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Query about usage of drugs for prevention of premature ejaculation - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Premature Ejaculation
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User :   Hi .. 28 M herer .. wanted some advice about PE
Doctor :   hello
User :   hi
Doctor :   sure i can help you
Doctor :   tell me your problem in detail please
User :   I suffer from Premature Ejaculation .. and would be glad if you could help
Doctor :   sure
Doctor :   since when you have been having this
User :   dont remember as such but may be 3-4 years ..
User :   now at times i usually ejaculate with 20 - 30 secs
Doctor :   ok well first of all i can assure you
Doctor :   that its completely curable
User :   thats a relief
Doctor :   i will tell you what you have to do
User :   please
Doctor :   first
User :   im very frustrated
Doctor :   do you smoke or consume alcohol ?
User :   yes
User :   both
User :   but i think the condition existed even before tht
Doctor :   Don't use drugs or alcohol. They're distracting and they interfere with the self-awareness crucial to learning ejaculatory control.
User :   I understand ..
Doctor :   here are some techniques to Prevent Premature Ejaculation
Doctor :   1) Self Distraction to prevent premature ejaculation....If your arousal levels are getting too high and a climax is beginning, take a deep breath and think about something else, something very boring if possible. When you are less aroused but maintaining an erection you can then continue
Doctor :   2) Stop and Start Method for premature ejaculation....If you find yourself nearing climax withdraw your penis from your partner and allow yourself to relax enough to prevent ejaculation. By starting and stopping sexual stimulation you can learn to prolong the sex act.
Doctor :   3) Squeeze Methods can help prevent premature ejaculation......This method involves either you or your partner squeezing (fairly firmly) the end or the tip of the penis for 10 to 20 seconds when ejaculation is imminent, withholding stimulation for about 30 seconds, then continuing stimulation. This can be repeated until ejaculation is desired. The stop and start method can be used with the squeeze method as well.
User :   Yes i have tried this .. also some medication like Confido and Neo tablets
Doctor :   4) Desensitizing Creams for premature ejaculation....Creams can be used to desensitize the end of the penis. They act like a local or tropical anesthetic.. there is company called DUREX that makes such creams that are easily available in any chemist shop
User :   but not of much use
Doctor :   5) More Foreplay prevents premature ejaculation.....Stimulate your partner to a state of high arousal before you have your genitals touched, that way ejaculation and orgasm can be achieved about the same time.
User :   the condition is really bad doctor .. i usually ejaculate even earlier during foreplay than mastrubation
Doctor :   Breathe deeply. One very easy way to stay relaxed while making love is to breathe deeply. The body has a natural tendency to breathe deeply during sex. But many men fight it. They think they should stay in control by not breathing deeply and making the little love-moan sounds that go along with it. But when men work to control their breathing, they often sacrifice ejaculatory control. Try breathing deeply. Let your breath go. You will be amazed how much this one little change improves your premature ejaculation.
Doctor :   it will take time and practice
Doctor :   i assure you
Doctor :   its not a over night thing, you will have to control and it takes time and you will be successful
User :   is there any medication to atleast get it a little better
Doctor :   It's important to understand that learning ejaculatory control takes time and practice.
Doctor :   YES like i said the desensitizing cream will work for you
User :   but during foreplay i ejaculate at times even without stoking or touch just feeling my partner
User :   can you please name any Desensitizing Creams available in medical stores in india
Doctor :   sure
Doctor :   Play Longer Lubricant
by Durex
Doctor :   lubricant BY Durex
Doctor :   its called PLAY LONGER
User :   ok
Doctor :   dont worry
User :   i have been trying some of the techinques above for close to 2 yrs now but not of much use
Doctor :   trust me with being focus you can overcome it
Doctor :   dont be too stressed out
User :   i loose erection if i distract my self
User :   or even with squeeze method
Doctor :   the cream will help
Doctor :   and deep breathing
User :   does any of the tablets help at all ?
Doctor :   no tablets can help
User :   is there a proven medicine for this ?
Doctor :   Control is part mental, so consider deep breathing and meditation exercises to increase your overall control.
User :   exercises like ?
Doctor :   Extending your ability to last will take practice. Build your muscle control and mental control through masturbation if you are too nervous to work with your partner. Instead of masturbating for a quick release, draw out the process and that will teach you how to control ejaculation. Practice your control when you are alone and you will be able to use that control when your partner joins you.
Doctor :   kegel exercise . now what you do is that when you are urinating . just for 2- 3 seconds try holding your stream of urine
Doctor :   and then leave it
User :   ya read about this online somewhere ..
Doctor :   well i am giving you the right proper medical advice . just follow and you will be fine
User :   my friend said that doctors suggest medicines if the condition is acute .. is tht
Doctor :   it will take time
Doctor :   and its the most common complaint of men
User :   so ?
Doctor :   1 in every 3 men has it and it is cured with what i have told you
Doctor :   how is your health ?
Doctor :   are you in good shape ?
User :   a little overweight
User :   height 5'11 weight 92 kgs broad built
Doctor :   well just exercise, as it improves blood circulation
Doctor :   to improves filling of blood in penis
Doctor :   as you are in the overweight category. so you need to lose some weight
User :   Yes i try to but usually very tired in the eve after work ...
Doctor :   your correct weight should be around 80 - 81 kg
User :   I'm just very stressed abt this condition as its been there for long and i feel ashamed with my partner as she is also frustrated as i ejaculate even bfr gettin started
Doctor :   it will take some time
Doctor :   i am sure you will be fine
User :   hmm ..
Doctor :   its just all about not giving up and just try to work on it with a calm mind
User :   alrite thnx doc ! wil keep try
User :   in
Doctor :   your most welcome
Doctor :   take care of yourself
Doctor :   you will be fine
User :   I hope sp
User :   thanks again for ur time
User :   good night
User :   bye
Doctor :   bye
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