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Query about soreness at the perianal area - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   hello. after dry humping with my girlfriend, i am often sore. Not my penis exactly, but behind, like my kegal muscles or something. What is the problem?
Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   I am reading your query
User :   ok
Doctor :   Is it initial days of your sexual activity?
Doctor :   How old are you?
User :   Im 20 years old and still a virgin.
User :   thats the extent of our "sexual activity"
Doctor :   Do you mean the pain or soreness of scrotum (bag) or testicles
User :   No, its behind them. like the space between the scrotum and the anus.
User :   That area is sore
Doctor :   Do you have redness or swelling?
User :   no, its just sore as a result of the dry humping.
Doctor :   You need not worry about it, I think it can be healed by application of good moisturizer
Doctor :   and keeping the area clean
Doctor :   Wash the area with clean soap and water
Doctor :   twice a day and apply the moisturizer
Doctor :   Since how long you have this soreness?
User :   I haven't had for a few weeks since we last did that activity. how would moisturizer help with soreness of this area? I also find it difficult to ejaculate after dry humping.
Doctor :   The soreness is common for males in that area
Doctor :   and most often it is because it is a non aerated
Doctor :   area
Doctor :   I feel that the soreness is not related to the dry humping
Doctor :   Moisturizer vitalizes the external cells of the outer skin and helps it
User :   what is it related too? it being non aerated? Ok, i understand. What about the difficulty of ejaculation afterward?
Doctor :   Were you able to ejaculate earlier during masturbation?
User :   yes
Doctor :   Do you have night falls now a days?
User :   what are night falls?
Doctor :   The semen that falls during the night for the men
Doctor :   during erection
User :   no
Doctor :   Are you able to see the sticky like thing when you urinate first thing in the morning
User :   nope
Doctor :   Since when do you feel that you have difficulty ejaculation
User :   like after dry humping, i do not ejaculate from oral sex
Doctor :   Ejaculation is mostly dependent on stimulation
Doctor :   The stimulation you get these days is not sufficient enough to ejaculate as I believe
Doctor :   this is a very temporary problem for men during their early days of sexual excitement
User :   Ok, so how do I fix it?
Doctor :   Wait and watch is the right way to do it
Doctor :   There is no quick fix
User :   wait and watch?
User :   What if I were to start having sex, would that help?
Doctor :   Wait for sometime you will be alright
Doctor :   You will be more confident about sexual performance if you ejaculate
Doctor :   hence wait for ejaculation to occur during
Doctor :   masturbation
Doctor :   Then get into actual intercourse
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