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Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   Hi i have been diagnosed as having unilateral venous leak in a private health center in cochin. I can masturbate daily 2 or more times. Iam addicted to masturbation. Kindly advice me whether i can have a married life. so far i cud not intercourse with any girl. I tried 5 to 6 times. kindly advice me the best hospital in treating errectyle dysfunction in india?
Doctor :   Hi
User :   hi
Doctor :   May I know your age?
User :   29
Doctor :   May I know if you have normal early morning erections?
User :   some times i do have...but it is not rigid errections
Doctor :   May I know the reason why you were not successful during sexual intercourse - were you not able to have an erection or did you have problem sustaining erection?
User :   problem in sustaining an errection
Doctor :   Do you have any other medical problem such as diabetes, hypertension, thyroid problems?
Doctor :   Are you able to masturbate without any difficulties?
User :   no medical problems..im very healthy with 82 kg and 5.9 ht..
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   By difficulties in masturbation, I meant are you able to have normal erection through out masturbation?
User :   yea i can masturbate well...it is like in the starting errections are not full but during the peak i get good errections
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Let me explain to you.
User :   i will be charged more by seeing a blue film than by seeing a girl in real.. is this affect me
Doctor :   I shall explain to you.
User :   ok
Doctor :   Erection is well sustained when veins are able to hold the blood during the entire act.
Doctor :   In this regards, erection problems can happen if vein leakage occurs.
User :   ok
Doctor :   However since you do not have any problems during masturbation,
Doctor :   vein leakage alone can't explain the problem you have during an actual sexual intercourse.
Doctor :   Hence there should be other factors adding to the symptoms.
Doctor :   Based on previous studies in young men having erectile dysfunctions,
Doctor :   it has been proved that few factors can trigger this problems
Doctor :   Those factors include stress, anxiety, fear of incompetance, lack of enough energy, lack of proper sexual desire, your partners sexual affection to you and so on.
Doctor :   Apart from this other rare factors are medical illness such as diabetes, thyroid problems, heart dysfunctions , endocrine factors and so on.
Doctor :   Hence from your description,
Doctor :   it could be the first few factors - stress, anxiety, fear of incompetance, lack of sexual desire that could be the real reason.
Doctor :   Are you following?
User :   yea doctor..
Doctor :   Hence let me suggest you few tips that should help you in treating the problem
User :   ok
Doctor :   1. Your sexual function is based on your positive attitude.
User :   ok
Doctor :   hence be positive, you will often be able to succeed with just this alone.
Doctor :   2. You may need to develop good sexual desire during the act.
Doctor :   This is achieved best by good foreplay.
Doctor :   Spend more time during foreplay.
User :   ok
Doctor :   3. Increase stress either physically or emotionally can impair sexual functions.
Doctor :   Hence practise destressing measures such as breathing exercise, relaxation techniques such as yoga and meditation.
Doctor :   4. Your weight isn't appropriate to your height.
Doctor :   Over weight can impair sexual activity.
Doctor :   Hence involve physical exercises to help weight reduction
User :   doctor i didnt felt any stress or anxiety...my problem is when ever im getting errection, the moment i try to intercourse, im losing the rigidity..
Doctor :   I can understand that,
Doctor :   I haven't finished with the tips yet.
Doctor :   These measures should be sufficient to solve the sexual problems,
User :   and the amount of anxiety im seeing in sex films is not there when i see the girl in real
Doctor :   however, inspite of these measures, if you are not able to have good sexual intercourse,
User :   i masturbate by seeing sex films in that the anxiety and my concentration level is very high..but when i see a girl in real, it is not there
Doctor :   then treating venous leakage by means of external vacuum device, penile rings
Doctor :   can be tried.
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