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Premature ejaculation at 20 years - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Practicing since : 2004
Answered : 37 Questions
Doctor :   Hi
User :   Hello
Doctor :  
How can i help you
User :   Yes, I am 20 years old and i believe i have a severe case of premature ejaculation.
Doctor :   ok

Doctor :  
how do you percieve that you have premature ejaculation
User :   well when i have intercourse i only last from 1-2 minutes, this is very consistent. It pretty much happens every time. I have tried exercises that are advertised online but nothing seems to work.
Doctor :   your age you said is 20yrs right

User :   correct
Doctor :  
may i know your name
User :   I dont want to sound rude but is that absolutely necessary?
Doctor :   may i know the place you are from
User :   I am from the United States
Doctor :   ok

Doctor :   i am also bound by certain code of conduct so only asked
User :   ok
Doctor :   may i ask you few Q

User :   yes of course
Doctor :   this is very direct Q

Doctor :  
premature ejaculation
Doctor :   i dont see my words in the chat

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is there any techinecial problem
User :   no, i seem to be able to see everthing
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :  
i will repeat my Q again
User :   ok
Doctor :  
how many times did this premature ejucalation happened
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was it your first experience
User :   no, the first girl i was with i never had the problem, but after that its happened ever since
Doctor :   so this is the second girl

Doctor :  
now how long you would take to ejucaluate in the first time
User :   no the first girl was when i was 16 years old, and then every girl ive been with for the next 4 years it happend, with the first one i would last over 20 minutes
Doctor :   twenty minutes of what is that only thrusting or it includes foreplay also

User :   only thrusting, not including foreplay
Doctor :   now how it is happening with sexual stimulation, on or very shortly after penenteration or is it before tyou wish to ejuculate
User :   it does not happen during foreplay, it only happens very shortly after penetration
Doctor :   so the duration has come down from the first time you did and is it consistent

Doctor :  
i mean your ejucaluation is happening in 2 minutes in every attempt
User :   yes, it has never gone above 3 minutes maximum
Doctor :   ok

Doctor :  
what remedies have you tried before talking to me can you tell me all of them
User :   I haven't tried taking any supplements. I have only tried exercises that the internet had said, things that said they would strengthen the PC muscle.
User :   and none of them have worked at all
Doctor :   what exercises you did to strengthen pc muscle can you explain me in detail

Doctor :  
the way you did the exercise
User :   it said to use the muscle that disrupts the flow of urine. It instructed to do it multiple times for about 15-30 minutes a day.
User :   just repeatedly flex and relax it
Doctor :   that is to hold urine or stop and control the urine flow

Doctor :  
is this the only thing you did
User :   yes, that was the only exercise that i found that had a good review of working
Doctor :   ok now some personal details

Doctor :  
your height and weight
User :   i am about 5'6" and i weigh 165 pounds
Doctor :   your abdominal girth

User :   what is that?
Doctor :  
your waist diameter
User :   oh im not sure about that
Doctor :   ok what is the size of the trouser you fit in

User :   i just checked my pants and it said 31 inch diameter and it fits loosely
Doctor :   ok

Doctor :  
now what is the time taken from the sexual stimulus and erection to occur
Doctor :   i am going in detail so that i can help you to the max
User :   i have never had a problem with that, i get an erection very quickly after sexual stimulus
User :   it is fine i understand
Doctor :   ok how long you can hold the erection
User :   until about 1 minute after ejaculation
Doctor :   i need the time. its like this. you get erection and you indulge in foreplay and you than do the act
Doctor :  
so from the time of erection to actual act and ejuculation what time
Doctor :  
its approx i want
User :   im not to sure about that, if its only foreplay i can stay erect for as long as i want, the only time i lose an erection is after ejactulation
Doctor :   ya after ejuculation, the erection is lost
Doctor :  
so through out the fore play no problem in maintaining erection
User :   no none at all
Doctor :   do you any time practise oral sex
User :   i haven't had a lot of partners who would but i have at times. And when i did i would still ejaculate early. Not as fast but still earlier than i wanted
Doctor :   any drugs you tried

User :   no i have never tried any drugs
Doctor :  
do you use condom
User :   yes, everytime
Doctor :   and the frequency of sex

Doctor :  
in a week
Doctor :  
how many times approx
User :   well currently i am not having sex, i am in the US army deployed to korea, so i have been separated. But back home about 2 or 3 times a week
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   previously in a night how many acts you used to do in a single time with the same girl
User :   im sorry, what do you mean exaclty?
Doctor :   like one night you are with a girl. and how many times you will have sex with her in that one night

Doctor :  
is it only one time or two or how many
User :   just once
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :  
now i got to know what is the problem
Doctor :  
before that for sake of completion last few Q
User :   ok
Doctor :  
your beard and mustache growth how it is
Doctor :  
the hair underarm
Doctor :  
the pubic hair growth
User :   everything grows quickly, in order to keep a clean shaven face i need to shave twice a day, everything else grows quickly as well
Doctor :  
good
Doctor :  
the length of penis before and after erection
User :   before erection it is about 3 inches, and after about 6 to 6 and a half
Doctor :   ok

Doctor :   let me tell you about the premature ejuculation,
Doctor :  
see normally the ejuculation occurs with in 6 to 6.5 min is normal
Doctor :  
most of the men do have it in the range of 2.5 to 3.5 minutes
Doctor :   this is in 75% of the males
Doctor :  
only 15 to 20 % will have more than 5 minutes
Doctor :  
some 1 to 2% will lost for more than 10 min and it is only in few people and on few occations
Doctor :  
in the first time and first act the ejuculation occuring before penenteration happans in 90% of people
Doctor :  
why i am saying all this is
Doctor :  
it is the mental state and the time and sexual and emotional well being of the partners is responsible for ejuculation
Doctor :   few more points
Doctor :   since you are having the sex in frequently and only once it is happening very soon
Doctor :   the first encounter will be always soon
Doctor :  
if you do it three four times the same night than you may notice that the second one lasted for more than the first one
Doctor :  
and third and fourth one was not that long again
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hour at one point
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and if you continue the next day also it might last for more than 20 minutes and you yourself will be surprised to see that you crossed more than half
Doctor :  
as far as your chat assesment is considered i dont find any physical cause for it
Doctor :  
but yes emotional cause that you are far away from home and being a military personnel what it is can be understood
Doctor :  
so i dont think you are suffering from premature Ejucaluation
Doctor :  
and it can only be told if you had this problem when you were with your wife
Doctor :   are you there
User :   yes im still here
User :   well if its not premature ejaculation then why do i ejaculate so quickly?
Doctor :  
you got it what i said
Doctor :  
you still believe you are suffering from premature ejucaluation
Doctor :  
i said no if you do it for first time it will be short
Doctor :  
you leave gap for some days and than you do than again it will be short
Doctor :   as i told you do two times in one night and than tel me how long did first one lost and how long the second one was
User :   ok, so other than that i shouldn't try anything else?
Doctor :   you are not getting my point

Doctor :  
i tried so long to explain you that you are normal
Doctor :  
and if you start living with a girl you will discover that your performance will be more than 20 minutes
User :   ahh ok i undestand
Doctor :   if you start living with a girl and than also you had this problem after one month of living with her
Doctor :  
than there is a techenique
Doctor :   what you can do is you start thrusting and if you feel that you are going to ejuculate withdraw
Doctor :  
and indulge in fore play avoid any contact with your penis
Doctor :  
once you feel that ejuculatory urge is lost
Doctor :  
than again indulge in activity
Doctor :  
try to post phone this ejuculation as long as you can
Doctor :  
latter in one month of practice you can see that your ejucalation time has increased
Doctor :  
please fill the feed back form
Doctor :  
you understood the techenique
User :   yes i understand, is there any technique to use if i dont have a partner with me?
Doctor :   mastrubation

Doctor :  
you keep doing and once you find you you want to ejuculate
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stop
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than once urge is lost
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do it again
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till you are able to hold
Doctor :  
got it
User :   i understand
Doctor :   did you fill the feed back form
Doctor :  
is there any thing i can help you with
User :   yes i did fill it out. That pretty much answers my question. Thank you very very much
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting HealthcareMagic. Bye for now. Please refer your friends to our service.

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