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Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Erectile Dysfunction
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Doctor :   hi
Doctor :  
how can i help u?
User :   i have sex problem, can i discuss it with you
Doctor :   sure

Doctor :  
whats ur problem?
User :   I have a sex Problem.

While doing sex My penis gets weak and it doesn't go inside. All the time it gets strong but when i think it to put inside , at that time it gets weak and unable to go inside.

While masturbating it remains strong all time.

What is it? is it curable
Doctor :  
whats ur age?
User :   24
Doctor :  
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Doctor :   Hi
User :   hello
User :   yes
User :   do i repeat my problem
User :   r u there
Doctor :   yes

User :   answer my problem
User :   I have a sex Problem.

While doing sex My penis gets weak and it doesn't go inside. All the time it gets strong but when i think it to put inside , at that time it gets weak and unable to go inside.

While masturbating it remains strong all time.

What is it? is it curable
User :   My age is 24
Doctor :   yes it is curable
User :   my age is 24
User :   how
Doctor :   you are suffering from performance anxiety
User :   what it is basically
Doctor :  
that is the sex organ is not having any problem
User :   then
Doctor :  
as you can get it erect while doing masturbation
User :   ya
User :   but at the time of real sex, when i think og getting it inside
User :   it gets weak
Doctor :  
it is the anxiety you develop while with the opposite sex
User :   i have tried with s many girls
User :   everythime it happens
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :  
this is typical of performance anxiety
User :   when they take it on their hand thenalso it strong
User :   but when we put it near them, it get weak
User :   how it get cured
Doctor :   relax

Doctor :  
let me explain you
User :   i am very tensed
User :   ok
Doctor :  
every male during the first act does experience some amount of erectile dysfunction
Doctor :   sex is an art
Doctor :  
it needs to be learnt
Doctor :  
and the learning process is gradual and needs time
User :   ok
Doctor :  
now for your problem
User :   yes
Doctor :  
it is the combination of the drug and the cognitive behavior therapy
User :   ok
Doctor :   medication is
User :   what is it?
Doctor :  
Tab eldervit
Doctor :  
take this tablet for one month one tab every day in the night after dinner
User :   ok
Doctor :  
cognitive behavior therapy
User :   ok
User :   ok
Doctor :   in this you need to have some patience do persistence effort
Doctor :  
stop the mastrubation
Doctor :  
always indulge in fore play at the begining
Doctor :  
once you loose the tightness and not able to insert
Doctor :  
indulge in fore play
Doctor :  
than again you try to insert
User :   what is fore play
Doctor :   fore play is kissing, hugging and manual stimulation of the genitals
User :   i have tried this
Doctor :   yes
User :   penis again get strong
Doctor :   ok
User :   but again when i think to insert it
User :   it gets weak
Doctor :  
so only the tab eldervit is advised
User :   wll it work
Doctor :   yes it will
Doctor :  
you may have to give some attempts
User :   sometimes i have taken manpower (by Manking) and revital but they doesn't work
User :   atempt means
User :   manpower by mankind
Doctor :   attempts to achieve a penetration
User :   attemt means to do sex
Doctor :   yeah
User :   but how
User :   i am not married
User :   girlfriend is in bhopal for a month
Doctor :   ok
User :   i can't attempt for a month
Doctor :  
no problem
User :   ok
Doctor :  
you can take tablet for one month
User :   sometimes i have taken manpower (by Mankind) and revital but they doesn't work
Doctor :  
yeah
Doctor :  
you told me
Doctor :  
as this is for organic cause
User :   ok
Doctor :  
it will not help you in the present situation
User :   so i will take it from tomarrow
User :   and stop the masturbation
Doctor :   yes
User :   anyother exercise
User :   and precaution
Doctor :   word of caution
Doctor :  
in the initial attempts you many not be able to achieve the insertion
User :   after one month also
Doctor :   this is after a month when you have a chance to do sex
User :   then
Doctor :   as i said you may be successful in 4th or 5th attempt
User :   on the same time
Doctor :   if possible same time or spread over a period of a day or two
User :   ok
User :   how will i contact you further
Doctor :   this problem will not occur if you start living with a women after your marriage
Doctor :  
as you will have access every day
Doctor :  
since this is occasional these kinds of problems will occur
Doctor :  
so dont worry
User :   whenever i login you will handle my problem
Doctor :  
you can log in any time
Doctor :  
we are available 24/7
User :   my first girlfriend is experienced in sex
User :   she tried a lot
User :   but unable
Doctor :   ok
User :   onw more thing i want to ask
Doctor :  
ok
User :   i never inserted inside, am i still a virgin
Doctor :   yes
User :   when i try to sex , i don't use anything
User :   is anything req durins sex, any oil and anything else
User :   i only try my penis to do inside
User :   go inside
Doctor :   if there is sufficient lubrication from the female side
Doctor :  
than you need not have to use any oils
User :   how she have
Doctor :   the female part will be wet with secretions
User :   secretions is orginally they have or any oral sex is required
Doctor :   when female get excited there will be secretion
Doctor :  
no need of oral sex for lubrication
User :   but when i insert then she excite a lot
User :   then only secretion come
Doctor :  
no
User :   then only she exxcite when i insert
User :   or u want to say that fore play will bring the secretion
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :  
the foreplay will bring the secretion
User :   ok
User :   if i want to use oil then which oil should be used
Doctor :   there are lubricants available in the pharmacy
Doctor :  
you can try them
User :   ok
Doctor :   but i dont advise
User :   thanks doctor
User :   ok
Doctor :  
as normal secretion is the best one
User :   i will start taking eldervit from tomarrow
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :  
is there anything else i can help you with
User :   is it easily available
Doctor :  
yes it is available
Doctor :  
in the pharmacy
User :   medica; store person will ask for a prescripton
Doctor :  
no
Doctor :   prescription is not required for this drug
User :   ok
User :   which company manufacture it
User :   ok
Doctor :   the manufacturer is ELDER
Doctor :   is there anything else i can help you with
Doctor :  
are you there?
Doctor :  
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