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Date : 21-Feb-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Sexual Problems
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hello . my girlfriend and i used to have an active sex life. Im 50 she's 40 . Since the beginning of this year we've probably had sex once. She says she's very tired but goes out dancing about 3/4 times a week for 3/4 hours with friends (girls) she's known from school. We both work long hours at work and last year I lost my Dad and have to spend one day every other weekend away looking after my mum. Can you advise me please                                                                 
Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   I am Dr. xxxx
Doctor :   Please give me a couple of minutes to read the query
Doctor :   Can you put your question exactly what you are willing to know now?
User :   is having sex only once or twice in 8 months normal for people who have been in a relationship for 8 years
Doctor :   Not normal
Doctor :   You can improve a lot on the part of sexual life
Doctor :   You have to more intimate, spend more time together
Doctor :   Though not sexually, you should more bonded emotinally
Doctor :   feel the oneness both physically and emotionally
Doctor :   that can automatically lead to a good sexual relationship
User :   thank you
Doctor :   You should put it across to your GF in a very sensitive way
Doctor :   It should not hurt her
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