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Premature ejaculation post my wifes delivery - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Premature Ejaculation
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Doctor :   Hi
User :   HI
Doctor :  
How can i help you?
User :   required some information

Doctor :   Sure

Doctor :  
You can proceed with the qury
User :   If you don't mind can you tell me your specialization

Doctor :  
I am a General Practitioner, I believe I can help you within my expertise and If required I shall recommend a specialist.
User :   ok

User :   I'm married before 2 and half year

Doctor :  
Ok
User :   in that period I don't have any problem of PE

Doctor :  
Thats good
User :  
but from last 3 months I'm not able to control it.
Doctor :  
Ok
User :  
as soon as get into act I ejaculate,
Doctor :   Ok
User :  
is there anything to avoid this
Doctor :  
May I know your age, occupation, height and weight?
User :  
age 31
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occupation : IT
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weight :- 68
User :  
height :- 5' 7"
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Ok
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Ejaculation is termed as premature when it occurs within 1.5 minutes of penetration
Doctor :   So may I know how much time you take?

User :  
ok, but now I ejacualate within 10 secs.
Doctor :  
Ok
Doctor :  
Then it can be termed so
Doctor :   Do you have children?
User :  
yes , 6 month son
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Ok
Doctor :  
So this problem has started after your wife delivered
User :  
that is correct
Doctor :  
Usually premature ejaculation is just a functional disorder
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There wont be any abnormality
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It is only due to psychological factors
User :  
ok,
Doctor :  
May I know how is your wife after delivery?
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Like does she have interest in sex?
User :  
she is normal
Doctor :   Ok thats good
Doctor :   How is your privacy at home?
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especially after your son is born
User :   we have privacy

Doctor :  
Ok
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If you dont mind may I ask you one more question?
User :  
sure
Doctor :   Like are you associated with a single sexual partner?
User :  
yes
User :  
that is only with my wife
Doctor :  
It is important as I have already told you that there a lot of psychological factors involved
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How long had you been off sex during your wife's pregnancy?
User :  
after delivery almost for 3 months
Doctor :  
Ok
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Did it start after that off period?
User :  
didn't get your question.
Doctor :  
Like after that 3 months of abstinence
User :  
oh , yes
Doctor :  
Ok
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Then I can think of the possibility like over-excitation
Doctor :  
which usually results in this
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How do you agree with it?
User :  
not agree
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Ok
User :  
previously also we did the same way
Doctor :  
An occasional instance of premature ejaculation is common
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but if it is occuring repeatedly then it is of concern
User :   yes, that's why I waited for 3 months
Doctor :  
because 75% of males experience it once or more
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Is it occuring with every act?
User :  
yes
Doctor :  
Ok
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Do you smoke?
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Do you consume alcohol?
User :   yes, occassionaly

Doctor :  
Ok
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But erection is fine I presume
User :   some times
Doctor :  
How is your work going?
User :  
fine, no problems at all
Doctor :  
Thats good
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How about sleep patterns and appetite?
User :  
daily I sleep upto 7 to 8 hours
Doctor :   Ok
User :  
and on weekend more than that
Doctor :  
Ok
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So then it is quite clear that there is no pressure in life
Doctor :  
to an extent which is affecting you
User :  
right
Doctor :  
So
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now coming to the correction part
Doctor :  
You will need a consultation with a psychiatrist
Doctor :  
You need to do that because he is quite a expert in handling these cases
Doctor :  
If a sexologist is available in your city, then even sexologist is fine
Doctor :  
You can go to a male doctor preferably
User :  
ok
Doctor :   Firstly you will be given reassurance
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and counselling, psychotherapy
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If there is a need then you might be given some medications which is very rare
User :  
ok
Doctor :   Is that fine?
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Is there any thing else I can help you with?
User :  
do you any doctors in pune ?
User :  
know
Doctor :  
We can fix you an appointment with the concerned
User :   ok
Doctor :  
You can go to our website WWW.WWWW.WW Doctor :  
and click on the doctors with specific speciality in Pune
User :  
ok
Doctor :  
You see various profiles there
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Later you can click the button to fix an appointment
Doctor :  
I hope it is clear
User :  
yes, it is clear
User :  
Thanks Doc.
User :  
I'll do tht
Doctor :   Firstly you need to stay calm
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Practise some relaxation techniques like Meditation and Pranayama
User :  
ok
Doctor :  
Do brisk walking for around 30 minutes
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preferably in the morning
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All these measures will help you overcome the problem
Doctor :  
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User :  
done
Doctor :  
Thanks for consulting HealthcareMagic. Bye for now. Please refer your friends to our service.
User :  
sure
User :  
Thanks
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