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Pain in vagina during intercourse, inability to consume marriage - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   hi
User :   hello
Doctor :   how can i help you
Doctor :   please go ahead with ur medical query
Doctor :   r u there
User :   i woudl like to know your speciality.......since i woudl be interested in talking to sexology specialist or gynaeocologist,
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   I am a General Practitioner, I believe I can help you within my expertise and If required I shall recommend a specialist.
User :   sure
Doctor :   go ahead with medical query
Doctor :   For Administrative and health purposes, Please provide these details of the patient-Age: Gender: Occupation: Location: Marital Status: Weight and Height: Dependents: Yes/ No.
User :   i am newly married and having problem with consummation of marraige
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   please go ahead with ur medical query
User :   J 35yrs........ocuupation engr.........location chennai.......married.......
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   r u there
User :   it is not possible to consummate the marraige due to intense vaginal pain
User :   initallly ...........i thought it is due to vaginusmus........which was partially the reson.......we went for counselling........and although partner is quite relaxed........now.......still.........pain arises
Doctor :   u need to relax
Doctor :   and be calm
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   u need to have good foreplay before u have intercourse
Doctor :   she might be shy or apprehensive
Doctor :   u need to make her feel comfortable not to rush into things
Doctor :   take things slowly at a time
Doctor :   rather than rushing
Doctor :   what did the therapist suggest when u went for counselling
User :   that is normal........it so seeems.......perforated vagina........which has....ruptured but is still hanging.....and gets stretched.........
Doctor :   hymen isit
User :   YES
Doctor :   if she is getting severe pain
User :   we went ot a gyneacologiest.......who examined and said.......hymen is normal........
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   u can use vaginal lubricants
User :   yes..........by putting figner......i think the hymen is stretching.........but not breaking.
Doctor :   then u need to consult a gynecologist
Doctor :   she might need surgery
Doctor :   small surgery
Doctor :   if the hymen is very thick
Doctor :   it can done in the opd
User :   yes..........i feel so..............is my.......intuition correct
Doctor :   u need to consult a gynecologist
Doctor :   anything else u want to know about
User :   i am not a medical person.......
User :   the gyneacologist we went said everythign is normal..........
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   did she under the surgery
Doctor :   minor procedure
User :   whom do we approach for second opinion..sexologist or gyneacologist
User :   ??
Doctor :   gynecologist
User :   it would take how much time.........this surgery.
Doctor :   if she says there is no medical problems
Doctor :   then u got to seek a counsellor help
Doctor :   YYYY@YYYY
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Doctor :   confirm ur details
User :   wel.the furst gyneacologst was a lady doctor......whoc examined.......and said no medical problem.....hymen is normal
User :   but then it shoudl not be stretching .......???
User :   right??
Doctor :   yes it can
Doctor :   it will strecth
User :   i am able to manuvaroe 3 fingers.........by stretching........the hymen.....
User :   it is ruptured
Doctor :   slowly it will expand
Doctor :   u need to patient
Doctor :   yes it will ruputure
User :   but not vanicshed.......still.......the vagine is completely covered
Doctor :   will pain for sometime
User :   it is 7 months .......
User :   it shoudl have been ruptrured by now.........by fingers and penis...???
Doctor :   yes surely
User :   but it has not........although.........the penis has never been able to enter.....
User :   due to the hymen..........
User :   only finger........with lot of twisting and turning
Doctor :   r u sure u were not able to penetrate
User :   YES
Doctor :   u can consult a gynecologist , take a second opinion
Doctor :   only after clinical examination
Doctor :   one can confirm it
User :   that is what i think.......also.........
Doctor :   if she has adjustment problems
User :   how does one know a hymen is too thick.........and is strectching INSTEAD of BREAKING........
Doctor :   then it will take time
Doctor :   u can see the bleeding first time
User :   hymen.............broke........since i saw the hymen........intact.........first
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   then it has broken
User :   then after some days..........of trying..........it broke in middel...........but remiained.........attached to side walls
Doctor :   it is more of psychological
Doctor :   then
User :   .........attached to side walls
User :   there is a U shaped hole.
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   i need to clinically examine to confirm
User :   which never seems ot increase....even after lots of lubs........fingers
Doctor :   i would suggest u to consult a gynecologist
Doctor :   ok
User :   sure.thank you
User :   any particular gynaecologist you can recommend?
Doctor :   where are u located
User :   chennai
Doctor :   we are based in bangalore
Doctor :   and operational in bangalore
Doctor :   as of now
User :   ok
User :   any doctorin bangalore........sicne we vist
Doctor :   i didnt get u
Doctor :   You can use the search a doctor/hospital feature on our homepage to find a gynecologist If you wish, we can fix up your appointment with a doctor in your area.
Doctor :   The number is 91-80-0000 (Mon - Fri, 12PM to 6PM)
User :   i am from bangalore.........so we visit for 3-4 days.....so any good gynaecologist...bangalore would be also ok
Doctor :   this helpline number
Doctor :   when u come down to bangalore
Doctor :   u can give us a call
Doctor :   we will help u fix appointment
Doctor :   but keep us informed before
Doctor :   prior to seeking appointment
User :   hospital name?
Doctor :   u can write to us
Doctor :   YYYY@YYYY
User :   the surgery is major.......for removeing hymen
User :   ??
Doctor :   we provide online consultation
Doctor :   minor procedure
Doctor :   as of now
User :   how much time does it take for .......
Doctor :   2 mins
User :   removal
Doctor :   yes
User :   any post oprative care required??
Doctor :   5 mins at the max
User :   can be done by any gyneacologist??
Doctor :   that the gynecologist will explain
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   it is done by them
Doctor :   YYYY@YYYY
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Doctor :   confirm ur details please
User :   then...........IT IS NOT BEST TO REMOVE THE HYMEN..........IMMEDIATELY.....WHAT HARM CAN IT CAUSE anyway it would have to GO
User :   ???
Doctor :   infection can set in
User :   details are ok.........mobile is opeational only when i vist banglore....
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   type in small letters
User :   but then it has to be done .........if deemed necessary???
Doctor :   there is no harm
Doctor :   in that
Doctor :   if hymen is thick
Doctor :   many women get it removed
Doctor :   it will not affect ur sexual life any way
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   Is there any thing else that I could help you with?
User :   so suppose...............i decide ......... to get it removed.........i can stright away go to a gyneacologist and ask her to????
Doctor :   u can also remove
Doctor :   it is usually thin membrane
Doctor :   if ur not able to break it
User :   how?
Doctor :   u can consult gynecologist
Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   how can i help you?
Doctor :   hi
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