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Pain during sex,using lubricating gel - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :  
How can I help you?
User :   Hi
User :   I need to talk to a gynechocologist
User :   is she available?
Doctor :  
I am a General Practitioner I believe I can help within my expertise.
User :   well ok..i have been married since 6 months
User :   but still unable to have intercourse with my husband
User :   it pains a lot and i back out
User :   i have consulted a gyny twice
User :   she gave me a lubricating jell as wel
Doctor :  
ok
User :   but still i am unable to bear the pain
Doctor :  
Are you interested in the sex?
User :   yes i am
User :   and i am v.comfortable with my husband
Doctor :  
Most often the fear of pain makes the female involutarily contricts the vaginal muscles and makes the intercourse more painful
User :   yes..tht is the prob
Doctor :  
You need counselling
Doctor :  
from a Sexologist or Sex counsellor
Doctor :  
If the Gynecologist would have ruled out the medical couses of pain
Doctor :  
this is the next step you have to take
Doctor :  
Sexologist will try to allay your anxiety
Doctor :  
This can be in the form of couple therapy too
Doctor :  
Please consult a sexologist
Doctor :  
Are you with me?
User :   yes
User :   there is no other way?
Doctor :  
You have tried all the other ways
User :   i mean somethng in whch i cannot feel anythng like some anesthisia types
User :   if once it happens
User :   then wont b a prob next time i supose
Doctor :  
The local anesthetic can cause numbness to your husband too
User :   oh
Doctor :  
and they do not satisfy the sexual desire
Doctor :  
and more problems
User :   ok
User :   what will b the role of sexologist?
User :   wll she give me some medicines or what?
Doctor :  
Counselling
User :   only counselling will do??
Doctor :  
and he can demonstrate the ways you can avoid the pain
User :   ok
User :   does this happen to many girls??
User :   i mean is it a common problem?
Doctor :  
Yes this is a common
Doctor :  
Nothing to worry about
Doctor :  
You will be alright
User :   my gyny asked me to try to insert my fingers as well..i was able to do tht
User :   my hymen is already broken
User :   its only at the ime of intercourse somethng pinches my badly nd i backout
Doctor :  
That is apprehension
Doctor :  
I am talking about
User :   apprehension?
Doctor :  
A small psychological component involved in there
Doctor :  
hence the role of the sexologist
User :   ok
User :   i will do that
User :   Thanks
Doctor :  
Good
Doctor :  
Is there anything else I can help you with?
User :   yes 1 more thing i want to ask
User :   i dont think i have any infction but while intercourse my husband tells me that my vagina smells
User :   *stinks
Doctor :   Is this before the consultation with the Gynecologist or after that

User :   before and after
Doctor :  
Did you mention that to the Gynecologist
User :   yes, she gave me a shmapoo for cleaning while bathing
Doctor :  
Ok
Doctor :  
IS it not controlled?
Doctor :  
What jelly were you using?
Doctor :  
and what shampoo?
User :   only during intercourse i fell
User :   otherwise its fine i supose
User :   Lubic jelly
Doctor :   and what shampoo?

User :   lavtocy shampoo\
User :   lactocid shampoo
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :  
She was not thinking that the lacto bacillus is causingn the problem
Doctor :  
Since how many days are yu susing and are you regular in its use?
User :   no not v.regular.. just once a week or somethng
User :   initially i used daily for a week
Doctor :  
ok increase the frequency
User :   ok
User :   that will make it fine?
Doctor :  
and do use cotton undergarments
Doctor :  
Wash teh external genitalia before going to bed
User :   yes i use cottot garments only
User :   ok
Doctor :  
That is fine
User :   i will do that
User :   Thanks Doc
Doctor :  
Pl fill the feedabck form
User :   filled
User :   Thanks
Doctor :  
Bye for now Please follow up with me
User :   sure
Doctor :  
Have a great day !
User :   Thanks Doc
User :   bbye
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