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Premature Ejaculation and Sexual Stimulation - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   hi
User :   Hi
Doctor :   how can i help you?
User :   Is there any specialist for sex related issues?
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   tell me your problem
User :   I m in India
Doctor :   I can help you in this regard?
Doctor :   ok
User :   Actually I m going to married soon
User :   But in past I had tried masterbution many times n
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   ok
User :   Now i feel my sexual power is reducing
User :   which i want to regain it
Doctor :   what makes you feel like that?
User :   so how will u help me out
User :   Actually last time i had sex with my partener safe sex
User :   And I got ejaculated early
Doctor :   are you married?
User :   I want to increase t8 time i dont know how?
User :   No
User :   Not yet
User :   ?
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   i will help you in this
Doctor :   can I ask few relevant questions?

User :   Yes sure
User :   pls
User :   assist me
Doctor :   i will help u in this
User :   ok
User :   thank u
User :   ??
Doctor :   wats your age
User :   its 25 now
Doctor :   do yu frequently masturbate
User :   I was doing it when i was in 10th till 12th
User :   then i stopped it
Doctor :   ok let me put some straight forward Q
Doctor :   is your erections harder
User :   but i was struggling with problem of night dreams
Doctor :   ok
User :   yea it is harder but for few minute
Doctor :   that normal fro every men
Doctor :   ok
User :   i want increment in tha8
Doctor :   are yu able to penetrate the vagina well
User :   Yes
Doctor :   thats good
User :   but my partenr had complaint abt t8
User :   she wants more pressure from my end
Doctor :   after how many strokes do yu ejaculate
User :   It goes up to 4 2-3 minutes
User :   sorry
User :   2-3 min
Doctor :   ok
User :   is there any solution?
Doctor :   its the condition called premature ejaculation
Doctor :   i will give few medical tips to over come it
Doctor :   do yu smoke
User :   Actually my cousin brothers are doctors but i feel shy to ask them such doubts
Doctor :   or consume alcohol
User :   Not an chain smoker but sometime i have with frnds
Doctor :   its ok not to worry i will help u in this
Doctor :   regarding alcohol
User :   Alchohal also when I attend any parties
User :   otherwise no
Doctor :   its better to avoid smoking
User :   Yes but i take a glass of milk everyday
User :   sure i will
Doctor :   as there is direct evidence that smoking
Doctor :   will reduce the sperm count
User :   yes i know
Doctor :   and causes weaker erections
User :   yes but i m not an chain smoker
Doctor :   are yu stressed or tensed due to some reason
User :   but in a week more than wice i get night dreams in night
Doctor :   yes i got it
User :   ok
User :   so whats the solution
User :   ?
Doctor :   are yu on any medication
Doctor :   any surgery done
User :   no only i get some calcium and vitamins tabs
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   let me give some healthy tips first and the some medications
Doctor :   not to worry be mentally strong
Doctor :   this condition is called premature ejaculation
Doctor :   sleep of 7-8 hrs needed
Doctor :   take plenty of green leafy veg
Doctor :   not to have sex when yu are tired
Doctor :   aerobiv exercise like jogging, brisk walking and swimming
Doctor :   will increase the sex harmone levels
Doctor :   is that ok
Doctor :   coming to sexual education
Doctor :   hi are yu there
Doctor :   hi are yu there
User :   hi
User :   sorry i was away
Doctor :   ok
User :   yes i m vegitarian only
Doctor :   follow those measures
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   not to get stressed and tensed
User :   do i need to go for any ayurveda medical tratment
Doctor :   because psychological effect is the main cause for it
User :   yes but our job is very presuurise
User :   I m in Administration
Doctor :   no ayurveda does nto help
User :   then?
Doctor :   yes i under stand
User :   U r from?
Doctor :   but try to be relaxed at the time of sex
User :   yes
Doctor :   75% of men will experinece this type of sexual problem atleast once or twice in lifetime
User :   ok
Doctor :   coming to sexual education
Doctor :   its better to sit with your partner
Doctor :   and discuss with her wats her interest
User :   ok
Doctor :   and wat your are intrested in
User :   I think most of the girls wants to play with the tool
Doctor :   plenty of fore play will reduce the ejaculation
User :   Yes
Doctor :   fore play includes stimulation of clitoris
User :   ok
User :   what else?
Doctor :   which is the most sensitive part
Doctor :   oral sex on that will help to stimulate her
User :   ok
Doctor :   stimulation of nipples not the whole breast
User :   ok
Doctor :   just the nipples
Doctor :   and the umblical region
User :   ?
User :   whats t8 part?
Doctor :   coming to the sexual stimulation in males
Doctor :   its the centre of abdomen or stomach
User :   ok
User :   belly
User :   I have found from this sitePrilocaine-lidocaine cream Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) called Dapoxetine (yet to be approved)Clomipramine
Doctor :   yes let me finish this
Doctor :   and come to those
User :   oh sure
User :   i was just navigating through page
Doctor :   the tip of penis is more sensitive
User :   pls
User :   yes
User :   t8s true
Doctor :   so not to play more oral sex on that
Doctor :   no not worry on that
Doctor :   the shaft and scrotum oral sex is good
User :   whats t8?
Doctor :   means shaft of the penis
User :   sorry but this jargon words are new to me
User :   ok
Doctor :   T8 is sensitive part in males as Gspot in males
Doctor :   masturbation will reduce early ejaculation
User :   ok
Doctor :   masturbate for 5-6 min then stop
User :   u mean we have to go for mastrebution is not bad
Doctor :   when the cum is ready to out
Doctor :   no masturbation is not at all bad
User :   ok
Doctor :   but it should not be over used or addicted
Doctor :   masturbation reduces the tension and stress
User :   yes
Doctor :   there is another techinque
Doctor :   called Start and stop techinque
Doctor :   give one or more strokes
User :   from last 3-4 yrs i have stopped doing t8 but only in night i get ejaculated when i am in sleep
Doctor :   then have fore play
Doctor :   thats normal for every men
Doctor :   its not abnormal
Doctor :   do yu watch lot of porn movies
User :   I mean I have stopped masterbuting
User :   No porn movies only regular english movies
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   but masturbation is not a bad habit
Doctor :   i am advising yu because
User :   ok
Doctor :   yu can have good self control in ejaculation
Doctor :   masturbate for some time dont ejaculate in hurry
Doctor :   again stop and again masturbate
User :   ok
Doctor :   it will give yu a good control over early ejaculation
User :   ok sure
Doctor :   other is Squeeze technique
Doctor :   yu can squeeze the root of penis
User :   ok?
Doctor :   its the other end of tip
Doctor :   where the pubic hair is present
Doctor :   yu can even ask your partner to squeeze the root
Doctor :   so yu dont ejaculate
Doctor :   is that ok
User :   ok
Doctor :   coming to medicnes
User :   yea
Doctor :   yu have 2 condoms over the penis so the penile sesitivityis reduced
User :   ok
Doctor :   or yu can use PL cream
Doctor :   thats prilocaine- lidocaine cream
Doctor :   yu need to apply it 8- 10 min before entering the vagina
Doctor :   not to use more saliva
Doctor :   over the penis
User :   ok
Doctor :   this will help u to have sex for 20- 30 min
User :   ok u mean to say we have to make use of saliva
Doctor :   regarding the medicines none of them is approved
Doctor :   not to over use saliva
Doctor :   as they can cause erections but
Doctor :   they can cause infertility
Doctor :   reduce the sperm count
Doctor :   and more side effects on heart and lung
User :   ok so i will not go for t8
Doctor :   ok
User :   I heard same side effects of Viagra as well
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   they can cause cardiac effects
Doctor :   the person sometimes can collapse while havg sex
Doctor :   this is more common in older people who abuse it
Doctor :   yu need to be mentally strong
Doctor :   so be relaxed not to be stresse
Doctor :   physically fit so have good diet practises
Doctor :   and sexually best
User :   ok
Doctor :   by using different positions, fore plays, orgasns
User :   I will try to follow t8
User :   how to ejaculate her earlier to me
Doctor :   some medications can help u to get pleasure
Doctor :   at the time of sex
Doctor :   but they can harm your future sexual life
Doctor :   not to woory
Doctor :   congrats for your marriage
User :   Yes tnx a lot
Doctor :   please fill the feed back form
Doctor :   Is there any thing else i can help u with
User :   Can u do me one favor?
User :   ?
User :   r u there
User :   ?
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   i will
User :   Also pls do let me know about the gels which i can use
Doctor :   yes i will help u
Doctor :   there are 2 types of gels
User :   ok
Doctor :   one is water based other is oil based
Doctor :   the water based is more costlier
Doctor :   compared to oil based
User :   ok
User :   whats the difference?
User :   Name?
User :   and brand?
Doctor :   Prilox cream or gel
User :   ok
Doctor :   effective ness of both is same
User :   whats the cost diff of both type?
User :   quality wise whcih on is best?
Doctor :   but water based is china prep
Doctor :   Have you filled the feedback form?
User :   yes i have done with t8
User :   so i think water based is not relaible
User :   is it?
Doctor :   its reliable no problems in it
Doctor :   it only the manufactured from china
Doctor :   yu take wat i have advised
Doctor :   thats good
Doctor :   enough to improver the sex
User :   ok so ishould go for Prilox cream or gel
User :   whats the cost of t8
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   600 rs
User :   ok
User :   its feasible
Doctor :   yes its
User :   when to apply its regular ?
Doctor :   its 8- 10 min before penetration
Doctor :   not before sex
Doctor :   its better to have oral sex
Doctor :   before applying gel
Doctor :   or clean the gel with cotton and water
Doctor :   and the have oral sex
Doctor :   hi are yu there
User :   yes
Doctor :   is that ok
Doctor :   is there any else i can help u with
User :   no i mean do i need to use it everytime having a sex
Doctor :   no after 2-3 times of application
User :   or clean the gel with cotton and water ? Waht does it mean
Doctor :   yu can stop it for some more days
Doctor :   usally yu may not require it later
Doctor :   as yu may get a good control over it
User :   And when u are having sex at th8 time we cant ask my partener to hold on or wait till i finishes applying gel
User :   and y do we need to clean gel with cotton and water?
Doctor :   i said clean the gel which is over the penis before having oral sex or blow job
Doctor :   so the gel does not enter th mouth or have bad sensation
User :   oho ok
Doctor :   yes
User :   ok i got it
User :   and sorry can i have your contact number as well pls
Doctor :   yu can come and chat to me
Doctor :   please co-operate
Doctor :   as we will be handling so many calls and chats
User :   ok no prob
User :   ok
Doctor :   if needed i can call yu to your mobile number
User :   ok sure
Doctor :   ok
User :   and once again tnx a lot
Doctor :   your are from
User :   Actually i thought of visiting Kayakalp International
User :   I from Mumbai
User :   its in Mumbai
Doctor :   ok
User :   Hace u heared abt it?
Doctor :   yes i have
User :   How is t8?
User :   But i dont thnik so i have to visit?
User :   r u there?
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   i am there
User :   ok
Doctor :   no need to visit
Doctor :   there
User :   ok
User :   waht they do generally?
Doctor :   are yu clear with your doubts
User :   yes
Doctor :   i have very litttle infomation regarding them
Doctor :   heard of it
Doctor :   but no idea
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   bye for now
User :   ok
User :   tnx for assistance
User :   bye bye
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