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Piles problem, stress due to personal problem - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   how can i help you
Doctor :   r u there
Doctor :   I have to close this window since there is no response from your side, please get back to us if you need further medical advice. We are available from 9AM to 9PM IST everyday.
User :   GNB
Doctor :   please go ahead with ur medical query
User :   I am adicted to a feeling which is not going from my mind
Doctor :   ok
User :   i am married and got one son
Doctor :   could u specify what is the feeling
Doctor :   ur addicted
Doctor :   For Administrative and health purposes, Please provide these details -Age: Gender: Occupation: Location: Marital Status: Dependents: Yes/ No.
User :   i happened to move with a person friendly
Doctor :   ok
User :   i moved with him in a good friendship manner after some days he himself told
User :   it is a love
Doctor :   ok
User :   but i didnt agree to that..
Doctor :   k
User :   basically my life is full of tensions.. moving with him just sharing all my sorrows gave me good relif
Doctor :   ok
User :   i strongly dont want to move with that person again since its is not good to my married life
Doctor :   ok
User :   so many times i tried but i could not succeed.. same thought is coming i should talk to him
Doctor :   u can talk to him as friend
Doctor :   no harm in that
User :   infact it is 4 years now... i get severe nerve pain
Doctor :   tell him ur not comfortable other than being friend
Doctor :   ok
User :   he is not good. he has turned in other way.. means sex which i cant
Doctor :   ok
User :   i tried .. knowing his nature i was there for 3 - 4 months... without talking but suddenly if i think about him.. i loose all my responsibitlies...
Doctor :   ok
User :   in fact i am afraid i will become mad... pls help me to get rid of this..
Doctor :   where are located and how old are u
Doctor :   For Administrative and health purposes, Please provide these details -Age: Gender: Occupation: Location: Marital Status: Dependents: Yes/ No
User :   i am bangalore and my age is 38
Doctor :   ok
User :   working in a pvt concern as secretary
Doctor :   we can arrange for cousellor
User :   he never calls me or sends me any msg.
Doctor :   who can talk to you and help you overcome ur problem
Doctor :   ok
User :   i only call every time..
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   dont worry, whatever happened in the past is past
Doctor :   move ahead in ur life
User :   i feel relaxed...but knowing that what i am doing is wrong.. then also i could not control my feelings
Doctor :   make a decision which is in ur best interest
Doctor :   if u dont like or have any feeling convey it to him
Doctor :   if u wish top continue the friendship with him
Doctor :   u talk to him
Doctor :   r u able to follow
Doctor :   We offer to fix up an appointment with the specialist to talk to you over phone or chat with you on internet. That will be a paid service.
User :   he never compels me for anything even talking
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Doctor :   confirm ur details
User :   tks
Doctor :   ur welcome
User :   then i have one query
Doctor :   dont worry, try to divert ur attention
Doctor :   on work or family
User :   i have piles problem frequently
Doctor :   since when
User :   for past 10 years but not much... i dont take any tablets
Doctor :   r u taking any treatment or were suggested any treatment
Doctor :   ok
User :   maximum i will take care my self means food habits..
Doctor :   ok
User :   can u suggest some tablets pls
Doctor :   tablets are temporary relief
User :   then ?
Doctor :   if ur looking for permanent solution
User :   yes
Doctor :   i would suggest u to consult a surgeon and go by his advise
Doctor :   i will give u tips to overcome the problem
User :   ya pls
User :   pls tell me
User :   doctor r u there
Doctor :   yes
User :   tips ?
Doctor :   drink 8 to 10 glasses of water
Doctor :   increase the amount of fibre u take
User :   ok then
Doctor :   also have a banana after food
Doctor :   avoid straining at stools
Doctor :   i mean when passing stools
User :   ok
Doctor :   Sitting in a shallow bath of hot water for 15 minutes several times a day, will reduce the pain.
Doctor :   In the case of a pile protruding from the back passage, which has become swollen and painful, a day's bed rest with an ice pack applied to the anal area should be helpful
Doctor :   A pack of frozen peas wrapped in a tea towel is ideal for this purpose. Never allow the ice to come directly into contact with the skin and only use this treatment for 20 minutes in an hour for a limit of three hours a day.
User :   ok
Doctor :   i would still suggest u to consult a surgeon at the earliest
Doctor :   earliest u seek a medical advise better will the treatment outcome
User :   ok doctor,
Doctor :   anything else u want to know about
User :   yes
Doctor :   please go ahead with it
User :   face cream ollay which has come newly will reduce black spots on face ?
User :   i am using fair one
Doctor :   i didnt get you
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   black spots will fade away by itself
Doctor :   over the periods of time
Doctor :   u can use this
User :   which one ?
User :   is olay is good ?
Doctor :   any creams r u using it now
User :   ok doctor
Doctor :   r u using any cream as of now
User :   yes fair one cream
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   which one
User :   FAIR ONE
Doctor :   r u finding any improvement with it
Doctor :   u can join yoga
Doctor :   it will give u glowing skin
User :   ok
Doctor :   anything else u want to know about
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting Health care magic. Bye for now. Please refer your friends to our service
User :   tks doctor
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