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Premature Ejaculation and Masturbation - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   Hi
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how can i help you?
User :   hi
User :   I want to discuss my sexual problm
User :   and need ur consuntancy
Doctor :   yes please proceed with your query

Doctor :  
i shall help you in this matter
User :   thanks
User :   I am sufring from premature ejaculation, i want to know how to prolong it...i know this problem is very common in men
Doctor :  
this is from when?
User :   well i hav not noticed earlier, but as i will be getting married soon, so i hav noticed this...
Doctor :   ok

User :   whenever i masturbrate i ejaculate in 1-2 mins only...
Doctor :   ok

User :   is it due to masturbrating and watching XXXXXXXX porns?
Doctor :   no

Doctor :  
it is not the reason
Doctor :  
may i know your age?
User :   i m 28
Doctor :   this is due to the apprehension
User :   wats dat sir?
Doctor :   what happens is as the marriage approaches the males usually give undue due importance to the ejaculation and other activities and this is the commonest cause for premature ejaculation
Doctor :   not to worry
Doctor :  
try doing this
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this is called stop and start technique
User :   ok wat it is? , but doctor, i think i m into this problm even when i was studying, its just that i dint noticed that time, may be...
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :  
let me explain you the technique
User :   tell me how to cure , i want to lead a health sex life...do i need any medication?
User :   ok
Doctor :   no medication is required, you can lead a healthy sexual life no doubt in that
Doctor :  
more than 90% of men do suffer from premature ejaculation
User :   ok
Doctor :  
the technique is like this
Doctor :  
during masturbation when you feel that you are about to ejaculate stop the act
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and divert your attention for XXXXXXXXe time
User :   ok
Doctor :  
than again you can continue to mastrubate
Doctor :  
and again stop when you feel like you need to ejaculate
User :   ok..
Doctor :   in this way you can prolong the ejaculation
User :   how long i shud do this and when shud i finally ejaculate? any specific time?
Doctor :  
the longer time you hold before to ejaculate, better it is
Doctor :  
initially you may not be able to hold for long.
User :   how many times i shud practice this in a week or month?? any specific?
Doctor :   no specific period in this technique
User :   when i m married then? how shud i do? while in intercourse?
Doctor :   you can do it daily until you find the satisfactory results
Doctor :   i think by the time you get married the problem of premature ejaculation would have been disappeared
Doctor :   if at all it persists
Doctor :   then you need to follow this
Doctor :   when you feel during the intercourse you are about to ejaculate withdraw the organ out
User :   ok nd then?
Doctor :  
and can indulge in fore play and then when the urge to ejaculate disappear than can indulge in the intercourse
User :   ok
Doctor :  
alternatively you can ask the female partner to squeeze the penis at the penis head
Doctor :   this also prolongs the ejaculation
User :   squeezing means?? i dint get that?
Doctor :   when you get the urge to ejaculate you need to withdraw the organ out and the female partner has to press and hold the penis head(glans) for 30 second or more
Doctor :  
did you got it
User :   ok this will help?
Doctor :  
yes this will all help in prolonging the ejaculation
User :   u mean to hold the cap of penis and close the opening...lik dat?
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   alternatively there is a medication which is available in the form of gel
Doctor :  
it is called prilox gel
User :   ok is it safe to use the gel, nd how to use?
Doctor :  
this can be applied to penis head 15 minutes before the act for 5 minutes and should be washed off
Doctor :  
yes it is safe
Doctor :  
but most people get addicted to it
Doctor :  
so i suggest you to follow the stop and start technique
User :   ok doc, doc do u think i can overcome ejaculation problem in 2-3 months as i may be getting married soon, so can this problem if not overcome, at least XXXXXXXX time may increse??
Doctor :   yes you can over come this with in one month

User :   ok so start and stop is the best technique, do u suggest me to see XXXXXXXX doctor as well? or i shall be in position by using this technique only?
Doctor :   no need to see doc
User :   if required, is that gel frequently available? though i will prefer not use gel..but still
Doctor :   yes the gel is available in the pharmacy and it is otc
Doctor :  
it does not require any prescription
User :   ok
Doctor :  
if at all you are using gel than let it be minimum
User :   ok but tht is to be used when i m into an intercourse or while masturbrating also i can use it?
Doctor :   it can be used at both times,
Doctor :   why to use at the masturbation time?
Doctor :  
so i suggest to follow the stop and start technique at the masturbation time and in needed gel at the intercourse time
Doctor :   If needed*
User :   ok i will follow...ur technique...
User :   doc if u dont mind, may i know ur good name?
Doctor :  
dr shekar
Doctor :  
is there anything else i can help you with
User :   Thnaks Shaker for the help, i will follow ur steps, and if required i will come agin to seek ur assistance
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Doctor :   thanks for consulting healthcare magic
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User :   sure thanks again byeee...
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