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Date : 21-Feb-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Men's Health
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Practicing since : 2004
Answered : 37 Questions
Doctor :   Hi
User :   hi
Doctor :   How can I help you?
User :   i am a married person with a 3 yr old kid
Doctor :   Ok
User :   my wife is not satisfied with sex
User :   our sex lasts hardly for 1-2 mins
User :   should i take tablet
Doctor :   Do you mean that you are ejaculating in 1-2 minutes
User :   yes
Doctor :   or you are not able to sustain the erection after that?
User :   i have a habit of masturbation
User :   no i cannot sustain erection
User :   its all done for the day
Doctor :   Are you able to sustain the erection till you ejaculate?
User :   and she needs more time
User :   ya
Doctor :   Ok
User :   but not that hard
Doctor :   May I know your age?
User :   32
Doctor :   Since are you having this problem?
User :   last 1 year
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Do you smoke or consume alcohol?
User :   no smoking but alcohol yes
Doctor :   Do you have diabetes, high BP, heart problems?
User :   no nothing
Doctor :   Ok'
Doctor :   Have you seen any doctor for this problem in the past?
User :   we used to have sex 2-3 times in week
User :   but now thts reduced to once
User :   no i havent seen any doc
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Let me explain to you.
Doctor :   Sexual desires and sexual functions are regulated by multiple factors,
Doctor :   Factors include psychological factors, physical factors and medical factors,
Doctor :   To put it across in simple words,
Doctor :   Good amount of nutrition for energy, reduced stress factors, strong sexual desire towards your partner, reduced alcohol intake are essential for a proper sexual function.
User :   can i take penegra
Doctor :   If all these factors are normal, then medical causes such as endocrine factors, blood sugars, vascular and neurological factors need to be assessed.
Doctor :   Most often, correcting the above ones will treat the problem and medical drugs are rarely necessary.
Doctor :   Let me suggest you the non medical measures that should be very useful in helping you solving the problem
User :   but is it that i masturbate highly so i dont get hard erection
Doctor :   Masturbation is a completely harmless act and is not the cause for your the current symptom.
Doctor :   1. Include good amount of foreplay before starting off with the penetrative sex.
Doctor :   2. During the sexual intercourse, practice Masters and Johnson's exercise.
Doctor :   This exercise is as follows
Doctor :   during the sexual act, when you feel the urge to ejaculate,
Doctor :   you need to stop the act.
Doctor :   Withdraw from your partners
Doctor :   and immediately squeeze the penis.
User :   ok
Doctor :   This will stop the ejaculation and also reduce the urge too.
Doctor :   Once your urge to ejaculate is gone, you can
Doctor :   restart the sexual intercourse.
Doctor :   This will not take more than few seconds to happen,
Doctor :   hence will not make your partner unsatisfied.
User :   but will i be able to hold the erection
Doctor :   Erection will last till one ejaculates.
Doctor :   Erection will be lost once you ejaculate.
User :   another problem is that i cannot do in various positios
Doctor :   Hence you can repeat this process as long as you intend too.
User :   only one position we can do
Doctor :   Erection functions can be bettered by increasing the foreplay,
User :   should we have more sex to get better
Doctor :   not getting anxious and with proper diet and rest.
Doctor :   I would not recommend you to try different things now,
Doctor :   Stick to the ones you and your partner is comfortable with.
Doctor :   Along with these exercises, you can use
Doctor :   certain medical creams such as delay creams
Doctor :   that can be applied to the penis.
Doctor :   They are desensitization creams,
Doctor :   that will reduce the sensitivity of the glans, thereby increasing the time of ejaculation.
Doctor :   Hence delaying the act and increasing erection time.
Doctor :   Apart from this, I also suggest you one more exercise, that you can practice during free time.
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