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Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :  
How can I help you?
User :   HII
User :   i am suspecting that i have gastric problem guide me for the future actions
Doctor :   Sure

Doctor :  
You can continue with your symptoms
User :   hmm well developed a belly which refuse to reduce, get burps often
Doctor :   Ok

User :   n gas problem on skiping breakfast
User :   and al;so after eating most of food
User :   especially after drinking coke
Doctor :   Ok, that has become quite common nowadays
User :   yes
Doctor :  
I understood your condition
Doctor :  
Before proceeding further can I ask a few more details?
User :   yes
Doctor :  
May I know your age, gender,location, occupation height and weight?
User :   26 male bangalore 5 feet 10 inches 78 kg
Doctor :  
Ok
Doctor :  
Your weight is just above normal
Doctor :  
So you can afford it to maintain if first and loose gradually later
User :   ok
Doctor :  
Are you a vegetarian/non-vegetarian?
User :   non veg
Doctor :  
How often you take non-veg?
User :   like once a week or twice
Doctor :  
Ok, that is fine
Doctor :  
Now you need to do some modifications in your diet
User :   ok
Doctor :   like avoiding foods which cause/aggravate your problems
Doctor :   So Coke is one
User :   ok
Doctor :  
have you noticed other foods as well?
User :   hmm not much but will take notice from now and avoid
Doctor :  
Some of them are potatoes, pulses, bannanas, oily foods like Parota, Poori,
Doctor :  
Junk foods like Pizza, Burgers are also in the list
Doctor :  
Condiments and bakery items as well
Doctor :  
Too much of milk is also bad
Doctor :  
You need to take a bland diet
User :   okk understood
Doctor :  
Drink good amount of water
Doctor :  
Take cold milk instead of soft drinks
Doctor :   Even in soft drinks, go for non-aerated like
Doctor :  
Maaza, Slice,
Doctor :  
Fruit juices are recommended
Doctor :  
I hope that I am not too fast
User :   no no
Doctor :  
Thats nice
Doctor :  
Now, can I ask you 2 more questions
User :   yes please
Doctor :  
Do you smoke?
User :   no
Doctor :  
How about alcohol?
User :   yes occasionally.
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   but i had noticed it also causes this condition so am avoiding it lately
Doctor :   Yes it is a known culprit in this problem
Doctor :   So since you are aware of it, I wont stress upon that
Doctor :  
Take RAW ONION
Doctor :   which is quite helpful
Doctor :   Cooked/Fried Onion is just the opposite
User :   okk thanks doc one more question, some time back on this site i was recomended omeprazole in morning , i took it for 2 months it did had a good effect
Doctor :  
Yes
Doctor :  
it completely nullifies the gastric secretions
Doctor :  
So there will relief
User :   ok
Doctor :  
So, avoiding such foods is good
Doctor :  
But still you will need some exercise to ease the process
Doctor :  
and also to take care if you take such foods occasionally
User :   ok will take care of that
Doctor :  
How about your stools?
Doctor :  
Do pass it everday, without much problem
User :   yes
Doctor :  
Ok
Doctor :  
So exercise part, you can go for Brisk Walking which will have a direct effect
Doctor :  
and becomes evident in a Week's time
Doctor :  
You will definitely some changes
User :   ok will start from tommorow morning .
Doctor :   Thats Very good attitude

Doctor :  
How about your stress factor?
User :   yes latley from last year had been under some stress. mostly family side
Doctor :  
Ok
Doctor :  
That has to reduced
Doctor :  
AS you might have heard the famous saying
Doctor :  
Avoid Hurry, Worry and Curry
User :   yes now it has a little . was due to parents opposing XXXXXXXX with girlfriend so now its ok
Doctor :  
Congrats
User :   thanks
Doctor :  
Is there any thing else I can help you with?
User :   anyway doc , one query is this site for medical problems only or you can help with some stress related or psychological problems too .
Doctor :  
Yes
Doctor :  
We get a lot of cases with Psychological and Sexual problems too
Doctor :  
You can use it for all branches of medicine
User :   yes u may call it sexual too . so cudnt actually discuss it with anybody in person. someone is family is behaving badly
Doctor :  
Ok
Doctor :  
You can proceed with it
User :   so i was fighting to ignore but was worried about her
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   also was in doubt if i should expose this or should i just ignore. which has been the reason for my stress mainly.
User :   at this point am mostly ignoring
Doctor :  
Ignoring it is a boon
Doctor :  
But if there is a problem, it has to discussed and rectified
User :   hmm well to be very truthful i am talking about my mother.
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   i has not told it to father but has caught her like thrice.
Doctor :  
You can tell it to me
Doctor :  
It is very confidential here
User :   she is like addicted to kinky , bdsm and submissive lifestyle .
User :   she is a teacher by profession
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   and she herself says that she cant leave this
User :   so first thing i want to ask is if bdsm and submissive thing is a medical problem or is it like ok
Doctor :  
Ok
Doctor :  
Can you tell like what have you found in her behaviour?
Doctor :  
Could you elaborate it a bit
User :   u mean how i caught her or what activities she is into? or how she got into this?
Doctor :  
Yes
Doctor :  
Like what activities she is into?
User :   mostly into like sex with two , with a group , with younger people. also into gettign humilated, spanking , tied , n being a slave of her bfs
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :  
Yes this is a Psychiatric problem
User :   also into exhibitionism if you understand that
Doctor :   When did it start?
User :   u mean she has gone somewhat like mad . or something simple?
Doctor :  
If you know, sorry to ask?
Doctor :  
No, it is a behavioural disorder
Doctor :  
Nothing like mad
Doctor :  
Cognitively they will be normal
User :   well to start one stint like this was acc to her with her first bf before marriage than normal times and again she started sex outside marriage about 10 years back
User :   than slowly got into these things
User :   which are increasing nowadays
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   says she got into sex outside mariage cuz of emotional and physical ignoring by dad
User :   and her first bf started bdsm .
User :   she was missing it with dad
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :  
Could you please wait for a minute I am on an Emergency call?
User :   sure
Doctor :   Sorry

Doctor :  
We shall continue
User :   not a problem doc,
Doctor :  
Now could you expand bdsd
User :   ohh sorry it is bondage/ sadomaschoism
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   basically means humilating , beating and u know sex slave stuff
Doctor :   Yes
User :   mom likes to be humilated and pain in sex
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :  
This is Psychosexual disorder
Doctor :  
Most of the sexual disorders are Psychologica
User :   psychosexual , ok
Doctor :  
May I know your mother's and father's age?
User :   mom is 52 now and dad is 60
Doctor :   Ok

Doctor :   So she has started it since the age of 42
Doctor :  
Thats a bit strange
User :   strange?
Doctor :  
Yes
Doctor :  
because she was off it for a long time and then started it at an Older age
User :   yes her first affair was at 42 approx with a fellow sports teacher.
Doctor :  
Ok
Doctor :  
How about her sexual contacts?
Doctor :  
Who are they? Mostly
Doctor :  
from what walks of life?
User :   hmm well 2 are her fellow teachers than her students, than one is a manager in some co he was basically a senior of me in college
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   and than there are some strangers
Doctor :   How is she physically?
User :   walks of life u mean?
Doctor :  
Very attractive or anything? How about her health?
Doctor :   Walks means their background I meant
User :   hmm yes attractive, 5 feet 4 inch health is good have a extra ordXXXXXXXXry figure and firm
Doctor :  
Ok
Doctor :  
How is her behaviour with you and your father?
User :   normal
Doctor :  
Thats good
User :   she says she loves us
Doctor :   Ok
User :   and she actualy cares too , sometimes it is like i feel she lives as 2 personalities totally opposite
Doctor :   How is she in the society?
Doctor :   Ok
User :   in home as a loving wife n mom decent to the core
Doctor :  
Fine
User :   and outside u know like slutty
User :   in society????
Doctor :  
How does she interact with anyone of opposite sex?
Doctor :  
Like it can be a Vendor, Shopkeeper
Doctor :   Your male relatives
Doctor :  
How does she behave with them
User :   hmm u mean if she tries to seduce?
Doctor :  
Yes
User :   well i will say mostly she is ok n decent.
Doctor :  
Does she maintain Good amount of Decency?
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   with relatives and known ones very decent
Doctor :   Ok
User :   but yes u can say with shopkeepers and vendors . somewt like she wont show that she is seducing but she shows skin
Doctor :   Does she know that you are aware of it?
User :   in buses too
Doctor :   Ok
User :   well i caught her na 3 times so she must know
Doctor :  
How did she react after you caught her?
Doctor :  
Is there any difference?
User :   well can i elaborate a bit
Doctor :  
Yes
Doctor :  
that will be helpful
User :   first time i caught her in her school with a student
User :   after that i stopped talking with her threatened to tell dad
Doctor :   Where does she find places for these activities?
User :   she like pleaded with me that dont tell dad n also that she will stop it but said she cant stop immidiately. so need time
User :   i stopped talking for couple of months
User :   places?
Doctor :   You have done the right things
User :   first time i caught her she was in her office in school . door was closed
User :   n she was in full clothes
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :  
But that you can ignore
User :   she was doing oral .
User :   ignore what
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :  
I thought it to be a misinterpretation
Doctor :  
Sorry
User :   ok
Doctor :  
Now it is good
Doctor :  
that she has spoken to you about it
Doctor :  
That she is ready to leave
Doctor :  
but not all of a sudden
User :   hmm well after that she said she has left it
User :   i believed her
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :  
But that will be to console you only
Doctor :  
Right?
Doctor :  
So now you talk to her like how she is going stop that?
Doctor :  
You tell her that you are feeling very embarassed and cannot live like that
User :   hmm ok but
User :   second time also i caught her
User :   this time in a hotel
User :   with 2 persons
Doctor :  
Ok
Doctor :  
But how could you?
Doctor :  
Tell so precisely
User :   means
User :   dint get u abt how could i?
Doctor :  
Did anyone tell you?
Doctor :  
or you witnessed it
User :   i witnessed
Doctor :   How?
Doctor :  
Did you accidentally go there
Doctor :  
or what was the situation like
User :   no i had a doubt on her those days.
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   so i was like following her
User :   i at that time was on hostel
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   so i came home unannouced some time and she was always out.
User :   so one time i said i am going back but didnt . i followed her .
Doctor :   Ok
User :   she went in hotel and after some time i went in that room wen i knocked saying room service there were 2 persons in there
User :   but i found her in washroom totally clothless
Doctor :  
Ok
Doctor :  
I understand
Doctor :  
I wanted to make sure that you are right
User :   ok
Doctor :  
Sorry for asking
User :   u know at that time i slapped her thrice there
Doctor :  
Now I will tell you what you need to do
User :   no problem doc you can ask . infact after telling only i feel more relieved . i dont know why
User :   ok doc let me also tell first about third time.
Doctor :  
Yes, I know that
Doctor :   Hidden issues when released
User :   because third time i didnt caught her but she herself called me
Doctor :  
provide a lot of relief
Doctor :   Hmm
Doctor :  
Little strange
Doctor :  
that she has called you
Doctor :  
Ok
Doctor :  
You can continue
User :   ohh she was caught. and caled me for help promising me that if i get her out she will try to improve
User :   she needed somebody to get her out so she called me
Doctor :  
What had happened?
User :   she was in another city
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   and she was caught by police.
User :   so i went there and bribed a little to get her out
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   delhi to be exact
User :   she was caught from a park
Doctor :  
Have you tried to speak about this to her contacts?
Doctor :  
It is difficult
Doctor :  
But just asked
User :   speak about police?
User :   no
Doctor :  
No
Doctor :   To her sexual partners
User :   at police station she was like in a state of undress. and they took money and also kept her for 2 days in lock up .
User :   amoung her sexual partners i had talked to one , my senior
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :  
What did he say?
Doctor :   I think they are just for sexual pleasure
Doctor :  
and wont help
Doctor :  
They are exploiting here
User :   he said he is not at fault cuz he dint go to her but she came
Doctor :   Ok

User :   also shaid that she is a whore so if he will stop she will find someone other so what is fun in his going away from her
Doctor :  
So now coming to the Remedial measures
Doctor :   you talk to her about your Embarassment
User :   he and mom's students are persons who had started her exhibitionism
User :   ok
Doctor :  
Tell her that you cannot live in this society if she continues like this
User :   ok first can i ask what are risks of all this to her
Doctor :  
Mainly sexual diseases
Doctor :  
like HIV, Gonorrhoea, Syphilis
Doctor :  
And Isolation from the society
User :   whats gonorrhoea sn syphillis
Doctor :   They are sexually transmitted diseases
Doctor :  
caused due to bacteria
Doctor :  
Both are treatable
User :   is unnatural se pose a risk of death?
Doctor :   I could not follow
User :   unnatural sex . can it pose a risk of death
Doctor :  
No
User :   also spanking, can it have damage?
Doctor :  
Physically stressing
User :   physically she draws pleasure from it
Doctor :   Yes
Doctor :   But still damage will be there
Doctor :   Tissues mainly
Doctor :  
But still she is managing her looks
User :   tissues?
User :   unnatural i guess you understand correct na
Doctor :  
So not much damage I guess
Doctor :   Unnatural, many deviants
Doctor :  
You can specify it
User :   she do maintain her looks
Doctor :  
Yes
User :   but spanking on her boobs do take its toll
User :   unnatural she is into oral, anal , non human and group sex
Doctor :   Yes, that I understood
Doctor :  
I meant that
Doctor :  
Now proceed with your questions
User :   non human is included which i fear most
Doctor :   Non human, how does she manage that?
User :   manage means
Doctor :  
Like what she does
User :   some animals included
Doctor :  
I guessed
Doctor :  
It is termed as Bestialit
Doctor :  
'y
User :   mostly to put a show for her partners
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   yes beastiality , she has done with like 4/5 types of animals
Doctor :  
Which animals?
User :   mostly from last 1 to 1.5 years
User :   dog, monkey fully, donkey i guess they tried somewhat. also ants, frogs were used XXXXXXXX diff way and i think they tried pig too
Doctor :   This is extreme
Doctor :  
Not tolerable
User :   hmm what animal is most extreme?
Doctor :   Not the animal
Doctor :  
Behaviour
User :   ok understood
Doctor :  
Very much on the extreme ends
Doctor :  
Needs strong intervention
Doctor :  
Where do you stay?
User :   hmm ok
Doctor :   in Bangalore
User :   is that necessary?
Doctor :  
Its ok
Doctor :  
Now I want you to meet a Psychiatrist
Doctor :  
personally
User :   ok
Doctor :  
You can fix up an appointment with a nearby hospital
Doctor :  
Thats the reason I asked about your residence
User :   u mean only me or with mom?
Doctor :  
Only
Doctor :  
You
Doctor :  
First
User :   okk
Doctor :  
Talk to him about everything
Doctor :  
Ask him like how to manage it
User :   ok
Doctor :  
Like does it require an admission
User :   i will
Doctor :  
or can be done on an out patient basis
User :   btw what do think is cause of this?
Doctor :  
Psychiatry
Doctor :  
Cause is not known
Doctor :   Each second of life will have an impact
Doctor :  
So it is difficult to predict
User :   ok\
Doctor :  
I feel that it needs an Admission
Doctor :  
But 2 things you need to remember
User :   ok i will talk to doc anf if need admission will call mom here
User :   wt?
Doctor :  
Your father will come to know it
User :   n second?
Doctor :  
And her contacts might trouble her in the future
User :   father i can manage without him knowing
User :   her contacts. how?
Doctor :  
So the treatment has to blend all 3 of you
Doctor :   You can imagine that
Doctor :  
Even if she leaves, they might still call her for the same
Doctor :  
Anyway Psychiatrist will know about it and he will help
Doctor :   Ok?
User :   ok
Doctor :   So do that and take care well

User :   just in doubt if she will stop
Doctor :  
But it is urgent and do it quickly
User :   cuz she hasnt after police case
Doctor :  
Treatment will change her
User :   that should be very humilating to a lady
Doctor :  
Do not worry
User :   ok sure i will
Doctor :  
You yourself said about split personality
Doctor :  
So she does not care about that
User :   hmm ok
Doctor :  
But medications will change her
User :   one thing more
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   once i saw her as a slave of my senior
Doctor :   Ok

User :   i mean i saw there activities
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   i was angry at her not my senior
User :   but u know two things i did wrong
User :   i didnt stoped watching it.
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   n second i had a hard on , do u think i am sick or what
Doctor :  
No
User :   i hadnt repeated it nor it has come into mind
User :   but i have guilty of that
Doctor :  
It is purely Physical
User :   purely physical?
User :   with mom? isnt it bad
Doctor :  
It is a reflex phenomenon
Doctor :  
that is what I meant
User :   n they were torturing her
Doctor :   Do not feel any guilt
Doctor :  
Its their mistake
User :   my enjoying her torture is wt bothered me
Doctor :  
That is why I said that treatment has to include others in the family as well
User :   ok
Doctor :  
So is there anything else I can help you with?
User :   should i tell doc about her exhibiting herself in buses and sex with dogs too
User :   or should i hide those
Doctor :  
yes
Doctor :   Nothing to hide
Doctor :  
Express everything
Doctor :  
It is vital for treatment
User :   btw ehibiting is also bad? or is it natural
User :   ok understood thanks doc ,
Doctor :   Please fill the feedback form say done when done.
User :   btw ehibiting is also bad? or is it natural
User :   feedback i filled
Doctor :  
It is a part of behavioural abnormality
Doctor :  
Even that has to be treated
User :   excellent cuz u just talking relieved a stress from me , for mom i will take her to psychatrist
Doctor :   Sure
User :   yaa she nowadays doesnt wear undergarments in buses
Doctor :  
I would like to see her come out of this soon
User :   thanks bye
Doctor :  
Thanks for consulting HealthcareMagic. Bye for now. Please refer your friends to ur service.
User :   doc will our chat be saved somewhere?
Doctor :   No
Doctor :  
It will be in your and mine chat histories only
Doctor :  
I will ensure to delete it
User :   ok thx
Doctor :  
You can do as well
User :   btw a query for future if i want to discuss smthing with other doc
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   because next time it wont be you i guess
User :   can i doc on chat know detials of me
User :   of my account address or phone i mean
Doctor :   If I delete it it wont be there

Doctor :  
We keep all things confidential
User :   ok thanks
Doctor :  
Otherwise we should not be called Doctors
User :   u have been helpful thanks
Doctor :  
Bye
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