do like?
Doctor :   do you like reading? books like novels?
User :   so watch tv in night tht is the habbit
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   you need to change that habit
Doctor :   if you want a solution
Doctor :   I can guide you
User :   ya tell me sir
Doctor :   but you need to be strong in the mind
Doctor :   and do as i say
Doctor :   dont watch tv at noight
Doctor :   go to sleep only when you are sleepy
User :   except tht any think is there if i come to mood if i take any tablet it will go ?
Doctor :   so thatt you will immediately sleep
User :   k
Doctor :   taking a tablet is not the solution
Doctor :   even if you take tablet
Doctor :   it will not work if you dont make up your mind
Doctor :   the fact that you ahve consulted me itself showas yoiu wnat to leave it
Doctor :   which is very good on your part
User :   i am also doing tht but cant able to coltorl
Doctor :   so start exercise
User :   k sir
Doctor :   dont watch tv at night
User :   k
Doctor :   sleep only when you are sleepy
Doctor :   do meditation in the morning
Doctor :   if you can join a yoga class
Doctor :   it will help you control your mind
Doctor :   it will be the final solution to your problem
User :   k
Doctor :   did you get all the answers?
User :   ya dr
Doctor :   good
User :   if i do tht daily what will come future
Doctor :   is there any doubt?
Doctor :   in future you will definately leave shagging
Doctor :   are you happy?
User :   i am asking if i do shagging daily what problem will come in future
User :   ya so much
Doctor :   there will be no physical problems
Doctor :   but since you are already feeling bad about it
Doctor :   you will still be depressed
Doctor :   since you are getting married
Doctor :   it is not a good sign for your wife
Doctor :   quitting is a very good option
Doctor :   what I meant is that if you masturbate your wife might be left unsatisfied
User :   oh k
Doctor :   so you should quit the habit to have a healthy sex life
Doctor :   I will send a form now
User :   oh k sir
Doctor :   fill it up
User :   k
Doctor :   and say yes when done
User :   k
User :   done
User :   yes sir done
Doctor :   Is there anything else I can help you with?
User :   no sir i can chat 24 hours na sir
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   of course
User :   k sir if i have any problem i will come online again k sir tks a lot
Doctor :   it depends on the subscription which yoiu have taken
Doctor :   we are available 24 hours ady
User :   k sit bye tc
User :   sir
Doctor :   no prblem
Doctor :   we are here to help you
User :   k
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