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Psychological disorder - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Practicing since : 2005
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User :   hi
Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   how can i help you
User :   i want to know if there is a way to avoid being posessive or stop thinking abt a person.
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   is this troubling you a lot ?
User :   yes,,, am unable to concentrate on my work and studies as well.
Doctor :   what do you study? are you working and studying at the same tiime?
User :   have dropped down drastically w.r.t, my performance at the work place
Doctor :   hmmm
User :   yes, i have been doing my PG and working as a Senior software engineer
Doctor :   ok
User :   year back i was the best performer. Not any more...
Doctor :   are you in a relationship with the concerned person?
User :   yes, she is my younger cousin sister

Doctor :   hmmm
User :   she had some issues, i involved myself in them and tried to resolve them
Doctor :   k
User :   and not that they are resolved but, she is dependent on me a lot rite now and attached
Doctor :   and were you succesful in resolving her problems?
Doctor :   oh ok
User :   which led me to this kinda problem
User :   yes, she is out of it and alrite now
Doctor :   hmm
Doctor :   that is good
Doctor :   i am sure your suggestions must have helped her
User :   yes, with the help of a physchologist
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   so now you should be happy that she is sorted out...why are you feeling down?
User :   her issue is resolved but not wit me, i mean to say, she is addicted to me and wants me to call her as many times as i used to call when she had an issue. And sometimes i go posessive on she not calling me back as well.

User :   this might sound wierd or confusing, am sorry if so.
User :   But is the case
Doctor :   hmmm
Doctor :   I have a suggestion to make
Doctor :   please go on
Doctor :   finish what you were saying
User :   yes, am done.
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   If you think that your emotional condition is affecting your performance
Doctor :   then it is important that you consider professional help
Doctor :   and it can be done in anonimity these days
User :   am sorry, i didn't get u. can u make me clear ? I know i have got into multiple complications :(
Doctor :   I am a general practitioner and I can help you only a bit
User :   hmmm
Doctor :   we have a professional counselor in our team who provides
Doctor :   on phone counseling
Doctor :   you should consider it
User :   k, how can i go about it ? and any charges applicable ?

Doctor :   yes it is a paid service
Doctor :   after the payment you could provide us with a couple of tiome slots that would be comfortable for you to do the counseling
User :   k, can have the info ? and then decide on that ?
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