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Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   Hi, I am 40 years old, had have a major premature ejacluation problem, since begning of my sex life, i have not lasted more than 20 seconds during intercourse
Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   How can I help you ?
User :   hello doc
User :   I am 40 years old, had have a major premature ejacluation problem, since begning of my sex life, i have not lasted more than 20 seconds during intercourse
Doctor :   Ok
User :   can i get acure for this problem
Doctor :   Can I ask you a few questions pertaining to your problem ?
User :   yes please
Doctor :   Are you married ?
User :   yes
Doctor :   How is your marital life ?
User :   with two children.... we had to use IVF after 12 years
Doctor :   Ok.
User :   ok.... going on nothing specific.... i can not say gr8
Doctor :   Have you gone to any sexologist for treatment in this period ?
User :   no
User :   never
Doctor :   I feel a sexologist consultation would have helped you a lot .
User :   ok
Doctor :   There are different tecniques which I can inform you but a sexologist can actually guide you better.
Doctor :   Where do you stay ?
User :   the solution to this issue is only techniques... or there is some treatment avialable
User :   I stay in banglaore
User :   but presently in Mumbai for another one week
Doctor :   There are medicines but which are more placebos rather than actual help, recently a medicine is available but not in India and still being tetsed.
User :   can such problem be transmitted genetically to my sons also.....
Doctor :   No.
Doctor :   Not all.
User :   what could be the reason for me having this problem
Doctor :   There could be psychological or muscular or initiation problem from the very beginning.
Doctor :   So let me advise you with some steps : User :   ok
Doctor :   There are some exercises called Kegel's exercises which are very helpful in giving strength to Pelvic floor muscles.
Doctor :   1. There are some exercises called Kegel's exercises which are very helpful in giving strength to Pelvic floor muscles.
Doctor :   2. Follow start-stop technique.
User :   can you recommend any sexologist... in mumbai
Doctor :   the best in India who is in Mumbai.
User :   also can you tell me more about the Kegel's excerise
Doctor :   Yes.
Doctor :   They can be performed like stopping to urinate when you get urine.
Doctor :   Or stopping to defeacate when you get motion.
Doctor :   This type of muscle action of your floor muscles is called Kegels exercises
User :   ok thank you doc.... i will try and fix an appointment with Dr. malpani
User :   bye
Doctor :Dr. is on our panel, if you want a Specialist oipinion you can log on to the website for specialist opinion.
Doctor :   We can help you on that.
User :   ok
Doctor :   And also get an appointment.
User :   ok
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