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Psychological Depression - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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User :   Hello, Doctor!
Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :  
How are you?
User :   are You, Esteemed Doctor?
User : fine , That's You!
Doctor :   Sure, I am a doctor

User :   our Blessed XXXXXXXX!!!
Doctor :  
Thank you
User :   are You the Senior Dentist?
Doctor :   I am the same doctor XXXXXXXX

User :   sorry , I ask, it's because at this time I was used to talk to Her
Doctor :   Yes, its me, but I am male doctor here
User :   oh, sorry, it's because I talked to Her so many times and She helped us so much, please give Her our Best Regards and Blessings
Doctor :   Ok

User :   from my mother and me
Doctor :  
I shall
User :   I sent yesterday my nose pictures
User :   thanks so much :)
Doctor :   Yes, we have received it

User :   in fact I came back now to talk about a very complex situation I'm living
User :   psychologically, I'm breaking down, really too much
Doctor :   Sure

Doctor :  
Proceed with it
User :   I think that Someone over there took His hands on me, if I didn't get fool completely till now
Doctor :   Meaning?

User :   I'll tell You , Doctor, from the moment I got married
User :   my husband to be seemed to act like a gentleman
User :   he was kind, sweet, dear and he was really perfect; but after the marriage I found out he didn't work and he drunk
Doctor :  
User :   he began being violent and doing mobbing on me, with bads behaviour, he didn't want to go to work and so on
User :   I began working so much to help him, since he had lots of debts too, and my health began going down, stress, tireness
Doctor :   Ok

User :   never a good day, just problems, he was always unsatisfatied with really bad mood
Doctor :   Ok

User :   till the moment that my little cat died, Doctor, my little dear cat died
Doctor :   Ok

User :   she was accustomed to jump on the window, going at the most far point of the balcony
Doctor :   Ok

User :   I feel guilty, since even if was summer I should have close the balcony, but my mother said it was too much hot, so I couldn't and my little cat jumped on the window and she died
Doctor :   Ok, it is sad

Doctor :  
but that is not your sole mistake
User :   I DIDN'T overcome the shock till now
User :   I didn't , Doctor
Doctor :   Ok

User :   so I was confused, depressed, too much sad, I don't know how I went on those days, and then I took another little cat
Doctor :   Ok

User :   just a kitten, she's now my sweety, and I've another one too; one night the kitty wanted to go out, on the balcony , in her box, so I lift up the roll-up shutter, but not completely
Doctor :   Ok

User :   when I came in home again, I didn't see the roll-up shutter and I banged on it with my nose
Doctor :   Ok

User :   after that , the hell came in my mind
User :   I got in a terrible, I mean terrible depression,it's not possible describing, not possible, Doctor, I crushed down, not eat, not sleep, not work, nothing more
Doctor :   When was that?

User :   nothing more, since I had to fight too much to have rhynoplastic, my father payed it for me more than ten years ago
User :   the event happened fuve years ago
User :   five years
Doctor :   Ok

User :   the crush
Doctor :  
Fine, got it
User :   after about six months form the crush I came back to my plastic surgeon
Doctor :   Ok

User :   who did rhynoplastic on me and he made a pressure with finger tips on the right side of the nose
User :   and he said everything's ok
Doctor :   Ok

User :   but I didn't still overcome the crush, I don't see the nose as before, I want to change it again, I hate my husband
Doctor :   Ok
User :   I hate him, Doctor, I'm not ashamed saying this, everything's up to him, he's a bastard, and I'm going to get divorced
Doctor :   But you should control yourself XXXXXXXX

Doctor :  
He might be wrong
Doctor :  
But you should control over your mind
User :   but I want to solve this problem before, I want to solve my nose problem and when everything's ok I say him to get out of my life
Doctor :  
both internally in thoughts and externally in your actions
User :   You're right, Doctor, sometimes I say that this kind of crush can happen to everyone
Doctor :   Yes, it happens

User :   once I was walking in street and suddenly a rock came down from the roof
Doctor :   Ok

User :   miraculosly I was safe
Doctor :  
Thats really good
User :   Doctor, I'm suffering too much, You can't known what I've seen
User :   my life has been FULL of tears a nd sufferings
Doctor :   I can understand

Doctor :  
But you should overcome that
Doctor :  
You should become tough mentally
User :   sufferings and pain, always
Doctor :  
atleast for such crises
Doctor :  
You should overcome that boldly
User :   I've a plan, Doctor
Doctor :  
Be bold and wise
Doctor :  
Yes, go on
User :   You're right, I'm praying the Holy Virgin, she helped me so many times
Doctor :   Ok

User :   I'm praying Her since she saw all the incredible sufferings I've passed through, not just now, but in past too
Doctor :   Ok

User :   my plan is this: after the plastic surgeon opinion
User :   here, about pictures, I'll go to see a plastic surgeon near my home
Doctor :   Fine

User :   and I'll here what he says, after that I'll come back to my plastic surgeon who made surgery on me and I'll ask
User :   I just hope it's something it can be done in Studio
User :   with local anestesy, since I already know all the iter I've done before
User :   making blood exams, and staying one night in clinic
User :   my plastic surgeon told me that time I'm fixed about my nose
Doctor :   Ok

User :   but I like perfection, I had to fight too much when I w as just a teen since my school mates teased me since they said my nose was ugly
Doctor :   Ok, no problem

Doctor :  
Cosmetic surgery is meant for that
User :   I live separate from my husband
Doctor :  
User :   I couldn't see him more, I've too much resentment towards him
Doctor :  
User :   he made my life becoming a hell
User :   but I've promised to myself I'll win, I'll overcome all this, I've promised this to my father , he left us and he did so much for me
Doctor :  
User :   I feel he's trying to help, he sees I'm too much suffering, he send me message from the other side, Doctor
Doctor :  
You have done right
Doctor :  
Doctor :  
What is your take?
User :   sorry, what's take?
User :   sorry
Doctor :   Your reply to he helping you

User :   oh...
User :   my reply is that I've to show him I'm a worthy daughter
User :   a daughter who can live in this world a nd facing life, even if it's so much hard like this moment
Doctor :   Yes, that is the right attitude you are having

User :   thanks so much, Esteemed Doctor
User :   my very first step is that tomorrow I'll go out with a beautiful smile
Doctor :   That is appreciable

User :   I have very nice smile, and I'll smile, I'll get a nice little hat on my head and with nice make-up
Doctor :  
Is there any thing else I can help you with?
User :   everything's ok for us, Doctor
User :   Doctor, do You feel I can succeed in solving this problem?
Doctor :   Sure, You will
Doctor :  
Repeat it many times
Doctor :  
That would be an added motivation
User :   oh, Your precious words give me a so great and deep strenght
Doctor :   You really can

Doctor :  
No doubt
Doctor :  
Continue the good work
Doctor :  
and good thought
User :   I'll repeat it again a nd again: I can succeed , I'll win
Doctor :   Sure, it will be in your way

User :   effectively the little thickness that was formed on the front of the nose, it seems quite completely gone
Doctor :   Yes, it is fine

Doctor :  
I have seen the pictures
User :   really??
Doctor :  
You should not have any inferiority complex
Doctor :  
Doctor :  
It is fine
User :   what do You think about, Doctor?
User :   REALLY???????
Doctor :  
It is really normal
User :   but the nasal bones?
Doctor :  
a bit narrow
User :   are they rightly alligned?
Doctor :  
but it is right
Doctor :  
Nothing awkward for sure
User :   oh, You mean, Doctor, that my surgeon just made the nasal little bit narrow?
Doctor :  
I cannot comment on that
Doctor :  
but looks fine
User :   nasal bones
User :   REALLY???
Doctor :  
I shall go through it once more, along with your previous chat
User :   he made that pressure with finger tips on the right side
Doctor :  
I have not gone through your chat
User :   that's right
Doctor :  
Yes, a pressure tip is evident only on detailed examination, not evident as such
Doctor :  
I shall go through it and see it once more later today
Doctor :   Do come back and tell the status post consulation with the cosmetic surgeon

User :   my most strong worry is that is not visible a thickness on the nose front
Doctor :  
We can discuss it
Doctor :  
in the next session
Doctor :  
Is that fine XXXXXXXX?
User :   that's right; I can send maybe some other pictures too
Doctor :   Sure

User :   completely fine, Doctor
Doctor :  
Thanks for consulting HealthcareMagic. Bye for now. Please refer your friends to our service.
User :   You're our Blessed XXXXXXXX
Doctor :   Thank you

User :   thanks so much to You, Esteemd Doctor; will You send me e-mail too about nose opinion?
Doctor :   Sure

Doctor :  
I shall reply to it
Doctor :  
User :   oh, thanks so much, I'll wait for it, God Bless You always !!!!
User :   bye for now, have a great day , from my mother too!!!
User :   :))))
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