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Premature ejaculation and its prevention through start and stop technique - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   hi ...Am newly married...While having intercourse, I am facing the problem of premature ejaculation as I am not able to last long the intercourse...mean to say I am discharging after 4-5 minutes on intercourse...How to get rid of this problem doctor?
User :   hello doctor ..
Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   I am Dr.
User :   Hi sir
Doctor :   I am reading ur query
User :   ok
Doctor :   How old are you?
User :   27 years
User :   quite a few times, i have been able to do long lasting intercourse
Doctor :   Since when are you noticed this PE?
User :   but most of the times, the ejaculation comes after 4-5 minutes..or
User :   I married just last month only
User :   say 1 month
User :   I had a bad habit of Masturbation,before my marriage..
Doctor :   Do you used to have good erections and did not had premature ejaculation while masturbating?
User :   i am not sure about it.. since i have been masturbation for it depends upon the frequency
User :   say if i masturbate daily...the erections were less
Doctor :   When u were masturbating do u used ejaculate early?
User :   in case ..after 3-4 days ...they were better
User :   yeah...
User :   say 2 minutes
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   What kind of work do u do? how many hrs do u work?
User :   I am a sales manager
User :   work for 6 hours
User :   6-8 hours ,,
Doctor :   Are u stressed out?
User :   no
User :   not at all
User :   its modest type of any physical labour is involved
User :   its all about meeting i dont feel i am stressed out ..or physically tired
Doctor :   I am asking abt mental stress
User :   yeah it is there to some extent
Doctor :   Ok
User :   but I dont feel that it can be a reason...cause i am most of the times achieving my targets
Doctor :   Let make sure 2 thing
Doctor :   Do you have strong desire to have intercourse?
User :   sales targets ..
User :   yeah it is there..
Doctor :   Do you get enough stiffness of penis for vaginal penetration
User :   yeah
User :   stiffness is there..
Doctor :   So It is Premature Ejaculation (Pe)
Doctor :   I will give u few tips
User :   wat kind of stiffness are u talkng about sir
Doctor :   Penile stiffness
Doctor :   hardness
User :   cause ..when arousal is there..the penis universally becomes its there
User :   yeah
User :   sometimes its soft as well
Doctor :   Not all arousal has erections
User :   my only problem is that i cant last it longer time
Doctor :   they are different problems
Doctor :   But u have PE problem
User :   till date ..i am getting erections..
User :   ah okk
User :   suggest me the way out then doctor...
Doctor :   Try the stop and Squeez technique
User :   wats that
Doctor :   Masturbate> when u get full erection > and when u r about to ejaculate stop masturbating> then squeeze the head of the penis with fingers and stop the ejaculation
Doctor :   And repeat this technique multiple times
User :   / u mean i should masturbate.. again..
Doctor :   This way you will get will power, voluntary control and ur body to delay ejaculation
Doctor :   This takes one-3mon ths for full practice
Doctor :   This is a training
Doctor :   Sexual activity is a training
Doctor :   Do u follow this?
User :   how to squeeze ...i did not understand..
Doctor :   squeeze with thumb and index fingers
Doctor :   Squeeze the penis to stop ejaculation
User :   if suppose i start masturbating than how will I be able to iintercourse with my better half..cause it is obvious that the quantity of semen/liquid shall decrease if i do masturbation as well..
User :   What are the results of doing such a Stop and squeeze exercise..and
Doctor :   This is the scientific technique
User :   do condoms with Extra-Time ..delay discharge do help ....?
Doctor :   If u can do that is fine with mstutrabation
Doctor :   If u can not masturbate u can try in real intercourse
User :   k
Doctor :   While doing real intercourse
User :   what are the other things I should keep in my mind to overcome the PE
Doctor :   When u r abt to ejaculatory take out the penis from vagina
Doctor :   and squeeze the penis
User :   k
User :   oh k
Doctor :   u may loose the erections
User :   then can i put it again inside the vagina or no ....
Doctor :   but u need to talk to partner for cooperation
Doctor :   Yes
Doctor :   stop and start'
User :   k
Doctor :   2 Use DELAY cream which helps to to sensations of penis so that u can delay ejaculation
Doctor :   it is available in the medical shop
User :   what is the Brand name
User :   i mean any specific brand name....
User :   and how to use it
Doctor :   DELAY
Doctor :   "DELAY"
User :   k
Doctor :   3. Use Tab CONFIDO also
Doctor :   take one hr before intercourse
User :   wat about the Extra time condoms
Doctor :   You ca use them
User :   CONFIDO...Wat are the active ingredients of this tablet.. is it a steroid?
Doctor :   They will also decrease the penile sensations
Doctor :   Confido is a herball from H
Doctor :   it helps in iintercourse
User :   k
Doctor :   4. Do u have performace anxiety
User :   are u sure it is herbal ..cause many medicines are there in name of herbals
User :   what is that
User :   i have heard this world..PA
Doctor :   I mean fear of not satisfying in intercourse?
User :   how do u define it
User :   yeah
User :   it is there
User :   i feel that my partner is not satisfied.. though she is cooperative
User :   /
User :   ?
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   But do u feel anxious
User :   anxious means?
Doctor :   yes
User :   i try to hold the ejaculation..but i am failing in that
Doctor :   My friend this is practice . Dont get discouraged
Doctor :   It is exercise
Doctor :   Try Try
User :   ty
User :   how to take confido
User :   i mean dosage
Doctor :   orally
Doctor :   one tab one hr before intercourse
User :   i mean 1 or 2 tabs.
User :   k
User :   it has to be taken after dinner
User :   is it so?
User :   or one can take it anytime
Doctor :   no
Doctor :   one hr before intercourse
User :   after eating food or one can take it before food as well
User :   so in nut is the stop and squeeze, other is Delay cream..and Extra time condoms and last is Confido...Is this all...or there is anything specific left...?
User :   Are u there doctor..
Doctor :   Y
Doctor :   I am chatting with another pt
Doctor :   plz be patient
User :   k
Doctor :   Those areenough
User :   i have only 2 mins left..
Doctor :   Few more tips: User :   wat about the diet ..
User :   and where can i consult in to get better treatment..if this does not help me..
Doctor :   Balanced diet
User :   k
Doctor :   friuts and vegetables, mi;f proteins
User :   Few more tips like.....?
Doctor :   When u r tired do not go for intercourse
User :   ahh okl
Doctor :   Do more fore play
User :   k sir
User :   thanks for ur time...
Doctor :   You welcome
Doctor :   Get 8 hrs sleep
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