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Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Excellent Posted in: Getting Pregnant
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Doctor :   Hi
User :   Hi this is
Doctor :  
How can I help you?
Doctor :  
Pl proceed
Doctor :  

User :   this is regarding sexual queries
User :   recently got married
User :   got married 2 months back
User :   planning for child
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   can you please guide me what precaution and tips to following before starting
User :   i am planning for healthy and good child
Doctor :  
Are you having regular sexual intercourse
User :   may be silly question
Doctor :  
with your wife?
User :   no
User :   yes
Doctor :  
Do you have some problems with sexual life?
User :   no problem
Doctor :  
Good
User :   recently got married
User :   now looking for child
Doctor :  
If you are having regular sexual intercourse you hve to keep few things in mind before planning for child
User :   ok
Doctor :  
You have to know whether your wife has regular normal menstrual cycles?
Doctor :  
The menstrual cycles happen for women once in 25 to 35 days
Doctor :  
They can predict their next mensus ( periods)
User :   ok
Doctor :  
So if your wife has regular menstrual cycle, most of the women have 28 day cycle
User :   ok
Doctor :   The day the women release egg ( ovum) is Day 14 of the cycle
User :   ok
Doctor :  
Say if your wife started menstruating on Jan 1st
User :   ok got it , do i need to take any medicines before doing sex
User :   ok carry on
Doctor :  
The Next periods will happen on Jan 28th
Doctor :  
The egg will be released on Jan 14th
Doctor :  
that is the mid day of the cycle
User :   on got it
Doctor :  
IF she has 30 day cycle the egg releases on Day 15
User :   ok
User :   u want us to start on 15
Doctor :  
Now the foetus ( early stage of baby) formed when the male sperm meets the female egg
User :   ok
Doctor :  
So if the women releases egg on Day 15th
Doctor :  
The sperm should meet the egg on Day 15th or Day 16th
User :   ok
Doctor :  
Since the lifespan of the egg is only one day
User :   ok
Doctor :  
The lifespan of the sperm is upto 48 hours
Doctor :  
Hence one has to have regular sexual intercourse four days before the day of the ovulation and till the four days after the ovulation
User :   ok
Doctor :  
Say in the above example you have to start from Jan 11th to Jan 19th
User :   what about medicines, shall i take any medicines before sex
User :   ok got it
Doctor :  
You should not take any medicine
User :   ok
Doctor :  
Since you are planning for pregnancy, your wife should take FOLIC ACID supplements
User :   if i take any medicines like suhagra , is there any problem for child
Doctor :   Tab FOLATE 400 micrograms is to be taken once a day
Doctor :  
from now on
Doctor :  
by your wife
User :   any side effects
Doctor :  
this helps in reducing the birth defects of the baby
Doctor :  
Folic acid is a vitamin supplement
Doctor :  
so no side effects
User :   ok
User :   can i take any medicines to increase sexual feeling
Doctor :  
No need
User :   if i take will they any problem
Doctor :   Too much of medicines shall not make the sperm healthy
User :   ok got it
User :   Tab FOLATE 400 micrograms daily right
Doctor :  
yes
User :   or only that period
Doctor :  
Daily from now on
User :   ok
User :   one more query
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   3 days back while doing sex, my skin got cut and went back
User :   i am unable to express
Doctor :  
ok
User :   make sence?
Doctor :  
Did you bleed?
User :   no
Doctor :  
Did it come back to the original position?
User :   no
User :   better that first day
Doctor :  
Do you have pain during erection?
User :   sorry erection?
Doctor :  
Penis when stimulated
Doctor :  
it erects
User :   if it touches then little bit pain is coming
Doctor :  
Ok relax, avoid sex for one to two days
Doctor :  
from now
User :   ok
Doctor :  
let it come back to original position
Doctor :  
You can have foreplay
User :   this happen 4 days back
User :   ok
Doctor :  
Since the early sexual life is painful it can increase the pain
Doctor :  
So she can stimulate you and your penis
User :   ok
Doctor :  
and your guys can carry on the foreplay
User :   any medicines/sprays for this
Doctor :  
and you can ejaculate the sperm as usual
Doctor :  
No need, you can just apply LACTOCALAMINE with cotton
Doctor :  
over the skin of the penis
User :   ok
User :   just want to confirm ..... Tab FOLATE 400 micrograms per day....without any side effects
Doctor :  
yes
User :   we will blindly follow
Doctor :  
You may ask just folic acid
Doctor :  
to the chemist 400 micrograms
User :   what is this folic acid
User :   is this different to FOLATE
Doctor :  
It is a vitamin to be taken by the female in case the couple is planning for baby
Doctor :  
Folate is the chemical form of Folic acid
User :   ok
Doctor :   Is there anything else I can help you with?
Doctor :  
Please fill the feedback form say done when done
User :   what about time....is it completed
Doctor :   Which time?
User :   i selected 30 minutes chat
Doctor :  
Do you mean chat time?
User :   that it for now
User :   may i know your name
Doctor :  
You may continue the chat for 30 minutes
Doctor :   User :   hi
User :   i am
User :   he suggest me
Doctor :  
Ok
Doctor :  
Please fill the feedback form say done when done
User :   thank you for your support
User :   sure
Doctor :   No problem you can always chat with me in case of any health queries
Doctor :  
in your family
User :   done
Doctor :  
Thanks for consulting me.
User :   u said some thing
Doctor :  
Bye for now.
Doctor :  
you can always chat with me in case of any health queries
User :   in your family?????
User :   ok got it
Doctor :   Hello
Doctor :  
are you with me?
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