Penis not getting erected while intercourse. Reason? What do i need to do? - Online Doctor Chats
Hello. Good afternoon
Is this XXXXX?
Very Good afternoon to you
Hope you;re doing well.
Please proceed with your query
Dr. XXXXXXX, my query is more about my personal problem. I have been married for more than a year now. No kids..
However, our (with my wife) has been for more than 5 years.
we have very good relationship.
But since our marriage, our sexual is not healthy
we never had successful intercourse since or every in our realtionship
my wife is very concerned about this
But why? Is there any reason?
I have tried to intercourse, but never successful.
Do you have normal erections?
either am not interested or when i try to intercourse my pennis is not hard to get intercourse. pennis loses the hardess when i intercourse
erections happens only when with masturbate
Please do not mind to answer my few more personal queries
please go ahead , am happy to answer them
Do you masturbate normally?
How long are you married?
May I know your age?
Are you in a forced marriage?
it has been 1.5 year
its our love cum arrange.
i really care for her and love her
but never able to express sexually or physically .
am 28 year old
Is she also feeling the same way?
masturbate works for me always
she is very our sexual or passionate about about her
I used to feel her or feel sexual towards her prior to our marriage.
You should try and get this sexual feeling towards her
but since then i have lost.
am not sure how to start off.
what way i should think to get myself back as i was before marriage .
do you have sexual feelings toward women in general?
yes. am very excited about sex, girls, in general.
The solution is very simple
never been able to deliver in intercourse.
You just need to practice them
i will be happy to know and practice them , i just need to know what needs to be done
You have to first express your love towards your wife
You may start gifting her few things
Take her out, give her flowers, talk to her more
we do talk, should we talk more about sex?
Yes, it helps
Good foreplay is important
Even though if you both do not have intercourse, do foreplay every other day
Just to keep your sexual life active
what to do more to make intercourse happens?
Good penetration is important
Try to insert and be inside her vagina for sometime
it just losses hardness.
You need to continue your mental stimulation
Do not get defocussed
I agree with you.
Also, remove any stress
Please think only about her and think about satisfying her and also you should get satisfied
If you think that you want to be satisfied then you will satisfy her and you will be satisfied too
Are you following me? If not please ask me again, I shall explain
Yes, am following you.
I should start practice them. you're correct.
XXXXXXX basically, you think that you want the happiness
and you will do it to get your way
Ultimately your happiness is important
Do you agree with me?
Very true. I have given everything. Happiness is very important for me
is this my problem that am thinking happiness is very imp? not bothering about sexual life?
So, please be free and free of tension and, it is your wife and you love her, so you should also be happy in your sexual life
You should be happy in everything you do that is important
At work, at home, with friends and with family
It is the way you think
Dr. XXXXXXX you have understood what was in my mind. Am sure I will take this as a point to start
There is nothing wrong in being happy in your sexual life too
It is your right
Yes, restart your life
And you will be happy
Your wife also will be happy
You will have a happy family
I have become very emotional now.
Just practice these continuously
Being emotional is also good
Just little bit of correction is required from us
changes to be brought in life
Try to have a active sexual life
Don't feel disheartened anytime
I agree with you. I will start practice them and will do whatever to achieve this.
And you should adapt it as a lifestlye
I am sure, you will have a happy and fulfilling sexual life and marital life
Should be part of life. I can sense that you have given same thoughts as I was before marriage.
Nothing changes after marriage, we change the way we think
And we take our partners for granted
Thank you very much for all your help. Its not that just you have done the job but you have give new sense of happiness in my life.
so, life gets monotonous
you are correct. I should be in this way.
thats nice XXXXXXX
I wish a very happy life always
I can feel that sense now.
Is there anything else I may help you with?
Thank you very much.
Thanks for consulting me
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